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Gay marriage has been the hot topic for the last few days, following the completion of President Obama’s “evolving” views on the issue.  While his announcement of support for gay marriage came as a surprise to no one, it has still served to spark a media uproar concerning the public’s views on it.  31 states have already been given the opportunity to legalize gay marriage– and 31 states have said no thank-you.  I’m approaching this issue carefully; however, I’m using only Scripture to give you my opinion on it.

The Bible clearly states its definition of marriage in many places, one of which is Ephesians 5:25-32:

“(v. 25) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; (v. 26) That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, (v. 27) That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.  (v. 28) So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.  He that loveth his wife loveth himself.  (v.29) For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:  (v. 30) For we are members of His body, of His flesh, and of His bones.  (v. 31) ‘For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.’  (v. 32) This is a great mystery:  but I speak concerning Christ and the church.”

Marriage is a covenant between a man, a woman, and God.  Marriage is holy matrimony in the sight of God.  It is a picture of the way Christ loves His church.  Just as Christ loves the church and would (did) give Himself for it, a husband ought to love his wife in the same way.  Marriage in its intended form is a picture here on earth of the way God loves us– wholly and completely, because He created us and desires a relationship with us.  Marriage is a privilege given by God, not the government.  Therefore, the government really should have no say in the issue of marriage.

Let me make something else clear:  While in the Bible God clearly gives the definition of marriage, He also gives us another commandment in Matthew 22:35-40:

“Then one of them, which was a lawyer, asked him a question, tempting him, and saying, Master, which is the great commandment in the law?  Jesus said unto him, ‘Thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.’  This is the first and great commandment.  And the second is like unto it, ‘Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.’  On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”

Christ commands us to love everyone around us.  He doesn’t say “Thou shalt love thy neighbour…as long as they aren’t gay.”  He says to love everyone.  As humans, we cannot perfectly love someone, nor can we perfectly hate someone (without malice).  However, God is perfectly able to love a person completely, yet at the same time detest the sin they are committing.  As we are called to be more like Christ, we strive to love all people regardless of their sins– because we, too, are imperfect sinners, and no sin is “worse” than another.  In James 2:10 He states that, “For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all.”  That is not saying that some sins do not have worse consequences than others, simply that you are just as much a sinner for stealing a pack of gum as a murderer is for his actions.  All have sinned.  Therefore, we are called to love those who are gay.  Love the people– but hate the sin.  Again, this does not mean you degrade them every time you see them.  It simply means that you love the person but do not condone their actions– it is not necessarily your right to “put them in line.”  In many cases, people you know could say the same of you and me– they love us, but do not love the wrong in our lives.  Makes sense, right?

Should gay marriages be legal?  Well, according to the Bible, no.  Marriage is defined in the Bible as a sacred union, before God, of a man and a woman.  Gay marriage is not okay with God because of this. The legality of gay marriage is the main controversy surrounding this issue, and the answer can be clearly found.

Those are my thoughts (with lots of Scriptural backup).  Why, though, is the media siding with the President so strongly on this issue while the public has clearly voiced their opinion?  As I said before, 31 states have made gay marriage illegal.  How could announcing his support for gay marriage aid President Obama’s re-election hopes?  I don’t think it can.  Quite frankly, he may have just “evolved himself into a one-term President.”  Our country is making clear that our definition of marriage does not need to change.  Why is our President trying to force us to?  I’ll conclude with a quote from Reverend Billy Graham regarding North Carolina’s gay marriage bill (stated before the vote on Tuesday):  “At 93, I never thought we would have to debate the definition of marriage.”

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  • lineholder

    The basic premise for any argument as to how immoral behavior impacts society lies with a comparative analysis of moral standards. Do immoral behaviors exemplify high moral standards or low moral standards?

    If government condones behaviors that exemplify low moral standards, this conveys a message to the people living within that society that low standards are acceptable. In such a case, by the process acclimation, i.e. of behavior modification, the most likely outcome will is that there will be an increase in immoral behaviors.

    Two areas of harm. One is that people may not differentiate. The mindset and mentality of accepting low standards for themselves may not be limited to the original behaviors that were condoned by government. It can spill over into others areas of a person’s life, including their actions in regards to abiding by the laws of the country.

    So, one area of harm is that an increase in lawless behavior could be an outcome of it when immoral behaviors are condoned.

    Second area of harm lies in the damage that is done in the relationship between the authority, in this case government, and those under that authority, namely we the people. As the mindset and mentality of citizens becomes acclimated to asking less of themselves, in a rather ironic way, the need for strong, positive leadership increases. As government, being the authority figure, has been the entity to encourage or condone low standards, trust and confidence in that authority can be lost.

    Take a look at the polls on the confidence level that Americans have in government. Also, what’s happened within our society pertaining to educational standards and outcomes? What about being able to succeed economically in a way that is self-reliant?

    The damage is already happening. How much further can we go and still recover?

    That’s my argument on harm.

    • lineholder

      Within the scope of religious beliefs, individuals can have a second authority that is separate and distinct from government. Based on nothing more than their beliefs and convictions, this can assist them in continuing to draw and hold lines for themselves, pertaining to what is right and wrong, that is separate from what government may define. Those lines can keep them within the scope of law-abiding behavior, which of great assistance to society as a whole when faced with the kind scenario described above. It’s a line of strength, not one of weakness.

      If by some chance efforts are made to usurp that religious authority or to over-ride that religious authority, by act of government, then there is the possibility that those who would otherwise choose of their own free accord to stay within the scope of that religious authority begin to find it increasingly difficult to do so, and this could, in the long run also increase immoral behaviors, including lawless behaviors.

      That’s another harm.

  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    I’m kinda lost in the conversation now since there’s so many new comments, but I saw two things I wan to respond to.

    First, as far as where the line is drawn for government making laws regarding morality, the Founders sort of determined that for us– our currency says “One Nation Under God.”

    • acat

      The earliest phrase, “e pluribus unum” (loosely translated “Out of many, one” or “one from many” – a reference to the many colonies making up one country) does not mention god.

      God didn’t get onto currency until “In God we trust” was added, sometime in the 1850s or 1860s…. and he didn’t get into the pledge of allegiance until 1954.

      I don’t disagree that some morality needs to be law. Murder, vandalism, fraud, child abuse .. these need to be illegal. To J. Sobieski’s point, though .. does being gay and in a committed relationship rise to that level?

      Mew

      • barleycorn

        I think your last question has been answered a million times in a million different way.

        The issue is not that “being gay and in a committed relationship” rises to the level of child abuse. Of course it doesn’t. I doubt you could find more than maybe 1/10 of 1% who would take that position. My 82 year old mother who considers going to the beach wicked (what with all the half nekkid people) wouldn’t make that leap.

        The problem is that when you allow marriage to be redefined then you are also allowing “family” to be redefined. When you allow family to be redefined then you are in essence saying that being raised by your married to each other mother and father is not any better than any other arrangement.

        This equates a stable heterosexual marriage with a homosexual marriage, with single parenthood, with multi-partner parenthood, and on and on.

        So in a culture where there are proper ways to eat, drive, dress, and behave at a ballgame, there would be no accepted proper or best environment to raise kids.

        • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

          But either way, it was added. I agree with barleycorn…I think you’ve been answered because quite a few of us have responded. Gay marriage is the issue being discussed in the article– I was being more specific than my thoughts on being gay in general in this one.

  • Viet71

    I’ve looked for it in math and physics. In art and literature. I’ve caught some glimpses, I believe, but maybe not.

    I’ve turned to Genesis.

    Truth to me has to ring true; hold up under scrutiny; withstand testing. Guess I’m more of an Enlightenment person.

    • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

      ?

      • Viet71

        What question(s) should I ask of myself? Or of, say, my daughter or my ex or my brother?

        • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    • PowerToThePeople

      your belief on the idea that truth will always “ring” true to you, you will be deceived more often then you are enlightened.

  • mikeymike143

    31-0 sounds pretty decisive to me. so let the democrats and libertarians come out in favor of gay marriage all they want, it only shows how out of touch they are.

    • mikeymike143

      the liberals and libertarians opposed amendment 1 and yet it overwhelmingly passed.

    • JSobieski

      same sex marriage viewpoints are very much a factor of age.

      The older a person is, the more likely they oppose.

      Now in a lot of ways people become more conservative as they get older.

      However, that is not universally true.

      If we don’t do something the change the minds of the under 30 crowd, these victories will come undone in 20 years or so.

      Heck, in places like California—they easily be undone in 5 (the margin was only 52.3% and some of those folks have already died or moved out).

      • Bill S

        1) older people vote more than young
        2) there is no evidence that the “more conservative with age” trend will not continue

        The combination of those two factors should offset the mush-brained youth effect.

        • acat

          If you look at polling, broken out by age, fiscal is following “more conservative with age”, but gay isn’t.

          If it were, the change would show up be between 20somethings and 30somethings. As it is, the break is between 40somethings and 50somethings.

          Like I said to gekster, restating Churchill’s restatement of Bismark doesn’t explain this.

          Mew

          • PowerToThePeople

            and yet each and every time there has been a vote, even in heavy turnout years, gay marriage has been shot down time after time after time. Even in CA, who has probably the most liberal populace in the country, it has been beaten and was beaten twice in heavily advertised years.

            I have heard a theory on why polls end up wrong and while it has to do with Obama, the main crux of the point is the same.

            Why does Obama have such high ratings in some areas when they have been hit so hard by his policies. The reason these polls show him up is people tend to worry about appearing racist. So when the person calls them, they answer politically correctly. But once that curtain closes, they vote the way they feel. This is why Obama barely beat a sorry McCain even though polls had him walloping him.

            Same applies to gay marriage. The younger generations and even middle age do not want to appear “intolerant or hateful” so when asked, they make the politically correct answer but vote differently when behind the curtain.

