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Hilary Rosen Takes on Ann Romney (and every other Stay at Home Mom in America)

Last night on CNN’s Anderson Cooper 360, in a stunning admittance of things Democrats think but aren’t supposed to say, Hilary Rosen let the cat out of bag on the subject of stay at home moms.  In reference to Ann Romney, who chose to stay home and raise 5 boys while taking on MS and breast cancer, Rosen made the following statements:

“Guess what? His wife has actually never worked a day in her life,” Rosen said.  ”She’s never really dealt with the kinds of economic issues that a majority of the women in this country are facing, in terms of how do we feed our kids, how do we send them to school, and why do we worry about their future,” Rosen stated.

The criticism against her was quick and reached all the way to the White House, as noted by Erick Erickson this morning.  Rosen immediately went to Twitter to clarify her transparent remarks, stating “When I said @AC360 Ann Romney never worked I meant she never had to care for her kids AND earn a paycheck like MOST American women! #Truth”  She even has a nice background on her Twitter page that says, “My Mom Rocks!” Unfortunately for her, stay at home moms deal with children every day and we can see through desperate attempts to hide the truth.

You see Rosen only said what conservative women know the left thinks.  Raising kids is easy and if you don’t get a paycheck then the work you do isn’t real.  On top of that, you really can’t comment on the current economic situation because you don’t know anything beyond the suburban bubble you live in.  Well Ms. Rosen, let me tell you a little about the truth.

Being a stay at home mom is one of the most difficult jobs in the world.  The fact that a paycheck isn’t involved only makes it more difficult.  At the end of the day/week/month/year, our rewards are intangible and difficult to convey to a world that only speaks in a monetary language.  It is a largely thankless job, wherein you find yourself praying every night that you did it right because you won’t know the results of your tireless labor for 18 years.  It’s a lonely job that, before the internet, I’m not sure how stay at home moms survived.  It’s a taken for granted job that we mostly are fine going about behind the scenes unless we are directly attacked; a mistake that the majority of politically savvy Democrats don’t make above whispers.  The truth, Ms. Rosen, is that deep down Democrats know how difficult a job being a stay at home mom is and that is why they advocate abortion.  They look back at their mothers and shudder at the lifestyle they don’t want to be “stuck” in.  A baby is a real responsibility, a difficult one that can’t be walked away from.  The fact is that most women abort because they think babies are inconvenient and an expense they can’t afford; and I’m not going to link that one because it’s time you did some homework on your own.

For those of us that do choose to do the difficult work of raising children, made more difficult by those in power today, thank you very much, we know intimately the economic struggles of today!  You may have seen us in the grocery store, looking frazzled with screaming children impatiently waiting for us to decide which brand of peanut butter to buy because the prices seem to go up every time we’re there.  I’ll give you a pass on the school thing though.  When we are blessed with a choice (that is we’ve overcome your party’s attempts to bury school choice) we stress over that decision around the kitchen table; which is usually where we work on the family finances, something I guess you aren’t familiar with.  Why we worry about their future though, Ms. Rosen, you should know.  You’re advising the administration hell bent on destroying it.  It’s a lengthy list that I don’t have time to go into right now, screaming kids and all, but it’s summed up nicely by the ever-climbing $15 trillion debt for which each of my children owe $189,000 and counting.  You don’t speak for us, Ms. Rosen, and we aren’t going to be silent on the issue anymore.

COMMENTS

  • Ann_W

    My comment will be, “what she said.”

    • checkmate2012

      Yeah, yeah, it’s what she said…perfect! No culpability as usual.

  • checkmate2012

    What’s the expression for pretending you know nothing about a democratic spokeswoman, closely aligned with the White House and the DNC head DWS, that flubs your next faux attack on women? FISH OR CUT BAIT.

    They put her out there, it still smells bad, and now she’s been tossed out like shark bait to the MSM. How appropriate :)

    And aren’t the Dems the party for women or is it only when they say the right thing? The Dem party is over now.

    Not my most intelligent post I know.

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  • APA Guy

    Our home…our children…the well-being of our family…all due to a selfless, giving super-woman who works far more than I do earning money.

    Shame on this wretch and the scourge who are applauding her. They’ll get an education on the war on women they have waged from now through November.

    Oh, BTW…rec’d highly for this, among other things you said:

    “You don?t speak for us, Ms. Rosen, and we aren?t going to be silent on the issue anymore.”

  • APA Guy

    Our home…our children…the well-being of our family…all due to a selfless, giving super-woman who works far more than I do earning money.

    Shame on this wretch and the scourge who are applauding her. They’ll get an education on the war on women they have waged from now through November.

    Oh, BTW…rec’d highly for this, among other things you said:

    “You don?t speak for us, Ms. Rosen, and we aren?t going to be silent on the issue anymore.”

  • mwmom

    In her comment that Ann Romney has never worked a day in her life, Hilary Rosen is also trying to promote the privileged, affluent, bon-bon eating stereotype of a stay at home mom. That’s designed to build resentment toward SAHMs … the classic, but overhyped, conflict.

    As a current working mom who stayed at home for 10 years, this makes me very angry. All families are different, as are all moms. Some choose to work, some choose to stay home. And maybe some don’t really have a choice. That’s life. But to imply that SAHMs are not working, or are living in the lap of luxury, as our President implied with his comment that Michelle Obama could not afford the “luxury” of staying home, is disingenuous.

    Our family sacrificed to live on one income while I stayed home to raise our three children. We had to go without a lot of things to do this. It was and still is a struggle. I bargain shopped for groceries, we rarely ate out, we drove a 12 year old car and went without new furniture for 10 years. We were not living in the lap of luxury.

    The thing that really gets me is that now that I’m back at work, the cost of gas, food and energy has gone up so much that we still can’t afford a new car, new furniture or to eat out. This new economy is negatively impacting my family, and I feel like our president doesn’t care about me or my family. He and his administration are playing politics with my life. Moms in the US have to take notice, stand up, and vote him out of office.

  • burke

    I’d like to think that the rising import of the female vote will evolve into something more than “You’re against women!…No!…You’re against women!…You’re sexist!…No!…You’re sexist!” Let’s talk about policy issues that impact women. Everyone knows that there are “feminists” on the far left who disparage stay at home moms. They really anger me, as I was raised by a SAHM, and my mother is brilliant and worked hard at raising my siblings and me. But, given that statistically the majority of women are Democrats, it’s just a straw man to paint the whole left with this brush based on the comments of one random commentator. It’s like inferring all Republicans are racists because of Derbyshire. We’re not.

    But hey, I guess it’s good politics. Democrats try to paint themselves as the uniformly good, tolerant party to our racist/sexist/homophobic party, so times like this expose them for what they are: no more flawless in that department than we are (are arguably MORE flawed on the race front in many ways, but that’s a convo for another time). But I just feel conservative ideas can win without all this petty BS. But I guess Romney needs all the help he can get.

  • stan25

    Unlike the people that are supposed to work for us in Washington DC, stay at home moms manage a balanced budget, or least try to every day, month and year. A good example of this, is the Democrat controlled Senate. They are required by the Constitution to write a budget every year, but Dingy Harry and his cronies choose not do so to the detriment of this country.

  • Ann_W

    Very good comment.

  • 6eorge Jetson

    It’s not like the other Hillary looks down upon stay-at-home moms that don’t do anything other than baking cookies.

  • The_Gadfly

    for this lady during the election season? Because she’s just written a message that actually WILL resonate with the moderates Romney keeps claiming he can win.