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Second Graders Doin’ the Low Down ‘n Dirty. Yep, those SoCons Need to Get a Life!

From the diaries by Erick

It all began, according to the Starr Report, on November 15, 1995. This is when, according to President Clinton, he Did Not Have Sexual Relations With That Woman, Miss Lewinski.

Well, the pronouncements have finally come down from on high, despite his protestations, that when the ever-game Miss Lewinski fellated the President, he was, in fact, engaged in a "sex act".

How do we know this? One of our most progressive jurisdictions in our ever-more-progressive nation –Oakland, California– says that, at least as it pertains to Second Graders, oral sex is indeed, sex:

A teacher at Oakland’s Markham Elementary School has been suspended indefinitely after school officials said a pair of second-graders performed sex acts* on each other in class – with the teacher present.

“I think everyone is taken aback over this shocking incident,” Troy Flint, the spokesman for the Oakland Unified School District, told CBS 5. “Of course, it is hard to understand how that could have occurred.”

Flint said the sex acts incident was one of two separate cases under investigation involving the teacher; both incidents occurred last week in the same classroom but he said they didn’t come to the attention of school officials until Wednesday.

In one case, several students apparently took off their clothes and were naked in the classroom. In the second incident, a boy and girl reportedly engaged in oral sex in front of their classmates.

*emphasis mine

As the observant will detect, the Oakland Unified School District is pretty clear about what was taking place. At least, we’re not yet treated to the specter of the second-graders in question standing before the principal and saying, "It depends on what the meaning of ‘is’ is". They are fairly confident that oral sex is, well, sex.

We have the randy ol’ lovable lug of a President, Bill Jefferson "BJ" Clinton, to thank for this sort of thing. We’re supposed to be shocked, shocked, that second-graders are kissing one another in places they probably shouldn’t in Oakland, California? For God’s sake, that filth-pit of a human warren has been shoving this sort of thing down the throats (-excuse the allusion-) of normal Americans for thirty years, and now we can’t understand how this sort of thing could happen?

Yeah, right. Whatever.

I guess all of the outreach by the Latter Day Saints and the Amish on the streets of San Fellatio have been for naught. We just had NO IDEA this sort of thing could happen in such a white-bread, button-down right-wing community as Oakland, California.

Folks, this is but one bus-stop on the long descent into cultural madness. We’re supposed to think that we can have presidents lie about sex acts with people to whom they are not married within the walls provided for him by the graciousness of the American taxpayer, and not think it won’t have any effect on the broader culture? This is what you get when you have the most ribald, disgusting, human-cheapening pornography available by 24-hour pipeline right into every household with an internet connection. This is what you get when you have allowed your government, with the best of intentions, to set policies the intent of which is to destroy the traditional family, the supervisory role of a constant parent in the home, and sending these duties to ambivalent statist apparatchiks.

This is precisely why those who have a concern about the on-going war on America’s kids, and thus the future of our nation, must engage in this electoral battle looming on the horizon. It breaks my heart to think of what has happened to the innocence of the second graders of the Oakland Unified School District. Those Social Conservatives must fight with as much vigor as they can muster, or all this Conservation of Fiscal Resources will be saved for a depraved and destroyed youth culture that will one day grow to adulthood, but  will be manifestly unable to govern itself.

Sorry, but the "SoCons" trump the "FiCons".

COMMENTS

  • bk
  • bobmontgomery

    I have not voted for a Democrat since, for anything, school board, dog catcher. When That Party failed to remove that man for officeby any means possible, it lost all right to even compete.

    • http://www.examiner.com/x-1597-Charlotte-Law--Politics-Examiner Mike gamecock DeVine
      • bobmontgomery

        …and hold hands with the very people who rose in vigorous defense of William Jefferson Clinton, who claimed it was ‘just about sex’ and all the rest of that garbage, it makes us also question the votes we have cast since 1998, doesn’t it?

        • http://www.examiner.com/x-1597-Charlotte-Law--Politics-Examiner Mike gamecock DeVine
  • marshmom

    whether to throw up or cry. Instead, I prayed. This is devastating. 2nd graders????? It doesn’t get much lower than this.