            But to be quite honest. The push is on to make marriage a constitutionally protected aspect of life. We are pushing hard across the country to stop activist judges and gays in their tracks and we will succeed. The whole debate here as to what may happen in 50 years is irrelevant as the law will be set in stone long before that and it is much harder to repeal an amendment than to get on on. It will be a settled matter long before any of your hypothetical scenarios can be proven wrong or right.

          • acat

            Your theory on Obama is both interesting, and probably somewhat correct. Note, by the way, that Obama’s personal-approval and job-approval ratings are *very* divergent, which seems to support your theory.

            The problem with your conclusion that the same thing is going on with gay marriage is that the exit polling from CA-8 shows a generational split… and I’d bet money the same split shows up in NC-1.. if we could get access to the exit polling, that is.

            The reason I keep mentioning polling, PttP, specifically the exit polling that shows a generation gap, is because it indicates 40somethings view this issue differently than 50somethings.

            What this means, PttP, is long-term, unless y’all can answer J. Sobieski’s question and show a clear danger that justifies the government treating gays differently, these laws will be overturned, just as the laws banning interracial marriage were overturned.

            Mew

          • JSobieski

            What the Prop 8 exit poll showed is that age is one of the key determinative factors.

            Under 30, 60% in favor of gay marriage.

            Over 65, greater than 60% against gay marriage.

            The over 65 types will die off faster than the under 30 types.

            If the under 30 types don’t change their mind on this issue, the votes will change. First in places like California, but eventually in other places . . . including very red states.

            We need to learn the lessons from the pro-life movement and apply them proactively here.

          • lineholder

            It was also about race. And I suspect that is part of the reason why there hasn’t been more data presented about the outcomes of the vote in NC, because race and/or ethnicity played a part in the outcomes in a way that doesn’t fit the meme the left is trying to convey.

            Okay, I’m going to make a statement here, and I almost wish that someone with greater knowledge than my own on the subject of statistical analysis would take this one up.

            Polling agencies do not always report complete data. They can say “we polled a sample population of X number of people”. They can also say “X# of Ds support and Y# of Ds do not support; X# of Rs support and Y# of Rs do not support” etc. What they do NOT provide is a complete breakdown showing “We had X% of Ds, X% of Rs and X% of Is in our total sample population”

            In such a case, it is possible to skew the outcomes of the poll and to shift the means that is reported to the public. And it is also possible to make use of the data being reported to influence public opinion rather than simply report public opinion. So the validity of the data is something we should be questioning before putting TOO MUCH confidence in the data being reported.

            For the polls that DO include this information, of the ones that I have seen, the poll outcomes indicate that it isn’t only age that is factor in opinions on this particular subject, but also race/ethnicity.

            Yes, I think we should be taking a more proactive approach on some things, JSobieski. Yes, I think complete polling data that is VALID can help us to try to determine what subgroups within our population might be in agreement with us. If there is a gap of any kind between ourselves and that subgroup of the population, Yes, we should be trying to find a way to bridge that gap. We shouldn’t just let the left dictate the outcomes on issues of this sort by our own lack of initiative.

            NO, I don’t think it is all about age.

          • acat

            is that the non-whites, who are as solid a bloc as the democrats could ever dream of having, vote against gay marriage. Consistently. This is, however, a side point. Minorities are, by definition, small numbers… the age thing is huge by comparison.

            Let’s talk about minority votes for a second, though.

            I’ve pointed out the successes the Canadian Conservative party has had with their slogan “Now you can vote your values”, in attempting to do outreach to Liberal bloc voters who disagree with the Liberals on social issues before.

            This approach can work. It won’t necessarily get many, won’t get enough to overrule the majority … but it requires being able to do effective outreach, and if we could do that, they wouldn’t be a dem bloc, eh?

            Further, we were speaking of a minority bloc. That is, a bloc that is smaller in size than the majority bloc. Today, the minority plus the anti-gays in the over-50 groups are enough to swing this. That will not be true in 20 years … the current arguments against gay marriage are no longer working.

            What J. Sobieski has been pointing out is that either a new argument is needed, or some form of compromise is going to be forced by the majority.

            Mew

          • lineholder

            That was part of what I was trying to say above. Some of the polling data is questionable. It is suspect. It could be used to influence public opinion rather than simply REPORTING public opinion(and not meaning to yell, just emphasize)

            At this point, is there the possibility that we might be seeing a certain amount of “tail wagging the dog” going on where polling data is concerned? Yes, I think there is. If not, complete reports of polling data would be made available.

            Also, when it comes to the issue of age, it is much more likely that people in the 30+ groups are PARENTS. By crossing the gap with other PARENTS with whom we might be in agreement, and by joining force on the point of education, this could have a direct influence on the opinions of the younger age group over time.

          • bogornes

            … if the arguments don’t change significantly. There is basically no evidence out there that the 30 year old gay marriage supporters of 2002 have become 40-year old opponents of gay marriage today (the reverse is often true). Rather, the taboos on homosexuality which existed a generation ago have almost completely disappeared in some areas, making some traditional arguments and the social pressures against gay marriage obsolete. This issue displays classic “tipping point” dynamics. The trend seems to accelerate in more liberal areas, which may make some blue statesdistricts much less likely to win. Hoping that all polling is wrong isn’t a strategy (much of it is explained by likely voter demographics).

          • lineholder

            And as long as the polling data is incomplete, then the validity of that data should be questioned. We have plenty of evidence that MSM will go out of its way to present half-truths, distorted versions of the truth, and out-&-out lies in order to accomplish and agenda their own agenda. Can you say with 100% certainty that we don’t have polling agencies who would be and have been doing the same?

          • bogornes

            I agree that the likely voter skewing and polling booth decisions have led to overstatements of support for gay marriage. That doesn’t change demographic or social trends. Can you say with 100% certainty that younger voters are less likely to support gay marriage when they get older? Of course not. Complaining about polls isn’t really a plan of action.

          • zachv

            I guess one thing you won’t ever be blamed for lineholder is letting facts or evidence have any effect on your opinions. Facts, polls and trends be darned, you and others are going down with the ship, however silly you’ll look in 5 years! :P

          • lineholder

            Here are the facts that I do know

            1) The left wants to fundamentally transform the scope of government in this nation to something more of their own liking

            2) The desire for this change also translates into a need for power

            3) The need for power can be utilized via several different channels, i.e. power in government, power in media, power in education, power in social network (orgs), etc.

            4) There is evidence to prove that the left does an attitude that the “end justifies the means”. For example, are they willing to lie and to be dishonest if it will assist them in accomplishing and achieving their agenda? Yes, they will. How can those lies take form or shape? Via media? Via education? Via social networks?

            5) Can human beings be deceived into believing a lie? Oh, yes, absolutely they can.

            6) I don’t like being deceived by things. So in a case where I think it is possible that various forms of power might be used by the left for this purpose, and if there is a basis for justifying my doing so, I question such things to the hilt.

            7) What I have said about the data validity is true. Go check it yourself.

          • lineholder

            the traditional definition of marriage is that the situation isn’t as bleak as various entities might like to persuade us to believe. However, in saying that, if those people who do support the traditional definition of marriage have a lick of common sense at all, they won’t leave this open to chance.

            In other words, they will heed what a few other people have been saying throughout and begin to take proactive approach in finding a way to continue to protect and preserve that element of tradition.

            For those who are gay who might also want to see our current form of government protected and preserved…what I would say to them is, remember that the left DOES have an attitude that the end justifies the means, and if they can use you to further their own goals, they will.

            Yes, I know that isn’t “nice”. And it isn’t a pleasant reality either. But it is something that should be considered all the same.

          • Melody Warbington (rwm52)

            Just exactly what “facts” or “evidence” is lineholder ignoring? She questioned the validity of polls. Many others do as well – on just about anything and everything that’s ever been polled from who conducts a poll to who was polled. Those kinds of details matter, and if they’re not included, we should question why.

            Do you question her statement about the MSM? Or that the info about the NC vote has been suppressed? And as I’ve pointed out before, how about the fact that 30 (or is it 32 now) states have voted to uphold the definition of traditional marriage between a man and a woman? Are you ignoring these facts and evidence?

            Maybe you should take a look at lineholder’s long posting history and diaries before you make a comment like that again.

            As for trends, I don’t base my values on them or on the whims of those who want to justify bad behavior and poor choices, like the sexual revolution for instance. I base them on a standard that hasn’t changed since creation.

          • acat

            J. Sobieski explains this better than I do, but .. there’s two different types of polling, and it makes a difference which one you’re looking at.

            Polling *before* voting is routinely wrong on this issue – I’d almsot call it manipulated. I’ve written it elsewhere, but my guess is that the polling outfits are looking at minority blocs who are very reliable Dem votes and assuming they’ll vote for gay marriage .. and are surprised when it doesn’t happen.

            Exit polling, though, is a different animal because it captures people saying what they *did*. This is why we’re not seeing exit polling from NC1 – it would confirm that minority blocs aren’t voting pro-gay, and that breaks the narrative.

            The anecdotes we’re hearing about black pastors being hacked off at Obama over gay marriage confirms the idea of the broken narrative, though .. and we do know that exit polling showed, in CA8, this kind of minority-split.

            Further, exit polling is different from pre-vote polling because it lines up nicely with the voting results – that is, exit polling showed CA8 being decided for traditional marriage .. and it did, indeed, go that way.

            I’m making a different point, though. I’m pointing out that the traditional arguments against gay marriage aren’t swaying with the current 40somethings or 30somethings… and that, unless y’all can come up with a new argument to replace the old ones, long-term we’re going to see legal recognition of gay marriage, and a re-definition of the word marriage.

            This is clear in the exit polling from CA8, and it also shows up in a couple other polls that have come across my screen. It’s the kind of generational split we saw around the civil rights movement… and it’s the failure of the old arguments that has J. Sobieski asking for a new argument.

            Failure to make a new argument, one based on a clear societal harm, will result in this being a losing issue for the GOP .. I predict inside of a decade.

            Mew

          • lineholder

            But what we’ve got right now is a situation where random sample polling that may or may not be complete in the data being presented to the public is being used to influence public opinion.

