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Feminists are mute on Slut TV, but we have them to thank for it. Perhaps thank is the wrong word; we have Feminists to blame for the influx of Slut TV. Yet, their silence regarding the same is deafening. Keeping Up With The Kardashians, Rock of Love, The Bad Girls Club, even Mtv’s The Real World, all epitomize the very worst in female degradation and show just how much damage the “sexual empowerment” fallacy, pushed by the Feminists, has caused. Okay, so maybe we should thank them for that; we are now seeing proof of their agenda driven theories failing in practice.

Women, existing solely as sex objects (and the really bad kind) are rampant in the reality show genre. Yet, we hear nothing from Feminists. Except, of course, in the case of Kourtney Kardashian, who became pregnant as a result of her “sexual empowerment” and chose to not have an abortion. Then, the self-avowed Feminists spoke up:

People magazine (and CNN) carry cringe-worthy quotes from Kourtney Kardashian and why she decided to have a baby: “I looked online, and I was sitting on bed hysterically crying, reading these stories of people who felt so guilty from having an abortion…I was reading these things of how many people are traumatized by it afterwards.”

Good to research your options, bad to fall for anti-choice claims of “post-abortion syndrome.”

Huh. Of course, to them the taking of a child’s life should cause no pain or guilt. It’s just a clump of cells and stuff! Anyone who says otherwise is a nutty wing nut liar! Instead, they are outraged over being called slutty and by the concept that perhaps random promiscuity should be a tad shameful.  No, really. This is their response to a Washington Times article about “Slutty Feminism” (article excerpt is followed by Feministing’s editorial comments in bold):

In Columbia University’s sex column, “Sexplorations,” Miriam Datskosky explains why the all-too-common “walk of shame” shouldn’t be shameful at all. She argues that, men and women should be able to go out and have sex whenever and with whoever they like, and when walking home the next morning — wearing the same clothes from the night before, their make-up smeared and their hair a mess — they shouldn’t be judged: “It is not up to a random stranger to make you feel ashamed.” Moral relativism and the sexual revolution had a baby, and boy is it ugly.

Because as everyone knows, the only appropriate post-sex responses are guilt and shame.

Stuart’s holier-than-thou attitude: “Sexual freedom has turned into sexual obsession. Perversion and promiscuity are applauded, morality and chastity condemned.” So having sex is immoral, but calling women “sluts” is just dandy. With a moral barometer like that, I think I’m better off being a slutty feminist.

Well, Jessica — if the slutty shoe fits. I like the straw man, excuse me, straw woman, argument, too. As if anyone said that sex itself was wrong or immoral. I suppose it is understandable that she is so confused. These are the same people who believe that women are “empowered” by being sex machines on television shows where the camera men need to wear hazmat suits, the house furniture needs to be covered in plastic and you need a prescription for Valtrex upon completion of your stint there.

By their constant attempts to demonize motherhood, to turn it into a punishment and a detriment to one’s happiness, they ended up diminishing women. Instead of realizing that being a life bearing nurturer is one of the very best things about being a woman and is an attribute in and of itself, they constantly try to take that away, all in the name of some delusional perceived “equality.” Equality and being different are not mutually exclusive; they don’t get that.

In the end, their pro-abortion stances, their encouraging of “sexual empowerment”, their “it’s okay, just use birth control and do whatever feels good” life-styles have dehumanized women. By encouraging women to focus on sexual “equality”, they’ve taken away any requirement that women be treated as something other than a sexual toy. Why would anyone respect you as a human being, if you don’t respect yourself?

As a result, we now have an onslaught of degrading shows, based entirely around these “equal” women. Who sleep around, do walks of shame home (and not the fun kind) and live tweet their abortions. Life? Motherhood? Meh. THAT is oppressive. But, having the entire country watch you sleep around with no caring or consideration? That’s empowerment! Wow. You’ve come a long way, baby.

Unlike Jessica of Feministing, I embrace neither the word slutty nor the word feminist. I’m a woman. And a Mom.