    It would’ve completely come as a total shock if I hadn’t seen a home video a few days before on a comedy central show where kids of that same age group were bumping and grinding on each other and doing other lewd things to one another.

    Children are our future and unless we reverse course with our nation’s children, our future is doomed! And it’s NOT the responsibility of the government–Parents need to be parents!!

    • marshmom

      Sorry about that.

  • lineholder

    take on these kinds of issues on our own. If FiCons don’t want to take on these kinds of issues, they won’t. It won’t do us as SoCons a bit of good to sit around and wait for them to decide that these kinds of issues deserve their time and attention.

    FiCons are setting up their own plan of action regarding fiscal issues, and I think it is time for SoCons to start making some plans of our own.

    So let’s start with this scenario that you have mentioned. Questions:
    Could the series of events you have described be categorized as child abuse or child neglect?
    What are the laws in the state regarding child abuse/neglect?
    Was this a unionized employee?
    Does the union include any behavioral standards against child abuse/neglect on the part of a teacher?
    If so, what kind of corrective action is considered?
    If not, then could we have a door opportunity open to us that might bring it about for this to change?
    Have the parents of these children issued any public statements in response to the situation?

    • conservativecurmudgeon

      ..and I am rather unmoved if the so-called “FiCons” don’t join with traditional conservatives–; I just don’t want them actively FIGHTING us with the baseless admonitions that social issues are somehow “wedge” issues, and that they send the precious independents scurrying for the exits. As this episode glaringly illustrates, all of these issues are intertwined.

      This is but one issue that shows the dire, disastrous consequences of allowing liberalism to metastasize itself into the social culture. All you get is depravity, death, and vile cruelty.

      I very much respect the points you have raised, Line…

      …and I think they need to be seriously addressed by those who take the divine spark in this nation’s children as the most precious long-term resource we have, and who live in close proximity to the vile perpetrators of the series of crimes that you’ve outlined.

      • lineholder

        I got thrown the label of “martyring” on this site for posting a diary about what this nation will become if SoCons are silenced, so I know exactly what you are talking about.

        I guess I’m just thinking that just because they may not want to take this one on doesn’t mean that the rest of us have to follow their lead.

        • renny

          Sometimes, instead of open debate, you get the same name calling and editing as those “other” sites. You just have to soldier on.

      • Doc Holliday

        I know you have, and I know you like deny them like other freaks deny the moon landing. Fiscons only care about one thing, for the government to get out of their pay checks. Libertarian-conservatives have a sound, clear view on all subjects, but you don’t wan to deal with that, you would rather pretend they don’t exist. Stick your fingers in your ears and yell, nah, nah ,nah at the top of your lungs. I am sure they will go away then.

        no respect intended.

        • conservativecurmudgeon

          Of course there are libertarian conservatives. There are also transvestite conservatives, bowling conservatives, free-range chicken conservatives, Detroit Lions-fan conservatives (albeit a vanishing breed), and Sears, Roebuck conservatives. And your point is, what, precisely?

          As I’ve said in many of these posts, I prefer that we all hang together, or we will surely hang separately. But, Social Conservatives need not, and indeed should not, check their passionately held system of beliefs at the door for the sake of the embarrassment of those that, like Governor Daniels, think we should simply stay put, shut up, and raise money for the GOP.

          But, since you raised it, I would like to get your take on the “clear, sound view on all subjects”. What is your clear, sound view on abortion? I would enjoy very much hearing it.

          • Doc Holliday

            is that “SOME” (clarified with quotes and capital letters, I don’t know how to underline) social conservatives purposely ignore the fact that libertarian-conservatives are the second largest part of our coalition, the one that won last November. They do this by implying only the tiny group of fiscons are trying to shut them up. Let’s put it this way, judging by this site, there is a lot more yelling about being told to shut up than there is actual shutting up.