            That does present something of a problem, especially if said data is being used in any way that influences policy decisions.

          • lineholder

            in facing this particular challenge…yes, it is something we’re going to have step up and find a way to do.

          • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

            Is somewhat of an issue within a much deeper one. It’s the trend toward faithlessness in our society that, in my opinion, will eventually be our downfall it it isn’t reversed. If we continue to trend toward removing faith (or even specifically Christianity) from society and our way of life, we’ll end up in a secular nation that has no respect in the world or even here at home. That’s what I think :)

          • avgjo

            no respect in the world or even here at home’

            We’ll be the most failed country on earth.

            Our Founders knew from history that only a moral people are capable of freedom.. The freedom we have historically enjoyed in this country (mostly gone now) is the agent for the greatest temporal success the world has seen. This freedom comes from spiritual principles; it is the root of the success we have enjoyed. Lose the moral fabric, lose the success. Fall from the greatest height to the lowest depths because of your own foolishness. To me, that’s the definition of failure.

          • JSobieski

            without relying on religious/theological tenants.

            The same thing happened in the abortion debates. Early on, we lost ground because we let ourselves be characterized as the side that just didn’t like premarital sex.

            By focusing on the harm to the fetus instead of the immorality of the conduct leading up to the abortion, our 30 and under crowd is more prolife than it was 20 years ago.

            Why are we so determined to avoid learning from the past?

          • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

            the only argument I can think of is that marriage has been an established institution for hundreds of years. Another reason to avoid gay marriage would be because stats show that economies and children both thrive more when households have both a mother and father at home. Honestly, I’m having a hard time understanding why it’s necessary to define the immorality of same-sex marriage without religion. That’s where marriage came from, so I don’t see the need to separate them. Curious, do you have a way to define the wrong in it without religion? I honestly can’t think of another one so I’d love to hear it if you do (not being a smart aleck at all).

            The reason so many younger people are supportive of gay marriage is, in my opinion, because it is so accepted by people with “power” (celebrities, politicians, now even the President, etc.). Why not show them the stats, the long tradition of marriage beween a man and a woman, and the Biblical references defining marriage and let them decide then? Between those three things, I think that’s all that could be necessary. I’m not sure if I answered your question fully, but that’s what I think.

          • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

            I think I slightly missed something. You said that we began winning the abortion debate when we turned our arguments toward the harm that is done to that child rather than showing Biblical evidence. If that’s what you mean (and I won’t doubt that it’s true), the answer I believe you’re looking for on gay marriage is that numbers show that the economy and families both thrive in mother-father, male-woman marriages/homes/families. That’s purely economical/slightly social, rather than religious.

          • avgjo

            I’ve met ‘em.

            But I’m not sure such self-disciplined, self-motivated individuals are very common.

            I don’t know who ‘we’ is referring to. Frankly, my comment wasn’t even made in the context of strategizing or dealing with a specific problem. It was a reflection on the tragedy that would/will be if the country continues the trends Bethany mentioned.

            If we are discussing tactics, yeah, i agree with you. But that should be done against the strategic backdrop of taking back institutions and the culture so that the conversation doesn’t have to be done in the left’s terms forever, or the game played on their turf. We’ve done these two things for years, and we’re on the verge of socialism.

          • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

            :)

          • avgjo

            in your generation, Bethany, then you and like-minded young conservatives need to start looking at careers in primary and secondary education, media (don’t aspire to be the next Rush Limbaugh – we need good, solid, REAL journalists, not more talking heads) and legal (esp. lawyers and judges).

            It will be an uphill fight. Connect with lawyers sympathetic to you guys’ cause. Ya’ll will need them to combat discrimination, esp. in the fields of academics and media. Those are fields dominated by leftist radicals. They will discriminate against ya’ll because of your religion and/or conservatism.. Ya’ll must have a will to fight, for a long time. They will not let go of the prize easily. Ya’ll should also connect your friends, families and political allies for ACTION. Blogs, social media etc. are all too often used by conservatives to break or comment on stories, and not enough for organizing action. Set up phone banks of people you know who are like-minded. 250 calls shouldn’t be that hard for 50 citizen-activists to round up, and any school district, police station or business on the wrong side receiving that many calls in an afternoon will pay attention. I’m sure you can come up with far more and far better ideas.
            Sorry to follow up with this long-winded post. BUT that last comment I made about changing the terms of the conversation and the battleground is very very important, and more details were needed to underscore it.

          • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

            I’m looking at a career in media and/or law and I know other young people like me who are looking at both of those as well. As much as it doesn’t seem so at the moment, there are plenty of us who are in this for the long haul and aren’t going to give this country up without a fight. I’ll definitely keep the thing about getting in touch with lawyers in mind though– I hadn’t thought of that, but it’s certainly going to be necessary.

            I really appreciate all the positive feedback/encouragement I’m getting on RedState! :)

  • checkmate2012

    as seen in 31 or 32 states.

    Hopefully pollees is a word or else I coined it- ha. Trends and votes are what count and con-gay m is on the downslide.

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  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    ? I appreciate it, but……didn’t think that was allowed.

  • PowerToThePeople

    and as members browse through the diaries, many will rec it if they enjoyed what was written, it is breaking news, adds a new dimension to a current topic, and so on.

    Seems a few enjoyed your take on the issue.

  • lineholder

    .

  • PowerToThePeople

    was not paying attention this morning. Not enough coffee and Suger,

    I think the multiple recs have something to do with what is going on with the site right now.

  • acat

    It’s happened before, I’m sure it’ll happen again.

    Think of it like winning the lottery without having to buy a ticket.

    Mew

  • westcoastpatriette

    only teasing, of course.

  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    I mean, I probably shouldn’t complain… :) hope y’all liked it as well!

  • acat

    No offense intended, but .. I think you’re reading a bit in here.

    I’ll stipulate that I’ll accept the bible as history, but .. it’s not my holy book. First question – the same bible also lists several cases of polygamy .. should this also be legal?

    The declaration and constitution were written by a diverse group, as far as faith goes – Franklin, Adams, Allen, Jefferson .. all different .. and the declaration and constitution seek to cover this by letting the States decide on issues of religion.

    Further, marriage, in the bible, didn’t matter to the government. Rome didn’t care, in the NT, the various Jewish government forms didn’t care, in the OT. It was recorded (so and so, son of so and so, yadda yadda) but wasn’t a *legal* thing until the “divine right of kings”, i.e. during the medieval period, when the church records were better than those that the (illiterate, in some cases) warlords (a.k.a. barons, knights, etc.) kept…

    From this, I conclude the argument that the bible says something about government and legality of marriage is in error .. it was an alien concept to the writers.

    I further conclude that the legal aspects of marriage can and should be separated from the spiritual aspects, returning the word marriage to the various religious groups, while retaining the inheritance and child-responsibility parts for the government.

    Further, once this separation is complete, liberals being liberals the “government marriage” will be seen as hollow and rather worthless inside a decade, while “church marriage” – with some work on the part of the church – will be in a much better place for not having to tolerate the *heterosexual* dilution any longer.

    This is my opinion, as an outsider. You’re welcome to conclude that I’m wrong, or – as Bill S. has concluded – that it’s a bridge too far. I respectfully disagree.

    Mew

  • simplethinker

    “As humans, we cannot perfectly love someone”

    Do you have a scriptural reference for this? Certainly no one is perfect but are you certain a perfect love for someone is not possible? What is your basis?

  • aesthete

    Morality and law are overlapping sets, but they’re not equivalent.

    To use a well-known example, the Bible strongly condemns blasphemy and the worship of other gods — both subjects have much more Biblical content dedicated to them than homosexuality, and carry sanction in the Levitical code. Yet, the First Amendment allows both. In a free society, there will always be the need to allow people to indulge their own desires, even if they’re wrong: just as the free market requires that government allow businesses to fail, so too free society entails letting people continue in sin, provided that this sin doesn’t directly harm anyone else.

  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    if I can correctly respond to each of your points :)
    If the Bible isn’t your religious text then it’s obvious you’d probably question some of the things I said. Hopefully I can explain them (coherently :) )

    The Bible does have several cases of polygamy– the first was Lamech (in Genesis 4:19) and many followed– Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon: All of them had multiple wives. While it’s true that they did practice it, that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s right. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that polygamy is right (nowhere that I’ve found, anyway); it just says that marriage is between one man and one woman. Many of those polygamy cases ended up in difficult situations for those living in it (first ones I think of are Solomon and Jacob). So no, I do not think polygamy should be legal simply because it is IN the Bible.

    I know our Founders had different faiths– that’s part of why we’re such a diverse country even now. States deciding on religion is exactly the way it should be– I don’t think there should be a national religion. Not what I was implying at all :) simply that the Founders did recognize the Bible, whether they believed it or not, and since I believe it, I used it as my foundation for this post.

    I wasn’t saying that the Bible says government should not be involved in marriage– I can’t find a place where the Bible mentions government and marriage together. The fact that marriage should not be a government issue was a personal opinion, not necessarily one that I found in the Bible. I have to disagree that marriage should be separated from spiritual issues– the concept of marriage came from spiritual things. I think that religious groups should be responsible for who can and cannot get married– if a group has to decide like that. It most certainly shouldn’t be the government.

    To aestete, not everything in our founding documents etc. is straight out of the Bible. And that’s okay. I feel that’s where our liberties come in– if you don’t believe in the Bible you have the right to disobey what it says, because you don’t believe it and because you have a Constitutional right to do so.

    Hopefully that made sense! :)

  • Viet71

    I agree with your bible interpretation.

  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    was the fact that no human is perfect, therefore we cannot love someone as perfectly as God does. The Bible does say that His love will be perfected in us when we follow His will (1 John 4:16-17). It does say that our love will be perfected through Him. As humans, no, I don’t think we can perfectly love someone unless it’s through His love. But no, I don’t have a scriptural reference saying that we can’t perfectly love someone. Part of that was speculation, the other part was that we can’t love perfectly outside of His love. Hope that makes sense :)

  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    Why should the state have a say in the issue of a sacred union between two people that, really, the government didn’t have a part in when it began (as far as I know, anyway)? Personally, though, the reason I used the Bible as the foundation for this is because I believe the answer to everything can be found in the Bible. My personal beliefs are found in it– so you understand why I used it :) I’m curious though, how could it reasonably be seen as a legal issue?