(cross-posted at NewsReal)

COMMENTS

  • mschmitt
  • discerningconservative
    • Praying

      until I threw away all that feminist crap I’d been burdened with growing up in the 1970s. I somehow believed I wasn’t a person unless I had a powerful career, and I put that first in my life – before my husband, before my kids… I divorced… only due to divine intervention, one day I woke up and realized the lie I had been living… I was able to remarry my husband, celebrate my children… I’m still working (good gracious, my hubbie is a school teacher – I have to work!) but it’s not what defines me. I have never been happier. Damn the feminist movement for stealing fully 41 years of my life!

      For more on this topic, see also Pamela Geller’s article at American Thinker:
      http://www.americanthinker.com/2010/01/forty_years_of_feminism_now_be.html

      • chuck_dizzle

        I love stories like this.

      • 4life

        ‘buy in’ to the feminist ideology are affected. It nags at you, even if you choose to put motherhood first and dress to look ‘pretty or nice’ instead of ‘sexy’. Somehow I am still finding the feminist way of thinking seeping into my psyche. I think it especially undermines the value of servanthood. Aren’t families especially happy when servanthood is celebrated and practiced? How do children learn to serve others if they don’t see their parents model it for them? If mom and dad are ‘demanding their rights’ instead of ‘serving each other’, then how can we raise giving children? If mom is trying to attract attention, instead of focusing on others, how can we expect our girls to do otherwise? The affects are passed on generation to generation, and it didn’t just start in the ’70s, it started a generation earlier.

        Thank you for posting this, Lori, and thank you for sharing your story, Praying. Slut feminism absolutely needs to be brought to light and shown for what it is.

  • Beasley Beesmeal

    and how about those pajama-gram ads?

    exploitation times 10!

  • trutexan

    My mother is a NOW feminist and burned her bra in a protest in 1972. Because of the bold steps she took in those days, I went to college at a school that never admitted women, I’m now making as much money as a man…doing the same job…and have all opportunities afforded to me that men do. I thought that THAT’s what the women’s movement was all about. But, I’m a Christian, married, girly, I’m very feminine, and I belive in chivalry. And they would not consider me one of them. I respect and believe everything they were for in the 70…but that’s not what they are about now. Isn’t that odd?

  • http://www.dcworksforus.com Kenny Solomon

    Since you mentioned one of the kardashian family members……… NASCAR had Kim Kardashian as a co-Grand Marshall today at the Vegas race.

    Her face and branded perfume were the primary sponsor of the 36 car (driven by Mike Bliss) for the race – a one-off sponsorship.

    Before the race, she was standing right next to Junior Johnson – the other co-Grand Marshall as he gave the command to fire up engines at the start.

    I’m positive she was supposed to join in with him, but as God is my witness, I don’t think she knew the words (Gentlemen, start your engines!)…. It also looked like Junior Johnson wasn’t having any part of her being there.

    She also looked really confused standing around ‘amongst the masses’ before the race in the infield and the interviews done with here were embarrassing to say the least.

    By the way…… I’m very serious here……. That was (I think) only the third or fourth time I ever saw her. I don’t do ‘Hollywood’ and I still don’t know what’s the big deal about her other than her dad helped keep OJ out of jail for a double murder.

    OK Art, I know you’re there reading this…….. better to have her and her smelly flower water on the car than to have a blank hood, deck and quarters…….. Yeah, I know……… The 36 team owner needs operating dollars or they’re start-’n-park at best.

    Too bad he wrecked…… I like Mike Bliss and he deserves a solid ride.

    • RSSS

      (meant to reply to Kenny. Any way to remove the double post?)

      • http://www.dcworksforus.com Kenny Solomon

        I don’t really know who she is or why she’s famous or any kind of curse. Seriously.

        I have the sneaking feeling it’s another Paris Hilton thing though……. That she’s famous for being famous.

        • RSSS

          and that you’re not missing much (if anything) by not paying attention to it.

    • Achance

      I’ve seen in NASCAR since the PURE oil and Hurst girls back in the ’60s.

      And, yeah, you know exactly what I would have sait; at least he had something on the fenders and he could have done worse.