            So you want my clear concise view on abortion? Well, could we not start with an easy one? I guess not. I will be honest with you, I realize my limitations, I don’t have all the answers on abortion. I am pro-life and I want Roe. v. Wade overturned. I also know that at some point an embryo is a living being with its own unalienable rights. I care about the child’s rights as much, or more so than the mother’s. The reason is simple, the mother made a choice the child/fetus/embryo did not.

            the problem with abortion is in the details. Will a law banning all abortions nationwide end all abortions nationwide? If it becomes a crime for a doctor to perform abortions, who will then perform them? Will abortions be safer or more dangerous? And yes non doctors have performed them for hundreds of years, maybe thousands.

            Another issue with abortion is we have the luxury of debating the topic in the richest country in history with a large safety net. Should starving women in Aids ravaged parts of Africa have abortions? Should they also abandon condoms as Read Chesterton suggests we should?

            Is it pro life to force a woman to raise a child she does not want, will that child have a good life? In many cases this can be solved with adoption, something I certainly support. But some women are meth addicts, chain smokers, and people who have no desire to carry a child safely. They don’t care about themselves or anyone else.

            So yes CC I am pro life. I want Roe v. Wade repealed AND think the people need to finally determine when they believe life begins. Only then can they make a decision on the legal aspects of abortion.

            You see CC, I don’t think man has a perfect answer for everything. We are finite beings and government seems worse than finite, it is closer to bungling. God is infinite and only He has the final answer. We must do our best, but our best will never be good enough. I wonder if those with simple answers to these questions have really thought about all the issues that will spring up. That is my opinion on the subject.

    • Locked and Loaded

      teachers, social workers, and others who work with children are held to a higher legal standard than other citizens when it comes to recognizing and reporting abuse.

      While the kids were able to act out at school, the parents or others in the home are quite likely responsible for the learned behavior exhibited at school.

      As far as courting Independents: Independent of what? If they can’t by now see which party endorses a standard of decency – and get on board with it – well, they can’t be placated.

      • eastbaylarry

        Yes, they are trained to spot abused children, but that is not what *this* teacher would see in this horrid story.
        This teacher would no doubt call Child Protective Services if he/she heard that this was happening _in the home_ and the parents would Rightfully have ‘heck to pay’.

        But, you see, this was done in the name of education, so that’s different.

    • AceInTX
      • conservativecurmudgeon

        …historically, I don’t think you’ll find an example of an impending victor suing for a “truce”.

        Our culture is clearly, undeniable deadly and toxic. Where are all the self-styled “ecologists” of the 1960′s and early ’70′s whose panties got all twisted over the Cayahoga River catching fire, now that the cultural environment is so sick that second-graders and their teachers are having porn-fests in the classroom, and the community is merely “taken aback”? They were all worried about sick and dying children back then, in those halcyon days . What the heck do they call this?

        This sort of thing must be viewed for what it is: A five-alarm fire in the culture that no “truce” can extinguish.

        • AceInTX

          and the Trucers who call themselves libertarians and the FisCons need to take a long hard look at themselves in the mirror…

          take this incident…and the story about this MTV show “Skins”…and then take a long hard look at this abortion doctor in Philly where he was delivering live viable babies and killing them AFTER they were fully born…and justify their “Truce” Mentality!!!

        • lineholder

          an amoral society to a moral society in the blink of an eye, but it isn’t going to happen that way. I agree with you that this should be a five-alarm warning, but it’s going to take more than just wishing for anything to change.

          It is possible that if we look at the school system and union policies, we might find that there is a lack of accountability emphasis being put on teacher behaviors to prevent situations of this sort. There could be no clearly-defined consequences that prevent this from taking place.

          If that turns out to be true, is this an issue that could be addressed from that approach? I think it is. And I think we would have the support of every decent American parent who genuinely loves their kids.

          I already know what kinds of things we would hear…that this was just an isolated incident and the majority of teachers wouldn’t behave this way. And that is probably true. But it’s like saying that because the majority of people wouldn’t commit murder there should be no mechanisms in place so that the situation can be dealt with properly if and when it does take place.

          If the preventive mechanisms don’t exist, this IS something that can be changed. It sends a clear message that the behavior is NOT acceptable, it will NOT be tolerated and there WILL be consequences for it.