  • Bill S

    Bible-believing Christians like myself and the person who wrote this diary will vote on issues like this because of the basis of their/our Christian beliefs. Whether it’s legal or Biblical is irrelevant. I could care less what the philosophical underpinnings for morality are or what any portion of the electorate happens to think. My moral underpinning is the Scripture. What others think is their business/problem.

    I am not going to convince any particular individual to change their attitude on issues like this by expecting them to believe what the Bible says if they aren’t a Christian. The Holy Spirit must convict them of that. Evangelism is an entirely different topic that has nothing to do with this. (And by the way, I will not change my opinion on topics such as homosexual marriage because it might draw in millenials/Gen X/Y, etc… Biblical truth is not subject to the whims of culture).

    I don’t expect y’all who are libertarians and/or atheists/agnostics to accept this. But there is a substantial percentage of the electorate that DOES vote based on their Christian moral compass. And it will continue to be so. I personally will not support a candidate who does not hold to these principles. I may vote for them in a general election if the alternative is a thuggish, evil, Socialist scumbag like the current occupant of the White House…but fortunately, Mitt Romney’s policies do not seem to fly in the face of Biblical ethics (at least today). I will continue to vote for candidates based significantly on their moral/ethical/social policies…as social conservatives tend to do. These characteristics tend to dictate how they will govern in all areas.

    Many diarists have posted entries just like this one. I haven’t done so because folks like Bethany and EE have done a much better job than I could. They/we are not expecting non-Christians to suddenly have an epiphany and begin accepting the Bible as their spiritual and moral/ethical beliefs…although the Holy Spirit works in miraculous ways. :-) Arguments such as “separation of church and state”, “this is a secular nation”, blah blah blah – are irrelevant. Meaningless. Christian conservatives use the Bible as their basis for morals, and that will not change. I could no more change this than I could change my own DNA.

  • JSobieski

    in that all law should have some moral purpose, but not all moral purposes should be enshrined into force of law. The one categorical exception to law is a subet of morality are the laws that could be arbitrarily different (not grounded in morality per se) that exist for pure order’s sake. For example, why do green lights mean go and red lights mean stop? Because something has to mean something. Same reason why the law may say a person has X days (instead of Y days) to respond to something.

    Law should be a subset of moral rules, with the administrative guardrails to prevent chaos.

    There is a lot of morality in the Old Testament that we don’t enshrine into law. Blasphemy is an easy example. There are also aspects of the OId Testament that most Christians (and Jews) would say has the morality wrong. For example, stoning adulturers.

    The Old Testament is no basis to form a government, and the New Testament says nothing about ethics beyond the framework of the individual and the choices they make.

  • JSobieski

    The legal status of marriage impacts people in a lot of ways, benefits (private and government), parental rights, agency (the right to bind each other), how property is held.

    A lot of the impact of “marriage” in the legal sense are default rules that people could otherwise create for themselves without being married. However, there are many aspects of marriage in the legal world that cannot be replicated with a well crafted agreement.

  • garfieldjl

    If Gay Marriage is legalized, it opens the door for persecuting Christianity and Judaism due to “hate speech” laws. Then there is the attempt to force churches to host “Gay” weddings.

    The Bible doesn’t condone Homosexuality, nor does the Torah and Talmud, in fact they all discourage the behavior.

    What people do in their own homes is their own business, however when they try to force their views on us then sorry but it has crossed the line.

    When you look at the contraceptive issue and now the gay marriage issue as part of a larger narrative one easily realizes that this is an attack on our 1st Amendment rights.

  • westcoastpatriette

    (and you said it very well) but I would add one more thing in terms of how this Christian (me) debates or discusses these kinds of issues in the public square and that is that I can base my opinion on what I know the Bible teaches on a matter and extrapolate from that that to legalize anything that God warns against will be detrimental to the culture and therefore, not prudent to approve as policy or law.

    IOW, I work on developing arguments for or against an issue without directly quoting scripture but by establishing through research and study why and how it would be bad policy. That way I avoid endless commentary and arguments from libertarians, atheists and agnostics who many times know just enough scripture to be dangerous and simply do not have the spiritual insight to properly understand them.

  • PowerToThePeople

    perfect!

  • aesthete

    to abandon your morals… what we are asking is how you distinguish between areas where your morality is enacted as law (as is the case when it comes to, say, murder or theft) and areas where it’s OK (and indeed, preferable) for people to make their own choices (such as is the case with blasphemy, bending the knee to another god, or Christian charity). Many people accuse social conservatives of wanting to legislate the Levitical code or the image of the perfected Christian. This is unfair, but is it really that much to ask for a consistent basis by which to impose some Christian values, and not impose others? What is your dividing line, Bill, and why is it a good one?

  • avgjo

    Exactly.

  • JSobieski

    then you need to care about framing the case against gay marriage in more broadly applicable moral arguments.

    The alternative is defeat over time. “Irrelevant” and “who cares” are invitations for defeat. Is this about prevailing?

  • acat

    isn’t theological .. far be it from this cat to judge your beliefs. Instead, it is that, during the thousand year time the bible was being written, marriage and government did not intersect.

    They did not intersect until religion was used by european nobility to further cement their right to *be* nobility. “Divine right of kings” is the usual historical buzzword, you can go look it up, but it means that once a king had gotten himself a throne, however he got there, he could claim that it was “God’s will” for him to be there… and that it was “God’s will” for his son to follow him, eh?

    Since we no longer have a feudal system, we no longer need to mix government (legal) and church (spiritual) aspects of marriage. In my opinion, continuing to mix the two is causing more problems than it’s worth.

    Mew

  • Bill S

    I have been saying that trying to decouple marriage from law is pretty much wishful thinking.

  • Bill S

    In virtually every case, Christian conservatives are trying to prevent existing laws from changing for the whims of a degenerating culture. We are trying to maintain traditional values and keep things as is. This is not a matter of social conservatives pushing for change….we’re pushing to preserve values as they hae been for hundreds of years. It is the social liberals who are trying to legislate morality…in the wrong direction.

  • aesthete

    I’m not a social liberal, and I agree with your description of them.

    Until quite recently, the Christian world was not so sold on religious freedoms — they still aren’t in various parts of Africa and the Third World. How do you discern between laws that are “changing for the whims of a degenerating culture”, and laws that are steps in the right direction, even if they are moves away from attempts to legislate various aspects of Christianity into law? Or do you think that all moves away from the Levitical code, once enshrined into law, are changes “for the whims of a degenerating culture”?

  • JSobieski

    How about “we have done it this way for thousands of years”?

    Doesn’t all immorality result in harm? Isn’t that why it is called immorality? After all moral rules aren’t just arbitrary things God wants us to avoid—we are to avoid them because they are harmful.

    Is gay marriage a harm to society or a harm to the couple? Is it the equivalent of not wearing a motorcycle helmet, or he equivalent of getting into a car drunk?

    Of all the public debates that have unfolded online in the past 8 years or so, it is my opinion that the gay marriage debate is the least insighful (on both sides) because there really isn’t a direct clash of points.

    The gay marriage debate is kind of like Obama on supply side economics, both sides just kind of dismiss the other side with largely conclusory language

    I am a social conservative. I have written a few diaries against gay marriage. I can understand why we would take a battle entrenched view when dealing with the opposition, but amongs ourselves can’t we do more?

  • lineholder

    But I’m starting to wonder how we’re ever going to get the difference through to people in a way that allows them to understand how much it matters and how much of difference it could ultimately make for this nation’s future in the long run.

    The liberals have an agenda, and they would absolutely love to turn the entire conversation into an argument of WHO is right and WHO is wrong, painting themselves as being on the side of WHO is right, of course, via their “tolerance” and their “willingness to make progress” and their supposed “desire to do what is best for society as a whole”.

    They won’t even attempt to touch the issue in the context of WHAT is right and WHAT is wrong, except to say “government will define that for you”.

    I was reading an article earlier about how President Obama said that his “evolution” on gay marriage had come about because of what Jesus had communicated about the Golden Rule, i.e. do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

    It’s this “touch-feely” kind of thing that drives me absolutely nuts!!! As if absolutely everything in life should be based on emotions and physical needs and physical desires, and blah, blah, blah.

    For myself, if I’m letting my emotions getting the better of me in a way that might be wrong, or if I’m in the wrong on something, and if it might have implications on other people in a way where it could become that milestone hung around my neck…for crying out loud, I’d rather have someone speak the truth! Even if I don’t particularly like it at the time. Even if I get angry about it. I’d rather know that they cared enough about me and about other people to at least try to speak the truth.

  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    I don’t think the government should be involved in marriage either. I completely agree with your last response. :)

  • JSobieski

    Think about it—creating markets worth hundreds of billions of dollars at the flip of a switch.

    My point is that it isn’t trivial. There may in fact be ways to do it that premote conservative objectives.

  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    I’ve finally seen social conservatives like you (and myself) described in a positive light! :) Just wanted to say that your comments are responding better than I could and I completely agree with you!

    @aestete: I don’t really understand your last comment…?

  • aesthete

    Should every aspect of your personal morality (regardless of where it comes from) be forced on everyone else by government? If not, then how do you tell when it is appropriate to do so?

  • JSobieski

    Stoning adulterors for example.

    Less extreme are things like dietary restrictions.

    Is public debate on such issues to come down to a theological discussion of how the New Testament rendered some (but not all) of the Levitical codes irrelevant?

    Aesthete’s point is that what if you were in a society where there were bad Levitical codes still on the books. Would you defend them on the basis that the change represented a slide into immorality?