      • http://www.dcworksforus.com Kenny Solomon

        :)

      • nessa

        A couple years ago Shelmerdine was selling single race sponsorships on ebay. That’s no way to get into the top 10. the opening bid was $60,000, I don’t think I could have afforded a sitcker under the hood. Which isn’t a bad spot on one of Shelmerdine’s cars, you know it’s going to be seen before the end of the race.

      • 4life

        buy the feminist slut line, because men are men and enjoy seeing a woman with a ‘nice rack’ and willing to show cleavage, even if they choose the ‘woman of substance’ over the slut to marry. In other words, these kinds of comments don’t make it easy for women to choose the high road, because most women want to please the men in their life and I guess this is what they think men really want. It can be confusing for well grounded women, so I can see what young women today are facing especially when they are fed so much garbage on TV. And it must affect men too, or maybe they are just that way to begin with. You have some guts posting that comment on this article, so explain, please.

        • Achance

          Most men are acutely aware of what women are signalling and they treat them the way they signal. Kim Kadashian sends a very powerful signal and if she didn’t want them noticed and commented on, and perhaps that notice acted on, she wouldn’t be on National TV with them hanging out for all to see. Women who dress more conservatively get treated more conservatively.

          And as to all those young girls going out dressed like streetwalkers, well, usually Mom paid for those clothes and usually Mom sees her baby leaving the house dressed that way. With a certain allowance for the girls that leave the house with the baggy jeans and sweatshirt on over the tramp clothes, if Mom lets her daughter look like that, Mom shouldn’t be surprised if she gets treated like a tramp. And when you see teenaged girls with that “tramp stamp” tattoo peeking out above the waistband of hip-huggers that are decent by a quarter inch, you know that somebody gave permission for that tattoo and bought those hip-huggers so they must approve of their daughter’s image.

          • 4life

            I agree with you, actually. I’m not really sure how to explain my feelings as a woman when a man makes a ‘nice rack’ comment. Sure, she is asking for that, no doubt. And sex sells. There are plenty of women out there who aspire to that look and sure they are teaching their daughters that as well. And they wouldn’t if they didn’t know men liked it. So, maybe I should have bought those skin tight jeans the sales lady said looked fabulous. But I didn’t, because I’m not that kind of a girl.

      • shanghaied

        reply to a diary about the objectification of women.

    • http://iowntheworld.com/blog/?author=19 Lori Ziganto
  • RSSS
  • tcgeol

    I wish that I could recommend this. Its too bad that feminists are trying to force young ladies to turn out just as bad as they are – and judging from the university campuses I’ve been on, they definitely are making some progress.

    It is great to see women who are ladies, wives, and mothers, among other things, and are proud to be so.

  • Next93

    Let me track back to this quote:

    Good to research your options, bad to fall for anti-choice claims of

  • qixlqatl

    I particularly appreciated this:

    “Why would anyone respect you as a human being, if you don

  • Raven

    And yet we have known for centuries, nay, millenia, that there is depression after a miscarriage.

    Why IS that?

  • http://andrightlyso.com/ civil_truth

    …and an excellent comment by Praying.

    It’s really the primal sin in a different package: the temptation to acts as though you were the Creator, believing yourself entitled to control every aspect of your life, setting you own rules, and viewing others as means to your ends.

    But we’re not the center around which the universe revolves. Reality provides a sharp corrective to such fatal delusion – if not in this world, the next world will bring a rude awakening…

  • taffastrophe

    I agree that PAS exists, but in my opinion, it’s not a good example to use in defense of a position. I mean, post-traumatic stress disorder exists too, but we don’t argue against engaging in conflicts. The resulting argument pits privacy against country, and that’s an argument that no one ever wins.

    Otherwise, fantastic article. I’ll sleep better when Paris Hilton, Nicole Richie, the Kardashians, et al. are off the air. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

    • http://iowntheworld.com/blog/?author=19 Lori Ziganto

      point out that it *does* exist and that they are lying when they say it does not. They are willfully lying about that and hurting women, whom they claim to champion, by doing so.

    • http://andrightlyso.com/ civil_truth

      …as to you’re being a fool – or an agent provocateur.