          What decent parent is going to want to take a chance putting their child into a school when NO mechanisms exist to restrict the kind of behavior this teacher displayed? At the very least, we’re talking voyeurism here.

          Perhaps LUR could provide some information from the unions perspective on this one.

          But I could help but wonder…if the teacher’s actions were illegal, is the family in a financial position where they could pursue legal recourse? If not, could we may be help them find some lawyers who would take on this kind of case pro bono?

          • AceInTX

            since we don’t know how she/he did or didn’t act…

            if the teacher was out of the room…or behind a file cabinet…or whatever the case…unless she put the kids up to it….what she did or didn’t do may be a factor…but I don’t think it’s the central issue in what happened here…

            my question is this…we’re talking about 2nd graders….8 years old….the central issue here is…how do they even know what oral sex is? and assuming they do know what it is…why do they think it’s OK to indulge in oral sex in a classroom full of other kids?

            Where is their innocence?

            What have we done to our kids that this is even possible in America?

          • lineholder

            That presents at least the impression that he/she was either directly involved or knew exactly what was going on.

          • lineholder

            that the teacher was in the room. So we are talking about an adult who should have had enough sense to prevent this from taking place and didn’t.

          • AceInTX

            and she should be punished…if she was negligent or culpable in any way…

            But the issue to my way of thinking…and the real tragedy here is…how do 8 years olds even get the idea to do this? How do they even know what Oral sex is…let alone how to do it?

            the tragedy here is that vwe are raising a generation of kids who aren’t allowed to be kids any more because we’ve decided we’re going to be a libertine society…that seeks pleasure wherever we can find it…consequences be damned…

            we’ve got a government that insists on sexualizing our children through sex education programs who want to start indoctrinating our kids beginning in kindergarten… while at the same time trying to do everything it can to silence any moral voices of reason.

            We’ve gort a court system on an anti Christian crusade to stamp out crosses at our national cemeteries, nativity scenes from our courthouse lawns…and who routinely stifle the First Amendment rights of Christians to assembly, speech, and the right to pray to the GOD of their choosing…

            put all this together…and ask yourself how these children know to rut like animals in a classroom full of their peers?

            is it any wonder?

          • AceInTX

            We have one party representing the hedonistic cult of self gratification and an opposition party that doesn’t want to deal with icky social issues or allow the great majority of their party to have a voice screaming against this insanity…

            we’ve sown the wind…and we’re beginning to reap the whirl wind…

            and make no mistake…this is only the beginning of how bad things can get

          • lineholder

            I just think that if it is going to change we have to be the ones to change it. It’s obvious that progressives aren’t going to protect them, and if we don’t who will?

            What’s more, in its own way, this situation could actually be an opportunity to start moving in the direction of getting some things changed. When I made the statement that we would have the support of every decent American parent who loves their kids, that is very much so true, Ace. Think about it. They would back us up in a heartbeat to see ANYONE taking on these kinds of issues for our children’s sakes now.

            It beats knocking our heads against a brick wall…or against each other’s heads, doesn’t it?

          • SusanAnne Hiller

            Is that WITH or WITHOUT pay. I’d sure love to know, wouldn’t you.

        • aesthete

          The abolitionists and the slavers called a truce that worked quite well. A truce has a purpose, and the SoCon movement is far from impending victory (as much as I wish that were the case on abortion).

          • Doc Holliday

            get the statist on one side and the individuals with unalienable rights on the other side, and let’s fight this out. The more time wasted on discussing a truce is the more time wasted why the left plans to do more to ruin this nation.

          • aesthete

            Though jeez, some people are really set on holding grudges against people who have advanced the cause fir even broaching the subject. Conservatives: we eat our own.