  • JSobieski

    nt

  • Bill S

    I am approaching it as a voter and as a Christian. I will vote on each issue for its merits as I perceive them relative to Judeo-Christian values, and I will vote for politicians who do likewise.

    I operate on what I believe is absolute, Biblical truth and I do not care if someone else disagrees. That’s why we have elections. They can vote based on their own standards.

  • http://nextgenerationvoters.com Bethany

    “Should every aspect of your personal morality (regardless of where it comes from) be forced on everyone else by government? If not, then how do you tell when it is appropriate to do so?”

    The government doesn’t have the right to “force” anything on anyone. That’s #1. Second, morality in general has basically the same foundations. If one said “morality” most people would think of the same things– living a clean life and following your faith, etc. If you’re talking specifics, then we’d have to know what specific things you’re talking about.

  • JSobieski

    Not let my children receive medical care? Sacrifice live animals in ways that would be considered crue? Be intolerant of gambling?

    The folks running Iran and Saudi Arabia profess to a legal framework that in their view is about clean life and following your faith.

    There has to be broader basis of individual rights and government restraint than a sectarian or even theological teaching. Religion is about teaching THE way. Good western style government is about teaching A way to resolve conflicts between what different people want the laws to be.

  • aesthete

    If you think it should exist, then you have to accept that it will force people to do things. People don’t pay their taxes or comply with costly government regulation out of the sheer joy of it; they do so to avoid being imprisoned and the like.

    Unless you’re an anarchist, I don’t think there’s any way to avoid the issue of what aspects of morality should be enacted into law and why.

  • conservativerock5

    However, I take that position that government should not be legislating social issues…period.

    The problem is that most conservatives and liberals each want their views pressed on everybody. The real solution is liberty.

    Get government out of marriage. Get rid of drug laws. Get rid of gambling laws. Get rid of laws restricting consensual sex. Get rid of guns laws.

    Society must regulate itself. When government tries, it makes things worse and ultimately fails the original goal.

    Government does have a role in protecting peoples rights. That is why murder, theft, rape, etc. must remain illegal.

    Set the ground rules, and then let people on their own. Leaving people alone does not imply chaos. I do not need the government to tell me how to live. Allowing these to happen does not mean that people will do those things, on the contrary, being free to do things takes the fun out of doing stupid things to yourself. I expect greater social order if we get rid of laws regulating social habits.

  • demsaresatanic

    “there are aspects of the Levitical code that are horrible,” is a strawman, as is aes’ point “should every aspect of your personal morality (regardless of where it comes from) be forced on everyone else by government?” Even assuming that the Scriptural view on the issue were limited to the OT, and it is not, the secular reasons for opposing homosexual marriage remain regardless of your trivialization of Scripture, it is the trivialization of the institution of natural marriage by equating it with homosexual union that is the issue, not forcing

  • JSobieski

    “The Bible tells me so” by itself going to be less and less effective over time.

    Politics (like religion) is about reaching minds and hearts.

    “I don’t care” is recipe for defeat in the long run. Even those in the under 30 crowd who are active church goers think this is a bad issue.

    If we can’t fashion some broad based ethics/morality argument that appeals to people, gay marriages will end up being in all 50 states by the time I die.

  • aesthete

    when — and it will be *when*, not if — the voting public steamrolls all over both your values and the people who try to impose it on them through force. “I’ll force people to follow what I say because I have power” doesn’t strike me as the most stable or moral way to set things up, but what do I know?

    On the plus side, when Christians are jailed and killed en masse by a totalitarian government, you can think of it this way — they’re operating on what they believe is absolute truth, and it’s also allowing Christians to practice humility and longsuffering as the government enforces its mandate to persecute Christians.

    Win-win, right?

  • JSobieski

    To the contrary—it is the most difficult and challenging issue in a Constitutional republic.

    Clearly nobody on this thread supports enshrining all of the Levitical code into law.

    So the question is how do we distinguish the stuff that should be in law, and the stuff that shouldn’t

    So far the only approach put forth is the “no more changes” approach, which is both philosophically and intellectual lacking since it is dependent upon what is in place at the present rather than what is the desired approach.

  • JSobieski

    and why not identify the harm that underlies the immorality?

    Immorality isn’t just a label–not just an arbitrary limitation placed on us by good to see how well we listen. Things are immoral because they are bad for us.

  • gekster

    or are you going on actual votes.
    The actual voets don’t support the polls, where people will say anything to a poller, but then vote diferently.

  • conservativerock5

    Because he takes the correct position of getting the government out of marriage.

    Even though Paul believes in traditional marriage, they overlook that because liberty allows everyone to have their own views.

    That is the winning position. If the older generation continues to try to the evil agendas using government, rather than removing governments jurisdiction, it will be a losing battle because the old generation is going to die out.

    I guarantee if we get government out of marriage, gays lose all of their attention, they lose their public voice, and the movement crumbles.

  • JSobieski

    If something harms others (murder), we have laws to address it.

    The question is how direct is the harm?

    Murder? Easy call. We call agree.
    Nany state dietary requirements? Easy call–all conservatives agree.

    Other stuff is harder. Drugs (depending on the type). Gay marriage (depending on precisely how it is opposed).

    As a guiding principle, we (like Reagan) have the goal of government protecting you from third parties infringing your rights, but not protecting you from harming yourself.

    “Harm” from third parties is a great test, but it doesn’t really answer the question of where to draw the line. Liberals think having income equality is harm in and of itself.

  • conservativerock5

    I was saying that government should not be involved in stopping what you do to yourself, rather what others do directly to you.

    This idea of many conservatives that we need to “maintain a moral code for society” is completely flawed. Just as flawed are the liberals who want to keep a lawful “moral code” in place as well. The only difference is the type of moral code.

    There should be no government authoritarian forced moral code on anybody. You own your body, and your body alone.

    The only hope for southern Christian cultural conservatives like me is to remove government from our social lives: Because the next generation WILL CHANGE the moral code. Therefore END the moral code.

    Our freedom is far too important to be left up to two warring factions. Government will be used to persecute whoever is in the minority at the moment.

  • aesthete

    “No social issues” is a superficially attractive way to dodge the issue, but a bit simplistic in practice.

    In the case of marriage, government recognition is ~60-75% about legacy (who does your property go to when you die?) and legal issues arising from childrearing and legal aspects of long-term cohabitation. Civil unions for all is a nice way to deal with these issues, but it is complex and comes with its own bag of issues. At any rate, even “civil unions for all” is a policy choice.

    We should avoid being so flip about these issues.

  • JSobieski

    Murder is a social issue.

    My other point is that the distinction you make (which I agree with) is clear in theory and DIFFICULT has heck to implement in practice.

    Lets say that you, me, Aesthete, and acat all agree on the principle.

    Name the issue, and I predict that the 4 of us each draws the line differently—and sometimes significantly so.

  • acat

    government doesn’t belong in “marriage”, then what shall we call the relationship between two people – with regards to inheritance, power of attorney, custody of children, income tax, property ownership, etc. – that government *is* involved in?

    If the government calls it a “civil union” or equivalent, and *only* issues “civil unions”, then liberals, being what they are, will have their little experiment and inside a decade civil unions will be a joke.

    Further, we can get better numbers on whether church marriages fall apart at the same rate as civil unions. Currently, the polling claims it’s the same, but aesthete and kipling and others have indicated that, anecdotally, it’s not the same.

    If it truly isn’t, then .. within a decade we’ll have a situation where church marriages will be something desirable again … because the church can operate without government interference.

    Mew

  • JSobieski

    In terms of polls, I would like to see a poll that shows what percentage of pro-lifers are pro-gay marriage.

    I would also want to compare that aggregate percentage to pro-lifers under the age of 30.

  • acat

    I’d be happy to let government be all over marriage….

    Mew

  • demsaresatanic

    stacked up without spontaneous combustion. It adds nothing to the discussion.

  • lineholder

    It may not be the argument your looking for, but this is what I visualize long-term in regards to the harm that immorality can do within a society as a whole. But I’ll start at the outcomes first, and it applies directly to the situation we’re facing in the here and now in the USA.

    First, do you agree that liberals want to “fundamentally transform” this nation into a socialistic society?

  • acat

    if it looks like this’ll work.

    Mew

  • aesthete

    That said, the harm principle is still a very, very good limiting principle: while we might differ on, say, eminent domain or foreign policy, we can definitely rule out government executing someone for philandering as an appropriate response.

    The harm principle extremely valuable in ruling certain things out; it’s also valuable (though less so) when it comes to making a positive case for certain legislation.

  • gekster

    But vote after vote shows against.
    I guess I was just pointing that out.

  • avgjo

    I discussed in several places the question of Christians ‘judging’.

    It is a very popular, but worn-out saw, to respond to any condemnation of wrong-doing with ‘who are you to judge’, usually followed by a distortion of Matthew 7.

    This is very effective for two reasons:

    1. The people using it are using SCRIPTURE against Christians, in most cases.
    Scripture has deep authority among Christians.

    2. In reality, condemning bad behavior is one of the hardest parts of being a Christian. Using scripture to criticize this practice gives timid Christians cover to avoid the heavy lifting of condemning bad behavior.

    What the effect of this has been is to remove shame from our toolbox. Time was when many types of behavior, from wife-beating and philandering to drunkeness carried stigmas, and would gain you ridicule or even shunning. This was very powerful, and had a regulating effect. Now, we can’t have shame, because ‘YOU CAN’T JUDGE’. And it’s very effective. Look at any discussion with homosexuals about ‘gay’ marriage. Everyone walks on eggshells with them, too scared to condemn their behavior. (NOTE: I said the behavior, not the person. Unfortunately, the two are now conflated. This has bad consequences in all directions.) It is also very destructive.

    It is yet another shameful, sad example of letting the leftists set the terms of the engagement. Imagine stepping into a boxing ring, adhering to the Queensbury rules, while your opponent is allowed to make his own. Who do you think will win? And yet this is what conservatives, especially Christian conservatives, do.

  • JSobieski

    So I don’t take a lot of solace in what you say although it is true.

