•low self esteem
•lack of confidence
•uncertainty about ones place within a given peer group
•no personal interests exclusive of one's peer group
•feeling isolated from peers and/or family
•fear of one's peers
•lack of strong ties to friends
•feeling that friends could turn on you
•close bond with a bully
*getting 'Royally' snubbed from a wedding
Obama may be using America's military might as a tool to improve his own personal relationship with America's most intimate international peers, whereas Bush led a 30 nation coalition into Iraq to depose a ruthless dictator who had used a wmd against a city within his own borders,and if you don't believe that Saddam Hussein did this, just ask the survivors of the Halabja massacre; if you can find any.
All we can do is hope it's about the oil.