          • Doc Holliday

            some have eternal axes to grind. Victory is not enough, they wan’t Dobson in charge of nothing else matters. We justhad a great victory btu you could not tell i tfrom the vitriol here.

            sorry, my tupewriter ( or whatever tthey call it) suffered from a inudation by wine. will get a new on tomorrow :)

          • aesthete

            My computer’s in the shop, and I’ve had to type many of my posts with my iPhone, which isn’t conducive to good spelling :)

          • conservativecurmudgeon

            And, as I’ve said, this conservative tribalism makes no sense. But, I find it interesting that it is the so-called “Fiscal Conservatives” that tend to not want to sit down at the table of righteousness with the “Social Conservatives”, and yet, the Social Conservatives invite the Fiscal Conservatives to sup all day long.

            Why is that? The short answer is that, oftentimes, the “Fiscal Conservatives” typically think the Government has no role in social policy, or they are simply embarrassed by matters they think are highly personal, or tread on areas of morality they think cannot be defined. Fair enough.

            But, what is more personal, in a very broad sense, than the government intrusion into what income I make, right down to penny? Sad to say, but the Government is already in my bedroom. I cannot, for example, charge for sex in my bedroom, and I can’t smoke drugs there, either. Yes, they are in the bathroom, too, (1.5 Gallon Toilets, warning labels on hairdryers, etc., etc.), the basement, and everywhere else in my home. And, if push came to shove, I would welcome back the Hayes Office, and dispense with the EPA.

            All I can say is that, in sum (and even in fine), if we compare the episode to say, the 1930′s, the teacher would have been let go for merely showing up pregnant. And in the 1930′s, we built the foundation, and then rough-framed, the greatest nation on earth.

          • aesthete

            As the kerfuffle at CPAC has made clear, there are some socially conservative groups that aren’t interested in compromise or in being amenable to other conservative viewpoints. It really depends on the group or person that you refer to: there are several small government and libertarian conservatives willing to work with the GOP despite differences of opinion (the conservative movement of the 80s was the result of Frank Meyer’s so-called “fusionism”, after all). There are some people who don’t mind putting aside their differences to work towards policy that they do support, and there are some who don’t: this cuts across boundaries, so I don’t think that you can really say that it is exclusively due to fiscon antipathy towards religion or what have you: I’ve been called a degenerate by enough stiff-necked social conservatives to know that that isn’t the case.

          • conservativecurmudgeon

            Degenerate!

            Point well taken. But, in general it seems that Social Conservatives will fold in the Fiscal Conservatives into their batter when it comes to politicking. But, for about the umpteenth time, I don’t like the conservative tribalism anyway. Traditionalism is simply traditionalism.

          • aesthete

            I.e., calling oneself a “libertarian conservative” or a “social conservative” can help me get a better handle on where you’re coming from, but yes, I do think that there is too much fighting over issues that the various camps won’t agree on any time soon, and too little movement on issues that we can gain traction on (that all sides agree on).

          • AceInTX

            so what’s your point?

            oh…and as for the truce between slavers and abolitionists?

            I hate to burst your bubble and all…but there was a war fought over that issue…so a fat lot of good a truce did aye?

          • aesthete

            rather than a slaveholding Commonwealth of Virginia surrounded by hostile independent states proves my point: a truce was needed to prevent GB or another power from swallowing up the States, or the States from succumbing to war. That priority was more important than settling the dispute over abolitionists and slavers.

          • streiff

            when did this successful truce take place? other than the one after Appomattox?

          • aesthete

            3/5s Compromise, to be precise. Kept the country from being divvied up into smaller states, or from getting reconquered by Great Britain.

      • Doc Holliday

        what new laws would you inact? No more sex during school hours? I think they covered that. Why is it every time a crime is committed and faux social con wants a new law?

        I have an idea, prosecute the criminal and be done with it.

        • AceInTX

          How about restricting the ability of our children to access pornography by innocently clicking on the wrong link with a mouse?

          How about taking trash off of prime time television like desperate house wives, Cougertown.

          maybe we could do something about MTV openly promoting teen sex and drug use.

          besides….who says it has to be a law anyway…why can’t you say enough is enough and that children shouldn’t be subjected to perversion and filth at every turn of the dial and every click of the mouse?