    I remember one day pointing out how the tobacco companies had NEVER lost in court before. Well, eventually they did.

    We have to win every time. The other side only needs to win once.

  • JSobieski

    Denying that all laws embody judgments is a liberal saw

    Denying that all morality should not be enshrined in law is a sometimes conservative saw.

    Sometimes society must make judgments that are enshrined in laws. Other times it shouldn’t. The issue is how to determine when morality is to be enshrined in law, and when it shouldn’t. Any other argugment is a saw.

    I have no problem judging homosexuality. My point is that our side needs to do a better job of identifying how homosexuality is harmful before the underlying political numbers change for the worse—and they will if we simply rely on “the Bible says so”.

  • lineholder

    For me, it has more to do with loving people enough to want see them succeed in what is of good in life, just like I would want to do. And wanting them to reap blessings in their life, just like I would want to reap in my own. And hoping that they will find the moral fortitude to succeed in resisting temptations in life, just like I would want to succeed.

    And I’ve faced my share of temptations in my days, including those that apply to physical needs and physical desires where sex is concerned. So I’m not in the least bit naive on that point, that it is very human to experience those kinds of needs and desires, and it can be tempting as the dickens to have those needs and desires along with all the emotions that go along with it, get the better of you.

    That’s part of the reason why putting so much emphasis on physical needs and desires, which our modern day society is BADLY prone to do, as if this the most important thing that could ever exist in a person’s life, tends to raise my ire a bit….because it is a lie, a lie that people can be deceived by if they don’t recognize the need to guard their own heart, mind and soul from the danger of it.

  • acat

    Looks to this cat like you’re confused.

    Mew

  • JSobieski

    You need to draw a line somewhere.

    Yet you deny that you are drawing a line.

    How do you draw the line?

  • JSobieski

    Otherwise, the morality of fighting income inequality (among other liberal memes) will get their day at the seat of government power.

  • gekster

    Which clearly don’t show the same as actual votes.
    So which do you go by.
    Polls, which have shown to be false, or votes, which show the actual trend.
    Which do you believe.

  • demsaresatanic

    what a strawman argument is?

  • JSobieski

    For example, what age group had a majority vote in favor of gay marriage in California?

    This is not rocket science. Demography is destiny in the life of a civilization.

  • JSobieski

    Those who are older will eventually die off.
    The trend is not our friend.

    http://www.madpickles.org/California_Proposition_8.html

    Age
    The exit poll data contains one more data point worth exploring.

    Vote by Age % of respondents Yes on prop 8 No on prop 8
    18-24 (11%) 36% 64%
    25-29 (9%) 41% 59%
    30-39 (17%) 52% 48%
    40-49 (22%) 59% 41%
    50-64 (26%) 51% 49%
    65 or Over (15%) 61% 39%

  • gekster

    What polls show as to what is the acual voting.
    It shows the polls wrong.
    Time after time.

  • demsaresatanic
  • aesthete

    morality that we force other people to accept, and morality that we use voluntary methods to spread and practice.

  • JSobieski

    The % of pro/con in the exit polls match the vote results.

    What the exit polls show is that although Prop 8 passed by a large margin, the under 30 crowd opposed it by an even larger margin.

    Stick you head in the sand if you want.

  • gekster

    Exits said he won.

  • JSobieski

    http://www.madpickles.org/California_Proposition_8.html

    In the 49 and under crowd, the opposition to Prop 8 correlated directly with youth.

    If we don’t reach the young (and we aren’t), it will only take a generation to start losing all of these votes.

  • JSobieski

    According to the actual vote, 52.3% of the voters approved Prop 8.

    According to the exit polls, 52.3% of the voters approved Propl 8.

    These aren’t exit poll numbers that haven’t been validated against the real numbers. These are exit poll numbers that match the real results.

  • demsaresatanic

    what better example to follow than the youth of California.

  • gekster

    exit pollls were showed Kerry won won, But he didn’t win.
    So what poll do you trust.

  • JSobieski

    These numbers do.

  • JSobieski

    If we don’t do something to change the debate on this point, our side will lose as people age.

    The correlation line from 18 year olds to 49 year olds is a straight line.

    This is going to be just like the tobacco companies record in court—they never lost for DECADES . . . then they started to lose all the time

    Ignore my warning if you want, but the trend is alarming if you actually want to prevail on the issue.

  • Dave_A

    There has to be a standard of acceptable behavior, and it has to be maintained across generations.

    Ron Paul appeals to college kids because he offers them ALL of the LIBERAL agenda, but WITHOUT welfare, high taxes & spending…

    Kids will always be liberal…

    The point where we lose, is when they start STAYING liberal in large numbers, past 28-30 or so…

  • gekster

    But when they vote, they say no.

    Ok. I get it. The polls say one thing, the voters say another.
    I get that.
    But we should take the polls over the actual votes.
    I see now. The votes mean nothing, the polls do.

  • Dave_A

    Is the electoral process, and maintaining the structure of our federal republic…

    The more local you get, the more power to legislate morality a government should (and generally does) have….

    A federal noise ordnance, for example, will never happen outside of DC and federal reservations (military bases, for example)….

    However such ‘legislation of courtesy’ is near universal in most smaller municipalities…

    The problem, is when a highly politicized issue makes ‘local problems’ into federal problems…

    Or when odd interactions of local rulings & the Constitution do the same (this is the case for gay marriage – the chief concern is that Full Faith & Credit will make ALL states allow it, if one does)….

  • JSobieski

    You don’t even bother looking at any of the data, so let me spoon feed you.

    The exit polls show that 52.3% oppose gay marriage.

    The exit polls show that people over 30 opposed gay marriage by a significant percentage—and that pecentage was higher with age.

    The exit polls also show the young people SUPPORT gay marriage by a sizable majority (just about 20%)

    If the demographic trend continues it will only be a generation before gay marriage passes everywhere.

    The best voters on this issue are the very old–and they are dying off.

    Meanwhile the ranks of the worst voters (18-24) get new memnbers each and every day.

  • aesthete

    what kinds of voters voted against and for gay marriage.

    Primarily, it was older folks who voted against gay marriage, and younger folk who voted for it.

    So, what happens when the younger folks grow up? You could say that they get more conservative — but this ignores history, and how much we as a society have moved away from the mores and values of the previous generation, older folks voting all the while.

    JSob and I think that we should have an attractive message for the voters who currently disagree with us on gay marriage, to convert them to our side. Bill and others seem to think that saying, “the Bible says so and so does my Smith and Wesson; now do what I want” is a moral and appropriate way to respond to this issue. JSob and I think it’s a terribly thoughtless way to do so, and a way which will make it very difficult to advertise our position to others.

  • demsaresatanic

    I will let j sobie speak for himself, but just where did I deny

  • JSobieski

    Process describes HOW the line is drawn but it doesn’t address WHY the line is drawn at a particular place. More importantly, brute numerical force is not a substitute for a coherent argument and a certain amount of consistency (which is why we will eventually lose the gay marriage argument).

    Many people want income redistribution. In many years, it was a majority of the public We still opposed.

  • aesthete

    by which legally-sanctioned/legally-prohibited/legally-[fill in the blanks] issues are adjudicated in a federal republic… but what I and JSob are trying to get at is what we as conservatives should support, and why.

    I have no doubt that you’ll agree that we in the west tend to manage our conflicts between belief systems in a manner distinct from other republics: we have a lot less violence in our elections than, say, Iraq or Indonesia or parts of Africa, and this is in part because all parties recognize that certain areas of faith are not on the table as things that we should legalize. We recognize that it doesn’t really matter as much whether a Hindu, Jew, Pentecostal, or Catholic gets elected, because the Jew won’t force me to give up bacon, the Buddhist won’t make me give up beef, the Catholic won’t force me to observe Lent, and the Pentecostal won’t force me to speak in tongues or give an offering to his church.

    Voting is a process, and morality is a system by which we determine right action from wrong. Merely describing or vouching for either one doesn’t address the advantages or disadvantages of enacting our morality through the voting process, or why and how we should do so. The Constitutional protections of free speech and freedom of religion cannot be understood merely by knowing how voting works and what morality is, and a conservative understanding of our history is incomplete without understanding how religion and morality intersect with the state.

  • Dave_A

    1) Peyote – If you are legitimately a member of the Native American religion in question, then you’re allowed to smoke it legally, IIRC

    As for animal sacrifice, I don’t know the case law on it, but IIRC Santa Ria practices that particular activity…

    2) In a homogenous society (like most Arab nations have), you can expect to see what you see there – when 90% of the population supports religious law, you will have religious law.

    3) We have a ‘broader’ basis than sectarian or theological teaching – it’s called the representative process… That said, many voters (and the representatives they elect) believe that laws created by this process should reflect their religion…. The resulting process does a very good job of filtering out beliefs that do not have enough support to be law…

    But if most of the nation believes something – weather it be religious or secular – you can bet that will influence the law.

  • JSobieski

    So you (finally) acknowledge that not all morality should be enshrined in law?

  • aesthete

    You just didn’t define it.

    What is your standard for deciding whether a certain moral action should be government enforced, or enforced by voluntary society?

  • JSobieski

    You are correct that in a system of self government, law is what the people say (not even the constitution can withstand a sustaining super-majority).

    We could repeal the bill of rights with sufficient votes, but that is ducking the point that I am trying to make.

    The point is what is the line that we should be advocating for. The fact that vote counting matters doesn’t mean we should advocate for a coherent consistent position of when government intervenes, and when it doesn’t.

    I didn’t raise the specific questions to have them answered–I raised them to get certain people to think. I would thought that my objectives would have been clear to you.

  • JSobieski

    When Roe v, Wade first came out, young people where the most pro-choice that there was. For whatever reason (in part clumsy argument on the right), a lot of the opposition to abortion was characterized as people who were againt other people having sex. Public support for abortion grew in the 70s and early 80s.

    It was only after the pro-life forces really focused on the harm of abortion (the death of the fetus) and refrain from focusing on the issue of pre-marital sex did the pro-life forces really start to make gains—-including amongst the young.

