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Goodbye Cruel World

Not gonna do it, wouldn’t be prudent (in my best impression of a Dana Carvey impression).  I shall not abandon my family, friends, and country to slip into the hypnotic, sucking vortex of failed progressivism.  So what’s with the GCW title?  It’s probably not what you think.   As a tribute to the old-timers, I say read on past the fold…

My wife has been battling breast cancer and winning, she is truly indomitable.   I try my best to provide her with the upmost care and support possible while juggling a hectic work-related travel schedule and my own recovery advocacy efforts, but simply do not have the time to hone the skill set and network necessary in politics to move beyond exercising my power to vote and persuade at the local level.  Both of these actions are critical to the cause though watching the march of events on newscasts from hospital to hotel lobby often leaves me stressed- as if my personal effort is not enough. If not for RS, I fear this stress would bloom or maybe transform into the resigned impotence and the feigned apathy so common among Americans looking to better emotionally manage the plight of family and country.

I use RS as my force multiplier, through my small contribution, advice and support I facilitate those FOCUSED and ABLE to do the necessary heavy lifting to move our country forward.   For the most part I have enjoyed what little time I’ve had interacting in the blog/gathering continuum with most of the movers and shakers of RS; they are approachable and on most subjects open minded.  There is not a single one of them that has the same exact views as I do on every issue- but that is a good thing.  Most of them are like me and enjoy both intelligent and yes, catty verbal/post sparring where egos are sure to clash. Friction is inevitable when you put more than one DOER in a room.  They are the apex of the now great weight and a broad base of RS.  This site is not only a solid anchorage, safety from the sucking vortex, but now a “gathering” point for offensive operations.  As a single brick of this base I may seem insubstantial when compared to those in the limelight… but without me and thousands like me, they too would be a mere shade.  With this in mind it makes it easier for me to play a supportive role because in essence they are doing my bidding.  So I want strong personalities with unabashed advocacy on the FP, not milquetoasty appeasers.

There have been times when I was a very active contributor on RS and other sites I became introduced to through RS- now I rarely do more than a morning or late night scan although I know one day I will resume an active campaign.  There are others now I know very well or at least run in the same circles that have become themselves DOERS, and may perhaps be chafing under the weight of those at the RS apex.  To these I say not good riddance, but good luck.  I hope that you do leave, that you set up an equally effective force as RS, and that in time you too become an anchor for conservatism.  Maybe then together we can all say goodbye to the cruel world of progressive enslavement and hello to a new morning in America.

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  • Dan McLaughlin

    If I did not give you the traditional sendoff for diaries with this title:

    But that said, BBK, you’ve been good people here and you will be missed. Prayers for your beloved wife.

    • BooBooKitty

      I intend to remain a RS regular for as long as they will have me. This diary is more of a sendoff for those that have left, just wishing them luck in the future for we all will be much better off fighting for a common cause (even when on different teams) rather than each other.

  • gekster

    If it weren’t for all of us insubstantial bricks, there would be no base for the stage for those in the limelight.
    We bricks are just as important as those in the limelight, as they would not have a solid platform to stand on without all the bricks needed to hold it up.

    Don’t sell yourself short. ;)

  • http://vladenblog.tumblr.com Vladimir

    Yep, that’s about it.

    The image of The Cave is about all that stuck with me after having been forced to read Plato’s Republic in 9th grade. (Or was it “Plato’s Retreat”?… But I digress…)

    There’s a real imitation-reality quality to the blogosphere that fools us all from time to time. Reality is often at odds with the electronic shadows we deal with in cyberspace, and we all need to remember that.

    Glad you’re not leaving, BBK. All the best to your bride.

  • Brian Hibbert

    And if I weren’t so pissed today, I’d be wishing once again that I could write as well as you.

  • Bill S

    And happy to hear that she is winning.

    Prayers to you.

  • http://teapartisan.wordpress.com Socrates

    You’ll be back when the time is right.

    Godspeed.

  • lineholder

    hit home for me. God be with your wife and with you, and I’m glad she’s overcoming it.

  • Flagstaff

    to use a trite, hackneyed, and worn-out phrase. Mrs. Flagstaff is very willing to talk to anybody about her treatment.

    My address is at my profile. Drop me a line and we can all connect if you or your wife would like to. Anytime.

  • BooBooKitty

    thanks Brian.

  • BooBooKitty

    I remain in awe at the amount of support,especially from survivors. I ran the 26.2 Race to End Breast Cancer in Jacksonville last week and was just floored by the turnout. It was simply amazing.

  • lineholder

    Neither did 2 of her aunts, 2 of her first cousins, and 2 of her nieces.

    High risk in my family. Some of us are still here.

    Doesn’t matter who or when, I always praise God for those who overcome it.

  • Leon H. Wolf

    And God bless the work you are doing, as well.

  • rightwingmom52

    and they had totally different types of breast cancer. We even had the genetic testing done so my other sister and I could make some informed decisions if necessary. Turns out it was not genetic. In any case, there are a lot of survivors out there of every variety. I’m praying for your family.

  • The_Gadfly
  • Tbone

    Stay positive and keep the faith.

  • BooBooKitty

    with an attempt to say thank you to each and everyone of you who has expressed concern and care for my wife- so I will do it en masse:

    ——THANK YOU ONE AND ALL——-

    Surgery is done and when the chemo is over she will most likely be cancer free- even now in the second phase of chemo her quality of life has vastly improved.

    I did not mean to make this about her, even though I greatly appreciate the concern. My reason for mentioning her plight is the fact I have more than one full time job and it sure isn’t political advocacy. I hope the RS management remains strong and resolute because I depend on them to be my voice. If there are those that have outgrown the site then don’t try to mute RS to get your point across- by all means spread your wings and fly the nest becoming another outlet for the cause. We can use all we can get!

  • conservativecurmudgeon

    “There’s a real imitation-reality quality to the blagosphere that fools us all from time to time…”

    ..and typing on a keyboard should never be mistaken to be anything more than exactly that: It is an action, but just barely. Getting up, knocking on a neighbors’ door and engaging them in the battle for the soul of the nation is by orders of magnitude more difficult, in that we see the whites of their eyes.

    ..And they see ours.

  • conservativecurmudgeon

    …all praying and sending heartfelt greetings at the news of your challenges? Boy, those right-wingers, they need to tone down the rhetoric, eh?

    I truly, truly get a little misty and choked up when I read some of the threads I’ve come across here at RedState. There are some magnificent, magnificent folks here. But, I guess I should expect no less: America, conservative, faithful…

  • http://theminorityreportblog.com Repair_Man_Jack

    As I remember it 4 years ago, you were one of the first people to read like my stuff here at RS. I hate it when evil things befall good people. Stay strong. Together, you and your dear wife can enjoy many more years of happiness together.

    RMJ prayed it, ergo deus lo volt!

  • janis

    We care, ergo we read, ergo we reco and comment. And we pray for those who need it whether they ask for it or not.

    BBK, may you and your family continue to move forward on this journey that God has set you on and may the road take you to wonderful places to see and do amazing things. Just know that we are here– or somewhere — when you have time to send a postcard again such as this.

    God bless and keep you and your wife safe.

  • Darin_H

    Be well BBK, and lurk at your leisure :)

  • http://www.theprecinctproject.wordpress.com ColdWarrior

    Prayers up, BBK, for your wife, you and family.

    Thanks for all you do.

    Sincerely,

    ColdWarrior

  • Finrod

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