          • JadedByPolitics

            Kevin Jennings the supposed “safe” school czar from having access to OUR children. It is stopping the LGBT (did I get that right? who cares) from forcing 5 year old children from learning about gay sex in school (no doubt in CA it is already on the daily lesson). Standards of decency would require that Americans of good will and faith step up and say NO! to the constant attack and break down of the family by the left and TAKE BACK OUR COUNTRY!

          • lineholder

            is that we could have a door of opportunity that could let us take the beginning steps in that direction WITH A LOT OF SUPPORT from our fellow Americans.

          • renny

            as Van Jones was deposed.

          • aesthete

            Maybe, but the fact that even the Catholic Church has depravity occurring under it’s nose is evidence to me persuades me that it might not have. As a parent, I assume that you hold your kids directly responsible for their actions when they do wrong, rather than going on a sing and dance for why culture “made” them that way. Ultimately, people are responsible for their actions, not a concept as elusive as “society”.

          • JadedByPolitics

            yes let us not get in a debate about child molestation and the ills of society without throwing in the Catholic Church and their billion followers who had the same “progressives” try to destroy it from the inside/out….why it wouldn’t be a good debate without that!

          • aesthete

            Because just to be clear, I think that anyone who holds Chirch leadership responsible for what happened is just as nonsensical as positing that Clinton is personally responsible for what these kids were doing to each other.

          • JadedByPolitics

            a debate on social ills be without the Catholic Church card….and well you threw it on the table and I brought attention to it.

          • streiff

            while you’re slandering whole groups of people, I’m sure they’re to blame for something, too.

          • aesthete

            The Jews are *not* to blame for bad actions of people peripherally connected to them that they do not have control over, agree with, or even know about.

            The Catholics are *not* to blame for bad actions of priests peripherally connected to them that they do not have control over, agree with, or even know about.

            Conservatives are *not* to blame for bad actions of persons supposedly connected to them that they do not have control over, agree with, or even know about.

            Liberals are *not* to blame for bad actions of persons peripherally connected to them that they do not have control over, agree with, or even know about.

            Do you see how liberals might have a problem with an OP indicting them for something that they had no control over, and for an act that they did not agree was right? I’m not a fan of liberals, but for crying out loud, they’re not the cause for all that is wrong in the world. One more time for effect: your group is not defined by you, and vice versa! There are bad apples everywhere: the Catholic Church, worldwide Jewry, among conservatives and liberals, and at your favorite sports bars. The actions that these bad actors undertake do not reflect on those institutions when the members of those institutions are not aware that they are going on, and when they disapprove of said actions.

  • jb13

    If my child had been involved in this class, I think the crosshairs the teacher might find him/herself in would be much more than metaphorical.

  • Read Chesterton

    so any argument over Social Conservatives having “A Place” in the so-called New Republican Party is probably a red herring planted by republican liberals afraid to death of what they see happening to the party since the Tea Party movement. The movement to purge SoCons looks more to me like a movement to purge AllCons.

    If we want to reverse the putrid tide of porn culture and baby killing as a contraceptive, we have double duty ahead of us… the institutions, e.g. our schools, our churches, our benevolent organizations, our charities, all need to be taken in hand right along with our government. The war plan can only fail if we put all troops on the Marxist front and leave the Gramscian flank wide open.

    Institutionalized liberalism has all but destroyed the social moral consensus. If we don’t show up, Tea Party style, to the school board meeting, the PTA, the parish business meeting, and even, on occasion, the court rooms, then it doesn’t matter how much we get government to cut spending. George Washington’s warning that the republic will not withstand an amoral people is ringing truer with every year that passes.

  • exitsfunnel

    This atrocity wasn’t Bill Clinton’s fault. And it wasn’t the internet’s fault. Do you want to know whose fault it was? It was the kids’ parents’ fault and the teacher’s fault and to some limited extent the fault of the children themselves.

    This post of yours exploiting this horrible incident to attack fiscal conservatives just absolutely smacks of the leftist gun grabbers trying to pin the Tuscon shootings on Sarah Palin and using that tragedy as pretext to launch a whole new series of attacks on the second amendment.