    I am advocating that a similar change in approach be implemented by those opposing gay marriage.

  • demsaresatanic

    I won

  • JSobieski

    Draw a line and defend it.

    Wear both the limited government hat and the committed Christian hat in the same sentence and draw some lines instead of repeatedl pretending that you don’t get my point.

    Glutony is a sin. So is greed. Liberals use a moral justification for nanny state dietary rules and income redistribution.

    On what basis do you ignore some sins like glutony or greed and not ignore others?

  • demsaresatanic

    can you appoint a Siamese Twin-in-Chief?

  • demsaresatanic

    Now you are off on yet another tangent talking about

  • JSobieski

    how do you draw the line between morality enshrined in law and morality that is not enshrined in law.

    That is the first thing I posed to you and several wasted hours later—-nada.

    At least I have been getting a lot housecleaning done throughout the night.

  • demsaresatanic

    I consider your question

  • barleycorn

    I don’t understand your asking this question without trying to answering it.

    Contrary to popular belief among the mushy headed left, “the law” does nothing BUT “enshrine morality”.

    Beginning with prohibition of murder all the way down to speed limits and Don’t Spit on the Sidewalk signs, “the law” makes moral judgements about what constitutes acceptable behavior.

    Even on sexual behavior between adults the law makes many judgement calls.

    The only answer I have is a spiritual one and frankly we are told up front that that approach won’t have mass appeal.

    So if there is a broad way that many will find that helps stave off total moral collapse in this country another 30 or 40 years, I’d love to hear it.

  • PowerToThePeople

    that while not always true, many of these kids will grow up and mature in their thought processes. Right now they are idealistic, want to be hip, want to be different than mom and dad, want to be “caring,” and so on and so they tend to have beliefs that they have no clue as to why they believe it.

    Center was a prime example. While he seemed to stupid to ever grow up, most of what he argued about when it came to gay marriage was ignorant and that was obvious to most of us and even to those who support SSM.He felt as if he was smarter than everyone else and had a god complex in the fact that us old farts were intolerant and he was the good one. He never made a good argument as to why he believed what he believed, he simply felt pious.

    Much of the youth will believe much differently in 20 years than they do today. I do not fear our future that much. We were all full of piss and vinegar as youth and took up stupid causes and we all grew up.

  • JSobieski

    only time will tell of course.

    The exit poll data reinforces my own annecdotal experiences.

  • Bill S
  • acat

    Slavery, Jim Crow, Rock and Roll, Viet Nam…

    Several things where the younger generation *didn’t* adopt the same views as their elders.

    Mew

  • lineholder

    is that people on the right end of the political spectrum are more inclined to be reactive, and people on the left end of the political spectrum are more inclined to be proactive.

    Think back in your own life, or just looking at the lives of young people in America today…how many of them, when they are young, are looking for a “cause” to support, something they can get involved in, etc.?

    A lot of them do, and because we aren’t as proactive as our opponents are, we don’t present opportunities for them on this score. The left does. And they can gain loyalty, even blind loyalty at that, in doing it, too.

    We could do much better than we have on that point.

  • JSobieski

    It seems to me that saying the question is too general is another way of saying you don’t want one line to impact another, i.e. you have your issues where you want government to enforce morality but then you have other issues where you don’t want government to enforce morality.

    The lack of coherent message from the right on this is why we are on a trajectory to lose on this issue in 20 years.

    In the context of issues like supply side economics, we have a great message as to how things work, why they work that way, and how to implement policy accordingly.

    In the context of issues like abortion, we have learned to focus on the core issue—the life of the fetus.

    In the context of gay marriage, we often act in a kneejerk fashion that resembles the left’s carricature of us. That does impact our ability to prevail on the issue in the long term.

  • barleycorn

    I don’t disagree with you but what change in approach are you advocating.

  • acat

    Thought this was a discussion, not dodgeball.

    Mew

  • Stricia

    When you stated “I don

  • acat

    Instead of trying to further the conversation …

    Project much?

    Mew

  • Stricia

    felines marrying humans —- get back to me. I try my best limit my contact with nasty cats.

  • acat

    bestiality.

    Congratulations, Stricia!

    Mew

  • Stricia

    settles in for another 18-hour posting day at RS. Good to see you’ve got balance in your life. As you know, I won’t reply beyond this because I won’t be back until tomorrow. I actually “live life” beyond digital interface.

    Toodles

  • acat

    government limits on how much time someone can spend online?

    Mew

  • gekster

    Polls show support for gay marriage.
    When the question gets put on the ballot,
    vote after vote gay marriage gets voted down.
    Just what the heck an I missing.

  • gekster

    We should now say that it is not the actual votes that matter,
    it is what the polls say that really count.

  • acat

    The same split shows up in the exit polling. It shows up in the pre-polling.

    The votes matter, but … unless you think this prohibitory law is going to be any more permanent than any other prohibitory law without clear injury, this is just a temporary win.

    The question J. Sobieski is asking is “How do we turn this into a long-term win?” .. because unless someone can be shown to be actively harmed by people who are gay and in a committed relationship, this isn’t likely to last more than a decade or so.

    Mew

  • PowerToThePeople

    is that your utopian scenario will never work in this day and age. And if you step back, look at it with a neutral mind, you will see what I say is true.

    Lets say for sake of argument that the country allows for a division of marriage to be defined as marriage is within a religious context and civil unions are all the rest. Who stops the gay activist who have made it very clear civil unions are not what they are after, but rather, are after traditional marriage. This was seen in Hawaii in 2008. The gay community came out in force against the proposed civil union bill and made it very clear that even though it would allow them to “marry,” it still “discriminated” against them because they could not have the word marriage.

    Now, who stops the gay activist all over this country who are pushing to force Christian churches to have to perform their marriage regardless of their faith. Hutchinson Kansas and Washington State come to mind.

    Who stops the gay activist from succeeding in pushing hate crime laws that would cause a pastor to be jailed and or fined for stating at the pulpit that gay acts are a sin and gay marriage is not of God. Who stops all of this without a federal law protecting not only the traditional marriage but the pastors free speech and decision on who uses his own building as well

    You may not like it, but there has to be a federal law, or federal intervention, in order to protect the rights of all. You may not like government regulation in most areas just as I do not, but they have given us no choice in this matter.

    It would be stupid of us to sit by and allow activist and activist courts to change our way of life without acting even if acting means forcing the governments hand and securing a federal law protecting churches and marriage.

  • bogornes

    The effort to leave marriage to churches has utterly failed, even before it started. The Lutherans, Episcoplaians, UCC, and (soon) Presbyterians are all in the process of blessing gay couples. This completely untenable “solution” has been floating around the Internet for a decade, and it is far less vaible now than it was when it was first thought up. Folks really need to drop it, and come up with rational responses that make sense.

  • lineholder

    What is taking place under the current admin is that a HARD move toward socialism is being made. They very obviously are attempting to alter the form of government that exists in our country.

    Given that our legal system via our Constitution was established on Judeo-Christian principles ( not entirely, but to a fairly strong extent), then it ought to make at least some degree of sense that if a group of people want to alter the current form of government into something more to their own liking, then making efforts to tear down those Judeo-Christian cornerstones and any traditional values associated with those cornerstones COULD provide an opening by which their goals and objectives might be met.

    You know…just establish the authority of the new form of government by usurping every other form of authority, including the rule of law.

    If Obama gets elected to another term….legal battles in court won’t make a bit of difference, because the “fundamental transformation” process that the liberals have in mind will pick up pace, including replacing some of the judges on SCOTUS.

    What I think is that the liberals are using the gay rights scenario as cover (to provide plausability) for the purpose of accomplishing and achieving some of their own long-term goals.

  • acat

    of non-religious marriages and their 50% failure rate*, churches would be free to use extra-governmental enforcement. The thing to remember is, once the legal aspects are gone, so are the Hollyweird distractions and dilutions.

    If you’ll take a look at the tactics used by anti-abortion folks in the deep south, you’ll see that things like refusing to rent to, sell to, or associate with employees of abortion clinics has created huge areas that “aren’t served”. That’s #WIN, PttP.

    For a more direct example, there was a time when a justice-of-the-peace marriage was held in lower regard than a church marriage. If the church brings just that idea back .. and again, once government is out of the way, extra-governmental enforcement is capable of quite a lot.

    Mew

    * aesthete and kipling and others point out that the statistic that church marriages also fail at 50% is dubious…

  • gekster

    My take was that he was saying trends were showing pro gay marriage, and I was saying the actual voters are saying no to it.
    My point being that the trends are showing a false fact.

  • PowerToThePeople

    The fact that some so called Christian churches have accepted something in clear violation of the Bible they say they believe in does not mean the rest should buckle.

    And as I told another person, just because some denominations have sent down edicts that gay marriage is allowed in the denomination does not mean any of the churches have to do it. In fact, in most denominations that have allowed gay marriage, most of their churches choose still not to participate and that is allowed. It is an edict that allows, not forces.

    So wrong bub, marriage has not failed in churches, not even close.

  • PowerToThePeople

    Line, and in fact the Bible tells us this was coming. It is only going to get worse and the world is only going to get more immoral. But that still does not mean we should not go down swinging.

  • lineholder

    Strangely enough, though, I don’t think this country was as far gone, morally, as the liberals might have wanted to believe it was. We keep seeing these challenges to traditional values, such as the traditional definition of marriage, and every chance the people within our society are given an opportunity for their voices to be heard, the majority of them are still standing on the side of protecting and preserving those values.

    Like I said in a comment yesterday, the liberals would love to turn this into a question of WHO is right versus WHO is wrong rather than one of WHAT is right versus WHAT is wrong. Whether the people of this country will allow them to succeed in doing so….that remains to be seen, and November could provide part of the answer.

  • PowerToThePeople

    but your comparison or example are oranges when we are discussing apples.

    Kids change or mature in their line of thought. Even the most radical usually temper over time.