      You completely miss the point about post-abortion syndrome – which is that pro-abortionists completely deny this entity, despite convincing evidence – including Planned Parenthood’s so-called abortion “counseling”.

      And that denial is despicable, because many women have suffered from this and by not being told about it, they don’t understand what’s going on when it begins to manifest itself.

      Plus, the analogy to post-traumatic stress syndrome is a complete non sequitur.

      And then you try to curry favor by appealing to what you think are the popular prejudices here at RedState. Sorry, these folks are not “bad rubbish” – no person in rubbish. Promoting evil, yes, but not rubbish (and Paris may be trying to make amends, but I haven’t been following enough to say).

      You’re not adding value to our community – but rather subtracting.

      • http://iowntheworld.com/blog/?author=19 Lori Ziganto

        Precisely. Thank you for saying it. I only had time to make a quick point. I’m glad anyway, because you ended up saying it perfectly! Thank you.

    • Next93

      You don’t base policy on how it effects on single person, but how it effects society as a whole.

      That doesn’t mean that PAS shouldn’t come into the equation when a woman is evaluating her options. To try to tell women that PAS is just agitprop from the wingnuts is indefensible.

  • wilfranc

    I cannot comment very well because those shows don’t appeal to me at all. I cannot imagine a man worth having that would appreciate such women.

    Like the mutilation of artistic beauty by the shock artists, sexuality has become coarse and ugly also. What once shocked, now numbs us.

  • Warrior

    As a professional counselor, I can defintely say that post abortion syndrome exists. In addition, women who have had abortions also have a much higher chance of contracting breast cancer. You don’t hear that from the moonbats either.

    And followed to its’ logical conclusion, not only does leftist social thought turn American womanhood into a gang of sluts (a la reality TV), it turns our men into effeminate, ultra-sensitive metrosexuals (urban castrati). A pretty sad state of affairs…

    • revolutionary

      in NOW’s eyes. I refuse to allow my daughter to wear anything suggestive. If I find it…don’t care who bought it…it goes into the trash! My son is learning how to treat women with respect and dignity and I have news for any of those little girls out there looking for a meal ticket…my son will not be the ticket out of the trailer park! I want my son to know how to be a man and stand up for his family, be responsible, and know how to be the leader of his family. I don’t mean total submission on the part of his wife, however, I believe that if a man truly has his family’s best interest in sight and he is making decisions based on God’s will, it is the responsibilty of the woman to support him and rally the troops! I am all for discussions and open talk between husband and wife- the meeting of the minds, but it comes down to one person has to make the decision. My daughter and I have honest discussions about the role of a woman in respectable society. I want her to be strong, but not over powering and I hope that she finds a man that treats her like a queen…my expectation is that she act like one!

      • Warrior

        Yes, that portion of Colossians 3 is often misunderstood. I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. It means: wives submit to your husbands AS they are submitting to the Lord. And truly, if husbands are submitting to the Lord, they are ALREADY loving their wives with tender and faithful affection.

        I do a lot of marriage counseling these days and what I see most is power struggles brought about by the husband’s failure to submit to the Lord. Subsequently, the wife will not submit either and the relationship simply devolves.

        Congratulations to you for bringing up your children right. When I saw thongs on sale for eight year olds, I knew our society had hit a brand new low.

  • conservativemusician

    And reality shows like the Kardashians show how degraded our society has become when we elevate crude, classless and women like these to the forefront. These are not real women, in my view, and if I were single now, women like the Kardashians would not be worth my time. As a happily married man of nearly 24 years, I thank God eveyday for the gift that my wife is to me and my family.

  • eburke

    One need look no further than the ‘flagship’ publication of the “Feminist Movement”, Cosmopolitan, to see the lie of the radical feminists.

    They bleat continually about women being respected for their minds and not their bodies and not as sex objects, and then proceed to publish a magazine in which 80 to 90% of the articles are about: How to look more physically appealing to a man…how to rock a man’s world in bed…and how to be a sex object on the beach so you can get the hunk of your dreams.

    And *we’re* mysogenistic sexists.

    Sigh!