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Someone tell John Boehner to Stop Crying

This is a short diary but it’s on an important subject and there really isn’t much more to be said than this:

Someone needs to tell John Boehner to grow the heck up and stop crying in front of every camera thrust in front of him, particularly when he’s being interviewed by Lesley Stahl for 60 Minutes. It was OK to see a sniffle here and there in the past, but this is now becoming a pattern in which Boehner just lets loose with the waterworks every time he’s asked to make a comment on something even tangentially emotional.

It’s becoming disturbing.

I don’t have any doubt that he’s a man of deep feelings but it’s getting worse and more acute and more frequent; his inability to keep a lid on it in public is really making me question his emotional stability. Lots of people have deep feelings and it’s a challenge for a lot of people to maintain their composure but they do it – and if they can’t, they find out why and they take steps to bring it under control. Boehner is now coming across as a blubbering, tongue-tied basket case whenever he has to think about something difficult or emotionally challenging. If he keeps crying every time someone asks him a tough question, it might be wise for the Republican caucus to relieve him of his duties and get him some help, because he’s obviously decompensating on a pretty regular basis these days.

America’s in a tough way, Mr. Speaker, and there’s a lot of pain to go around, but we’re not all sitting here with tissues crying all over each other: we’re working to make it better. So pull it together, bro.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/video/2010/12/13/VI2010121301704.html?hpid=artslot

COMMENTS

  • Jim Tomasik

    • kowalski
  • Goldwater_Conservative

    thats why I’m a republican, usually we are the dry-eyed pragmatists and the democarts are always the ones shedding the tears talking about the poor and downtrodden. I dont think I can handle much more of these water works outbreaks from the GOP leader of the house.

    • kowalski

      I can see it happening and it does happen at extraordinary moments but Boehner is making it into a label for himself and he’s not doing himself any favors with it.

      Say what you want about Nancy, she may be the World’s Most Colossal Whiner but she’s not a cryer. Boehner needs to pull it together, because he’s going to have to answer a lot of tough questions and he has a big job to do.

      If Pelosi was crying her eyes out all the time, Republicans and Conservatives would have marched on Washington because she was dangerously unstable. It’s no excuse when it’s one our “our guys.”

      I sympathize with the things Boehner is upset about but I think this crying in front of the cameras all the time is basically a selfish and immature act, usually done by someone who thinks they’re the only one who really “gets it”, the only one who really understand “how it feels.” It’s unbelievably immature. It tells me that he’s a very emotionally selfish person.

      Right now lots of people want to cry, but most of us aren’t torturing the country with it on 60 Minutes. He’s supposed to be the *Speaker*, not the Blubberer of the House. It’s a selfish, childish reaction and Boehner should cut it out if he wants to lead anyone – Republican, Democrat or whatever.

      End of rant.

      • 6eorge Jetson

        With all due respect, cut out the crying act or get off the stage. It was a little “off” on the night of the election, but at the time I thought, whatever, he just got caught up in the moment. But repeat performances are going to play very badly.

        Lead, damnit!

    • kowalski

      Barbara Walters and Whoopi Goldberg have already weighed in on Boehner’s proclivity to wear his tears on his sleeve and they’re not as charitable as I was.

      Some consultant might have told him to be more Emo so he could sound more like Julian Assange, but it’s the *wrong* advice for him to heed.

      Whoever that person was, I hope Boehner fires them and cuts it out.

  • lexington_concord

    -nt