    I am sure you have seen the NC video of the kids screaming and crying in some forest over a cut tree. It was a level of absurdity that I had never seen before and never seen since.

    The girl in the video acting as if the cut tree was equivalent to her mother dying made a video later lamenting her foolish behavior. She still is an environmental nutjob, but no where near the level she was.

    In the case of my family, 4 kids, all raised Christian and conservative.

    I spent years defying God, playing coked up businessman, drank all the time, was pro abortion, voted democrat, etc. That all ended when I hit my 30,s and realized what a fool I was and had been.

    My brother, dropped out of school in a home where school was a big deal and became a hippie sort. Pro choice, drinker, drug use. took up many liberal causes. He made a life changing decision in his late 30′s, worked for the Haley campaign in 08, and while he is not a believer or at least very cold non practicing christian, he is now a staunch conservative socially and fiscally.

    My oldest sister, never got into drugs, but went to a liberal college and was indoctrinated. Huge into the PETA crap and pro choice. After her first son was born, became a staunch pro life advocate. Within years most of her views hedged towards conservatism and even her PETA attitude tempered. She still is a big animal fan, but has come to realize there has to be more concern over human life and that the reality of human existence means animals must die to sustain us and they will have to work for us and their population culled.

    The fact is that most kids get radical in their beliefs when young. Most will temper in time. Many or even most kids will reject their upbringing as rebellion is a part of growing up. Most will eventually revert back to their upbringing once the piss and vinegar is gone. A lot depends on how they were raised and while they may not subscribe to all their childhood teachings, most will eventually hold most of the views they grew up with.

    But comparing Slavery to this issue is not being genuine. Nor do the rest compare. Big, big difference.

  • avgjo

    What you’re talking about and what i’m talking about are not mutually exclusive. Certainly, as Christians, we want everyone to have salvation, blessings, etc. I’m not at all knocking the idea you espouse, and i share it.

    And of course we’re all subject to falling. Shame, though has its place. For one, it is a strong tool in self-regulation. Aside from high moral reasons, many people avoid certain behavior because they don’t want to endure the shame or shunning that comes from types of behavior.

    Also shame has a place when sin is unabashedly being flaunted in-your-face. The shame often comes not so much from an act that anyone could fall into, but into falling into it completely and unabashedly. As (it would seem) we all know, sexual aspects of life are supposed to be intimate, which carries with it a high degree of secrecy and discretion. One reason shame is a key component in these matters is it is a safeguard of that privacy that is supposed to always accompany that part of life. Our society got to the point you mentioned raises your ire because it lost shame in the first place. After that, it was easy to discuss these issues openly and tell people that they need to indulge themselves.

  • avgjo

    was this a response to me?

    I don’t think I was addressing this issue in this particular post is why I was asking.

    I was merely trying to make the point to lineholder that inbetween the secular law regulating societal behavior on the one end, and Biblical law regulating personal behavior on the other (the person of the Christian), there is social pressure to deal with behavior that the law can’t. You get no argument from me, period. In fact, in one other post to lineholder, I take your first paragraph’s substance as given.

    sorry if i caused any confusion.

  • lineholder

    I’m going to make a few statements here, and you can take them FWIW, avgo

    I grew up in a home where there were things “good people don’t talk about”. It was an expression of that secrecy and discretion you mention. Actually, the church my family attended had much the same attitude as well.

    Even though I understand why they had that kind of attitude, avgo, at the time, I wasn’t the kind of person who had any insight or discernment to speak of. When a person is lacking those qualities, it can leave them very vulnerable to be deceived by things in life.

    The only way I would have gained the degree of insight and discernment that was badly needed in my case would have been to have someone with greater insight than my own share what insight they had with me. Even if it meant going against that unspoken rule of “things good people don’t talk about”, so that I could learn enough about life, and about people, and especially about human nature in general, to recognize why a person does have to be guarded on such things and why it can be better in the long run to simply hold to a line of higher moral standards than it would be to be just go with the flow of what society defines as being “acceptable”.

    With all that mind…my experiences do play a part in the person that I have become, and I can look at other young people, especially young females, and recognize it fairly quickly these days when there is a lack of insight and discernment in their life similar to what existed in my own in times past.

    For that reason, I’m much more inclined to just be honest, brutally honest in some cases, rather than try to use shame in talking to them. They usually respond more positively to the honesty than they do to shame. It’s just personal preference on my part more than anything else and that’s all.

  • avgjo

    That gave me insight into a different way of thinking and arriving at similar conclusions about right and wrong.

    I hope you and yours have a peaceful holiday.

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  • acat

    “Anyone not a radical (liberal) in his youth has no heart, anyone not a conservative in his 30s has no brain”.

    Yes, the kids do de-radicalize when it’s their jobs and money and future on the line… but…. the data doesn’t quite fit your argument. The polling I’ve seen shows that the split on gays isn’t between the 20somethings and 30somethings, or the 30somethings and 40somethings … it’s between the 40somethings and 50somethings.

    If one accepts the Churchill/Bismark quote above, then .. the 40somethings ought to know better by now .. right?

    Mew

  • avgjo

    a lot of this insane behavior is the result of a perverted school system and popular culture.

    Whenever we speak of inevitability of certain issues, I think there is an implicit concession that we will never take back these institutions. In reality, that’s the very strategy we should be pursuing.

    Between strong local culture (communities of various sorts) and these nationally imposed cultures, you get the types of parenting you do, the types of education you do, and eventually, the types of ctizens you do.

    BTW, amazing personal story. I agree with you wholeheartedly about growing up. i’ve seen it with way too many people.

    ‘Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.’

    Proverbs 22:6

  • westcoastpatriette

    I just wanted to recommend a wonderful website that holds the key — in my opinion – to what is missing in all of our discussion of moral law, homosexuality and who has or will have the final say on these matters in America.

    Along with the left’s success at using the courts to push the Bible out of our schools and government, they have also succeeded in neglecting the study of America’s founding and the principles that the founders based the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution upon. In the left’s view, the truth cannot be taught or known as it would eviscerate all of their attempts to trivialize and eventually eliminate the nation’s primary strength and reliance upon God as the ultimate lawgiver.

    I will give you a link but here is a sample of a quote from one of the authors at the site: “The laws of nature and of nature’s God were familiar 18th century terms that referred to the “will of the Creator” as revealed in nature and in the Holy Scriptures.” As you know, I am sure, the term “laws of nature and of nature’s God” is a direct quote from the Declaration of Independence and reflects the belief the founders had in the Holy Bible as the ultimate authority over all mankind. Here’s a little more.

    “While man has never seen, heard, touched, smelled nor tasted God’s invisible laws, he has observed the effects through the blessings resulting from obedience and the curses from disobedience. At the heart of the common law (Britain’s law) was a Biblical definition of law. One of its great expositors, Sir William Blackstone, noted that God, as the Creator of the heavens and the earth, created the rules of action that all creation was bound to obey.”

    Herbert W. Titus, form Biblical Principles of Law

    http://www.lonang.com/biblicalprinciples.htm

  • lineholder

    ,

  • avgjo

    I’ll check it out for sure.

    Also, i hope ya’ll had a great holiday.

  • JX12

    Theoretically, if there were enough evangelical Christians to be able to vote everyone of like-minded faith into positions of power across the three branches, then the laws (and the judicial interpretation thereof) would reflect that mindset. It just would.

    But what if they start doing “unconstitutional stuff?!” Answer: one person’s definition of what is constitutional is not necessarily another person’s view – which should be obvious when we watch in frustration as courts “legislate” from the bench. At the end of the day, whoever controls all three branches (when that happens) pretty much gets to decide what is constitutional – right, wrong, or indifferent. Judicial legislation to one group is constitutional interpretation to another group (misguided though they may be). Don’t like it? Rally and vote them out.

    Christians are going to vote their faith (and some will refuse to vote for the same reason, although I’m not one of those). The dirty little secret is, EVERYONE who votes, votes their “faith,” whatever that may be. We all have our own ideas of how government should be run, and what laws should be enacted. If there are enough of any one group with a similar mindset to make their vision for the country become reality via the ballot box, then it will be so.

    Again, if you don’t like it, then rally and attempt to vote them out next chance you get. This cycle has been repeating itself since the founding, and will continue to do so for as long as we’re able to keep the republic.

  • zachv

    “If we can

  • Bill S

    …”religious community” that is struggling with those passages is the same theologically liberal community that already accepts homosexual relationships. And that’s a community that I would hardly trust with legitimate Biblical scholarship #JesusSeminar

  • Melody Warbington (rwm52)

    however, I can offer proof of the teachings of the church of Christ (not to be confused with the United Church of Christ which Obama attends). Let me preface my remarks by saying that I have attended a church of Christ for 54 years. I have been a member of 3 congregations during my lifetime (each change due to a geographical move), however, I have visited many, many congregations in many states throughout the country and outside of the country. I attended a college which, at the time, was church of Christ affiliated. Not once have I ever heard or read any ambiguity from the church of Christ on the teaching of Romans 1 or any other passage, O.T. or N.T., regarding homosexuality being a sin.

    With regard to “arsenokoitai,” here is a quote from an article I have bookmarked about the word.

    It is often claimed that homosexuality is never discussed in the Bible, not to mention negatively in the New Testament. This is grounded in fiction not reality. Nevertheless, consider the wording of 1 Corinthians 6.9, where the English Standard Version uses the phrase,

  • Jack_Savage

    The passages in the Bible that say what marriage IS. There is absolutely no debate, no mistranslation, no argument whatever that there is absolutely zero room in the affirmative definition of marriage for a union of same sex partners.

    None.

  • Jack_Savage

    And I will bear it in mind when I respond to you from now on.

    And by the way, Christians are going through the killing and jailing right now, in case you weren’t aware.

  • demsaresatanic

    A complete sentence would be your friend.

  • demsaresatanic

    I state a position on homosexual marriage, you go around in circles and never reach a conclusion so far as I see. Do you favor or oppose homosexual marriage, or are you too fascinated by nuance to reach a conclusion.