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		<title>The case for closing accounts</title>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I&#8217;ve recently been trying to close an account here at Redstate.com. It&#8217;s not been a very active account. I&#8217;ve not posted frequently and decided this forum is not a particular good fit for me. I&#8217;m sure everyone here has been in a similar boat. You joined a group, signed up for a list, dropped you business card in a fishbowl at a convention and later wished you hadn&#8217;t. And you wish to sever you ties from that group or fishbowl.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I&#8217;ve learned from past experience that it&#8217;s better to close an unneeded account than to have it sitting around collecting dust. All sorts of mischief can be had from old un-used accounts. And once it starts it can be really difficult to stop.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">To that end I tried to close the account. On every other forum, blog, listserv, bbs etc I&#8217;ve ever been a part of closing an account has not been very complicated. Now days it&#8217;s usually as simple as going to your profile section and closing the account. There may be a couple questions about why you are closing it but it&#8217;s pretty painless. Even in the bad old days of the internet (mid to late 90&#8217;s) all it took was an e-mail (or two).</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">My first attempts were to e-mail the contact address. I did that over the course of months. Not with any great regularity but when I thought about it, I&#8217;d ask. Never received a reply.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I did occasionally continue to post during this time so I can understand the admin&#8217;s confusion. Why would this account post if it wanted it closed?</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">So recently I e-mailed daily for a week or so. Again, no account closure, no reply.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I was left with posting to the forum. I&#8217;ve only posted in open threads. I&#8217;ve politely asked to have the account closed. I&#8217;ve given my reasons why though I would think simply wanting the account closed would be enough. When I&#8217;ve been asked about it I&#8217;ve replied politely. The exception to that is when it&#8217;s been suggested that I actively try to get banned by breaking the &#8220;rules&#8221;. I&#8217;ve been a bit curt with those suggestions at times.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I understand I could instantly be banned for dropping the f-bomb, using the n-word, invoking HWSNBN but I chose not to because it&#8217;s crass and childish.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">Instead I&#8217;ve politely and respectfully asked the account be closed. I&#8217;ve been told by at least one admin it can be done. I&#8217;ve not been given a reason why it&#8217;s not. I honestly don&#8217;t know why it&#8217;s not been done.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">It&#8217;s been suggested that I&#8217;m asking for account closure because I wish to “scrub” my posts from this forum. I&#8217;ve pointedly and specifically responded that I&#8217;m not interested in what happens to any old posts. I don&#8217;t know how I can make that point anymore clear.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">And believe me that every post after the first has been done with some hesitation. I&#8217;m not out to tick anyone off. I&#8217;m not interested in a game of “one up&#8217;s manship”. If that was the case I would thread jack, mindlessly post over and over or call out an admin.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">So now I&#8217;m left with posting a diary. This is not fun, though it&#8217;s not hard. I&#8217;ve simply run out of options.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">If anyone has suggestions about how I can get this account closed but would rather not reply here (it&#8217;s understandable), you can e-mail me at redstate2009@gmail.com</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Thanks</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I&#8217;ve recently been trying to close an account here at Redstate.com. It&#8217;s not been a very active account. I&#8217;ve not posted frequently and decided this forum is not a particular good fit for me. I&#8217;m sure everyone here has been in a similar boat. You joined a group, signed up for a list, dropped you business card in a fishbowl at a convention and later wished you hadn&#8217;t. And you wish to sever you ties from that group or fishbowl.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I&#8217;ve learned from past experience that it&#8217;s better to close an unneeded account than to have it sitting around collecting dust. All sorts of mischief can be had from old un-used accounts. And once it starts it can be really difficult to stop.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">To that end I tried to close the account. On every other forum, blog, listserv, bbs etc I&#8217;ve ever been a part of closing an account has not been very complicated. Now days it&#8217;s usually as simple as going to your profile section and closing the account. There may be a couple questions about why you are closing it but it&#8217;s pretty painless. Even in the bad old days of the internet (mid to late 90&#8217;s) all it took was an e-mail (or two).</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">My first attempts were to e-mail the contact address. I did that over the course of months. Not with any great regularity but when I thought about it, I&#8217;d ask. Never received a reply.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I did occasionally continue to post during this time so I can understand the admin&#8217;s confusion. Why would this account post if it wanted it closed?</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">So recently I e-mailed daily for a week or so. Again, no account closure, no reply.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I was left with posting to the forum. I&#8217;ve only posted in open threads. I&#8217;ve politely asked to have the account closed. I&#8217;ve given my reasons why though I would think simply wanting the account closed would be enough. When I&#8217;ve been asked about it I&#8217;ve replied politely. The exception to that is when it&#8217;s been suggested that I actively try to get banned by breaking the &#8220;rules&#8221;. I&#8217;ve been a bit curt with those suggestions at times.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">I understand I could instantly be banned for dropping the f-bomb, using the n-word, invoking HWSNBN but I chose not to because it&#8217;s crass and childish.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">Instead I&#8217;ve politely and respectfully asked the account be closed. I&#8217;ve been told by at least one admin it can be done. I&#8217;ve not been given a reason why it&#8217;s not. I honestly don&#8217;t know why it&#8217;s not been done.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">It&#8217;s been suggested that I&#8217;m asking for account closure because I wish to “scrub” my posts from this forum. I&#8217;ve pointedly and specifically responded that I&#8217;m not interested in what happens to any old posts. I don&#8217;t know how I can make that point anymore clear.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">And believe me that every post after the first has been done with some hesitation. I&#8217;m not out to tick anyone off. I&#8217;m not interested in a game of “one up&#8217;s manship”. If that was the case I would thread jack, mindlessly post over and over or call out an admin.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><span style="font-size: x-small">So now I&#8217;m left with posting a diary. This is not fun, though it&#8217;s not hard. I&#8217;ve simply run out of options.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">If anyone has suggestions about how I can get this account closed but would rather not reply here (it&#8217;s understandable), you can e-mail me at redstate2009@gmail.com</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Thanks</p>
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