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     A teacher friend of mine who’s incredibly passionate about her job, told me a story that – better than anything else I’ve heard or seen- illustrates what an Obama Presidency means to the black community. She told of several formerly problem kids who’d had no goals, no work ethic, kids who literally were planning to just collect welfare, who overnight became inspired to study – to try out for better programs, to strive for a real career…immediately after Obama won the election.  ” I don’t care if he knows what he’s doing. To give them that…”at which point she seemed too moved to finish the sentence.  I couldn’t agree with the “I don’t care if he knows what he’s doing” part, but I did come away from the conversation feeling like maybe electing a (partly) black President would, in itself, bring some positive changes. Not enough to make up for the drawbacks of this particular black President…but maybe more than I realized.

       According to Rasmussen, the number of African Americans who thought they had a fair shot in life literally DOUBLED the day after Obama was elected. I have black friends who honestly thought Obama would lose because of racism. I privately thought that was nuts and, as a white chick, it’s easy for me to feel like they shouldn’t have needed Obama to win to believe America offered equal opportunity, but then I remember the chills that went up my spine when saw Sarah Palin was McCain’s choice of running mate-and I could hardly believe she was really the pick. I remember the lump in my throat when I heard the deafening welcome she received at the Republican National Convention. I didn’t expect to feel heartened by Rush Limbaugh’s full throated Palinmania or to respect him more as a result, but I did. It’s not like I was sitting around consciously thinking most of the GOP was sexist- but, before Sarah Palin, I wasn’t sure they weren’t. It hadn’t been tested. I can imagine that might be how a lot of black Americans felt before Obama. Though I get the impression racial identity cuts a lot deeper and is something that – from the outside- it’s probably close to impossible to fully understand.

     Character, hard work and perseverence, faith in God- ideally that’s all you really need but it’s a lot easier if somebody has blazed a trail before you and that can propel you farther. Sir Arthur Conan Doyle was an innovator of detective stories but he was enlarging on an idea of Edgar Allan Poe’s and later – quite clearly, he fed the imagination of Dame Christie.  (Poirot is remarkably similar to Holmes in quite a lot of ways while still – of course- being unique).  Practically all of modern art owes some homage to Picasso who opened up new territory and permanently changed the landscape. Likewise Whoopi Goldberg was once interviewed about Star Trek and said when they cast a black women she went running through the house saying “Mommy, mommy, there’s a black woman on t.v. and she ain’t no maid!” and she knew at that moment that she could be anything she wanted to be and do anything she wanted to do.

      Bill Cosby stood on the shoulders of Dick Gregory. I was surprised to see Cosby included in a book of political comedians. “I didn’t know he did political comedy” He didn’t. Other black comedians talked constantly about race issues. It was expected. That was their niche. Cosby has the audacity to not to limit himself to that niche and he became a superstar. Not in spite of his race, and not because of it. Simply because he was **** funny. But he could do that  because Dick Gregory had already broken the color barrier – so he could move past it.  So why are we going backwards?

    I wonder. Are these kids still feeling the same optimism and motivation that they felt the day Obama was elected? Is it unaffected by months of constant race baiting? When they’re hearing that townhall protesters are showing up carrying swastikas, when they’re told that those who don’t support Obamacare are opposing it because of racism ( especially when a solid majority oppose it – and it could easily shift to an overwhelming majority)  when Diane Watson says people oppose Obama’s policies because they don’t want the “first President who looks like me” to succeed, what does that do to their newly formed conviction?

      I’d like to think that it won’t matter. I hope that the impressionable young minority kids who were (literally) moved to change their lives will continue on their new and improved path. Hopefully they’ve already  seen some rewards from their efforts: the satisfaction of accomplishment,  praise of teachers and parents, ehanced self esteem, a new inherent interest in learning, etc., etc. I hope that’s the case, but it feels a lot like wishful thinking.

       I’m reminded of the response of (at least some) members of the black community regarding Michael Steele. To them it didn’ t mean anything that he was chosen for the extremely important post of RNC chair. The jury was out until they saw how he was treated. So, it seems logical that the thinking would be about the same with regard to Obama’s Presidency and the message – loud and clear- is that Obama is being disrespected and held back because of his race.

