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Don’t You Tell Me ‘Bout Your Peace of Mind: Why Materialism is a Cancer that is Eating Away our Society

In recent decades, people have put ever increasing value on the acquisition of “stuff.” Spending sprees are, nowadays, considered an instrumental part of life. Sometimes, people buy things for the sake of buying them. They may be trying to go out of their way for someone or trying to ease their own ills, such as depression. This epidemic is known as “materialism,” and I believe it is a cancer that is eating away at society. These next paragraphs will explain why I believe this.

Before I get into the new normals of lapping up more and more luxuries that we see every day, I will relate experiences of my own. I have tended to spend decent sums wherever I go. Whether it is at record stores, book stores, or other stores, I find myself buying things to satisfy whatever interest I have. When I was depressed, and even looser with my money, I would buy up things that interested me so that I could fill a void, bring me back to my normal self, or whatever I was trying to do. I bought things that, as time went by, I found I’d not much need for. Some of those things were items I later chose to give away. I was merely trying trying to immerse myself in other things, instead of admitting I was down and needed to get up. This, I believe, is the root of all materialism, which is a root of evil.

The latest fashion fads never cease to amaze me. Here, we have youngsters putting their parents’ money into clothes. These aren’t just any clothes, mind you, they’re “cool clothes.” The kind of clothes that make you look “cool” to other people. Kids today are selling their souls just so they can “look cool” and gain “friends” along the way. It’s all a futile endeavor, really. If one can’t see someone for who he/she is, and instead they have to sell out to you, then that, my friends, is no kind of friendship at all. No respect is earned, and it all shows a certain lack of self respect. Self respect was what used to get people through the day, sweating, slaving, and saving to put food on the table. Materialism, particularly fashion fads, doesn’t gain you any real friends. All it does is show that you’ve got neither character nor respect for yourself. Looking cool is great in the moment, but what will you do when the moment’s gone?

Lifestyles of the rich and famous also bring the cancer of materialism to the fore. Take, for example, everyone’s dream of, when famous and having other peoples money at your disposal, owning an expensive, luxury car. Many famous types own a vast collection of these type cars. For what, really? Are they for show like most of the female Fox News anchors? Are we aspiring to look “cool” while driving down the highway? It’s all pointless, really. Driving is not supposed to be “cool.” The places you’re visiting? Yes. The driving itself? No. Driving is merely what you do to get from one town to the next. It’s all a vain attempt to sell out to society’s standards, and is, again, another indicator of a lack of both character and self respect. And I will never get the point of collecting Porsche’s as if they are little Matchbox and Hot Wheels cars. Never.

In conclusion, I hope to have clearly and educatedly presented and articulated my view of materialism. Even if you’re not convinced of my point, I still hope I’ve given you something to think about as you go through your day.

COMMENTS

  • lastgopinillinois

    I’m old now. My parents and grandparents are all dead. But I still recall many of my grandpa’s one-liners. “I don’t want for nothin” was one of my favorites. Notice how he used himself as an example, rather than telling me that how I should live. I admired his way of life. I had parents who cared enough to teach values also.
    It must have worked. I’m still living in my first house. A starter home, seems to have become my retirement home. I’m still driving my first car as a primary means of transportation. Nearly all of the furniture I own is hand-me-downs from family members or rummage sales acquisitions.

    I dont know anybody that would give a plug nickel for anything I own, and I keep getting reminded that my clothes are out of style.

    Society seems to be more concerned about keeping their kids from being ridiculed for carrying last years style of backpack to school than we are about real values. The government and liberal media is complicit in promoting secularism, hedonism and aquisitionism in lieu of the true meaning of the persuit of happiness.

    Happiness should be about learning something new everyday, sharing it and helping others, as well as keepin your own head above water.

    I’ve always been satified with it. You just gotta shrug off the ridicule.

  • Viet71

    I think, though, mindless buying (apart from youth buying) is credit card-based. I think that credit card mindless buying is largely a thing of the past.

    The best way to buy stuff, IMO, is at thrift stores. I hunt for vinyl records, and have found Goodwill and Salvation Army stores to be goldmines.

  • avgjo

    Thrift stores and garage sales are the cat’s meow.

    I wish you were writing scripts for popular kids’ shows.

    These are good life lessons. I fell into this trap for short time, but my parents (thank God) had raised me right. Now, when I do have extra money to blow, i buy books, tools and music. Loads more satisfying and a whole lot more fun!

  • http://ridersonthestorm101.blogspot.com/ SE-779

    Antique malls and record stores sell the best ones. Ususally, the more expensive they are, the better quality they are. Then again, I paid $6 for “On the Threshold of a Dream,” and it’s in great condition for a 40+ year old LP. It all depends.

    Thrift stores are GREAT if you’re looking for tape cassettes. Flea Markets(the one in Murphy, NC, is great) are great for finding LP’s/45′s, though the quality is questionable.

  • http://impudent.edublogs.org/ kyle8

    I like having “stuff”. I was dirt poor most of my life. As for personal interactions, sure they are important, and I have my good friends and my wife. But my extended family? Not so much, people often let you down.

    I also feel a little distant when people start talking about spirituality. I have felt that in my life, but mostly it just comes down to a lot of feelings. Feelings are not something you can rely on.

    I like buying stuff, I like cooking and eating good food, I like seeing new movies and watching sports, and I know for certain that poverty sucks.

    But I will agree that looking cool has no interest for me.

  • gekster

    /nt/

  • http://ridersonthestorm101.blogspot.com/ SE-779

    I was merely responding to a commenter by giving some advice of my own. I don’t see a problem with that. And the diary entry isn’t all that far removed from the above comments. Again, I don’t see an issue.

  • gekster

    Mybad.
    We get so many of them, it was an honest mistake.

    I retract, mybad, and again, I’m sorry.

    (that darn reading comprehension thing, I should use it more often)