    Democrats want to present those who oppose Obamacare as a small, fringe group – but anyone who’s paid any attention has to know it’s a majority.  So what is the message the MSM is really sending to black Americans? That America is deeply and inherently racist and the white folk want you to fail? Play the race card as much as you can and use it like a bludgeon? One thing is clear, they’re definitely sending the message that the color of one’s skin is really, really important.

    I thought we were past that.

COMMENTS

  • http://impudent.blognation.us/blog kyle8

    I have always been in close contact with the southern Black community as I grew up in a town that was about 50/50 white and black, and now live in a place where whites are a minority.

    I can tell you that real racial grievances and the natural animosity that created have long ago metastasized into a deep racism in the Black community.

    Yes, the correct word is racism. Even after forty years of the great society, quotas, war on poverty, and black people reaching every height in every area of society. They still believe that all white people are racists.

    They believe it because THEY HAVE BEEN LIED TO FOR DECADES. By the evil party, the Democrats. Their so called leaders have been selling racial hatred for a long time. They have also been told that they CANNOT do anything without help from a quota, or the party, or a union. Self reliance is a curse word in the black community (a code word for racism)

    When once it was the hopeful dreams of Dr. King. Now it is the hate of Reverend Wright. And believe me, he is reproduced a thousand times in every large black community in the country.

    White people can do NOTHING about this, The change will have to come from black Americans. I just do not know if it will ever happen.

    • bk

      We’ve had generations of blacks indoctrinated that they are nothing without their white massas (AKA The Democratic Party). All the Democrats seem to care about is power in Washington, so if that means millions of black people are trained to live off Uncle Sam’s teat and become wholly dependent on the taxpayers, then who cares as long as that gets them to vote Democrat.

      Having said that, I believe that there is a lot of truth in clowngirl’s comments. Our middle class black friends felt like it was a new world when Obama was elected. I don’t think we whites in general appreciate how important that was to almost all black people, not just poor ones that the Democrats treat like little more than slaves.

      We can only hope that most of those same people see opposition to Obama as opposition to his policies, even though all the racist Democrats and the MSM who like the status quo for the average black person are telling them the only reason anyone could possibly oppose Obama is if they are racist. If they hear that day in and day out, osmosis will have the desired effect on many. Sad.

    • clowngirl

      Not that there are not real problems and serious disadvantages. Going to an inner city school where there is heavy peer pressure to not succeed is certainly a major hurdle (I have another teacher friend who told me about a little girl who got repeatedly beaten up for doing her homework) but these are problems that come from within their own community and that stem from embracing a victim/trouble maker mentality.

      I actually don’t think it’s entirely paranoid for black Americans to think white people want to keep them down. If you look at, for example, welfare policy it’s hard not to think the people who wrote it wanted to ensure a permanent underclass.

      It’s infuriating to me that people like Michael Moore will say flat out ” You aren’t gonna make it. Ever” (I’m paraphrasing just because I can’t bring myself to read through his filth to find the exact quote)

      And yes, they are being lied to. Somebody recently looked at the internals on Rasmussen’s poll of whether people believed those who opposed Obamacare were generally racist and reported that only a slim majority of African Americans believed that.

      A majority were taken in by the media’s lies – which seek to rip open and pour salt on legitmate wounds in the hopes they never heal.

      • mbecker908

        It’s been willingly adopted.

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  • penguin2

    into a deep seated Race barrier. The tragedy, this is a much bigger hurdle to get over. IMO, previous issues regarding race, Jim Crow laws, deep seated prejudices borne out of ignorance were slowly, but effectively being taken down. Along came the Democrats using race as a substitute for class warfare, and there is now a malignancy that I do not know if it can be exorcised.

    Another aspect of the racism perceived by many African-Americans, is the reactive angst that is being generated among the rest of the people. Behaviors that put the meme of you are Racist, you are Bad, because youare White…that can only perpetuate and breed a similar belief from the other side. I do not need to cling to my whiteness, I do need to cling to what is right and wrong. Being treated as if we are guilty, just because we are white, that only creates and encourages more of the same. It is human nature to defend oneself against an assault.

    I like your discussion and relating it to Expectations. That is exactly what it is about. And I can see how electing the first African-American can mean a great deal to a people who have felt marginalized. I did not spend much time thinking on that before, because Obama’s agenda and plans are against everything I believe in for my country. I was judging him on the substance, not the color. You have made some good observations.

    Very thoughtful analysis, clowngirl

  • clowngirl

    …and get back to work on the porfolio that is due by the end of the week (a self imposed deadline) I think of how much my motivation is linked to positive expectation and much of this is influenced by external sources.

    The increase in the number and intensity of compliments and moms in the park asking for my card.

    Bringing my sandwich board down to the lobby for the first time this year with new samples attached and immediately booking a party off of it,

    Uploading a few samples to Facebook. and almost immediately getting a commision to do a “family portrait”

    Looking at the samples of work I saved from back in January and seeing that I’ve greatly improved (having done a few hundred portraits since)

    Small victories – but enough to feed the belief that completing a portfolio will lead to bigger and better things. (Either immediately or down the road) and that I’ve gotten increasingly marketable.

    On the other hand is the stick>

    The little amusement park I’d drawn at over the summer (whenever I felt like it and didn’t have a booking) is closed for the winter and I’m without a venue other than the open park.

    I don’t like the cold and so want to land an indoor venue.

    The economy remains uncertain, much of my old December work (for the financial industry) is likely not to come back and I need to maximize my opportunities.

    liberal policies and attitudes diminish both kinds of external motivation.

  • Jack_Savage

    http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,556400,00.html?test=latestnews

    Seems like they would buckle down and study instead of killing an honors student in Chicago, of all places. I wonder what your friend has to say about that.

    A friend of mine and I were talking about race one day, some time back, and he looked at me with a grim, tight face and said of black Americans, “I just think that they all hate us. Every one of us.” He’s right.

    If they only knew how very little whites cared about “keeping them down”. If they only knew.

  • clowngirl

    Even most black people (that I’ve encountered) that are racist don’t hate ALL white people.

    I went to the Nuyorican one time for “Slam King Night” It’s a famous place, and Slam King is the big night of the year. Anyway, I was supposed to meet up with some people who didn’t show and I wound up being the only white girl in the room. The theme of the night was “the white man is the devil” and the dj wouldn’t call on me when I knew the answer to his trivia – but most of the people there were actually really nice to me. I’m sure they hated some notion of the white establishment but most of them didn’t hate actual white people – at least not this one.

    And, of course, there are plenty of black Americans who are perfectly fine with caucasions.

  • http://moelane.com/ Moe Lane

    Either side Or, by and large, the people that I’ve worked with, ranging from fast food to business research. Or, heck, my sister and her husband.

  • Jack_Savage

    Can you be really nice to someone and hate them at the same time?

  • Jack_Savage

    Maybe not. I would venture to say that after several decades of “the white man is the devil” rhetoric, it would be awfully difficult not to hate white people. Awfully difficult. Just ask Israelis how that sort of theme helps relations between Jews and Arabs.

    If you are not correct, then there is no chance.

  • clowngirl

    Savage,
    You and your friend are indulging in the same type of generalization you are accusing the entire black race of indulging in – except that instead of hating all black people you’re assuming they ALL hate all of us.

    I’ve done hundreds of parties for black families often in predominantly black neighborhood and I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve been confronted with (what strongly appeared to be) racially motivated hostility. There may be a certain amount of innocuous stereotyping – for example if I start dancing – they sort of an amusement until they see I actually have rhythm- then it’s total respect.I’ve gotten huge tips at black parties after dancing full out with the kids for a bit either before or after my show.

    Actually that dancing stereotype is one that, in my experience, does have some basis in fact. There is a lot of appreciation for – and effort put into- dancing. It’s culturally valued. Even young kids often know pretty difficult moves and some have learned so much from t.v., from their parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc, from events in their community, and their independent practice that they can outdance kids with formal training.

    Incidentally my sister in law is Dominican and therefore my little nephew is part black- and I’m quite certain he doesn’ t hate me. =)

  • Jack_Savage

    “You and your friend are indulging in the same type of generalization you are accusing the entire black race of indulging in ..”

    then:

    “Actually that dancing stereotype is one that, in my experience, does have some basis in fact.”

    after:

    “The theme of the night was

  • clowngirl