    -exits

    • conservativecurmudgeon

      I know when I went to school, all those dark years ago, there was a tacit understanding that the parents didn

      • exitsfunnel

        Regarding the apportionment of blame between the teacher and the parent, I don’t know. It seems that the details are hazy. My impression wasn’t that the teacher instigated the incident only that he or she wasn’t sufficiently proactive in stopping and reporting it. But maybe that’s not right; I don’t know. If the teacher actually instigated the act, then obviously that would shift the culpability away from the parents.

        But that’s of course a separate issue from the argument you’re trying to make which is to shift the culpability away from the people who were actually directly involved with the incident and onto the culture at large, which you feel isn’t sufficiently culturally conservative (and, bizarrely Bill Clinton).

        This is the same unfortunate tactic the left used in the aftermath of the Tuscon shootings when they, despite the lack of even a shred of evidence, tried to shift the blame onto conservatives.

        Watch this:

        <em?This incident was a tragedy. And though we all want (Jared Loughner / the teacher) to receive the full punishment they deserve under the law we must also examine the underlying (liberal / conservative) culture that foments these sorts of atrocities. These people don’t’ exist in a vacuum and it’s only common sense that when (Bill Clinton / Sarah Palin) (is fellated / prints maps with gun sights) there are going to be consequences. So as we ponder this horrible event, we do ourselves and society a disservice if we don’t seize this opportunity to address the horrible (liberal / conservative) culture and it’s associated (libertine mores / violent gun rhetoric) so that we can step back from the sort of environment we find ourselves in which leads to these kinds of atrocities.

        -exits

        • aesthete
    • AceInTX

      I’ve got three boys and I’ve tried to protect them from the crap on the internet and that is freely available on TV…everywhere you look we’re being inundated with hyper sexual images….I’ve spent hours…days even…and wads of cash trying to find programs to block the filth coming into my home…it’s impossible!

      It’s a cop out to say it’s the soul responsibility of parents to keep their kids from seeing this stuff….I defy you to get on the internet with your kids and keep them from the images that are everywhere.

      It’s in the commercials on TV, it’s in the music on the radio…it’s on network television….we’re becoming a crass and classless society with no community standards and the n we act surprised when you have second graders performing sex acts on one another…or when there is a high school in Tennessee that has a 20% pregnancy rate.

      It’s time for people in this country to stop passing the buck and putting off this crap onto parents who are supposedly neglecting their kids…it’s time to stop turning a blind eye toward the degradation of our culture…

      • Doc Holliday

        is passing the buck? You would prefer Obama and the FCC? You seem to have very strong social values Ace, I believe in you, I believe you can teach your kids right and wrong better than the government can. It is not like if they see something untoward, they will turn into a pillar of salt. You have to teach them right from wrong, so when they see wrong, they can deal with it.

        We make week conservatives when we shield them from the real world. We make strong conservatives when we teach them to deal with the real world, warts and all.

        • powertothepeople

          between granting total power to the FCC and defining what is acceptable on TV during certain hours, setting boundaries on spam emails containing pornographic images, and setting rules that force sites to state clearly that offensive images are on their site. Your suggestion that those of us who do not want our children seeing the crap that is out there is somehow akin shielding them from the real world is nonsense. My kids do not need to see two people banging when they enter a site listed as disney cartoons to know sex happens in life. You can call that a wart, I call it crap that needs to be stopped.

          No one is asking the federal government to raise our kids or force our vies on everyone, that is absolute nonsense. But we can expect TV to not to contain lewd commercials or shows during the family hours and not have to hear people claim we are forcing our views on them or using laws to govern ones choices. We already regulate via laws just about everything. A strip club, in all 50 states, can not open in a residential neighborhood, can not be within so many feet of a church, etc. This is not giving Obama or the feds total control of our lives, it is simply protecting decency in certain areas. In the business district, they can open their dive. But even there, they can not come out on a public sidewalk nude. Same applies to TV, Internet, Radio, etc. Asking for clear rules on certain things is not asking the government to raise our kids as you put it, it is simply trying to make sure there is a clear line between decency and all the rest so that parents can help control what their kids are exposed to.

          • Doc Holliday

            but that has been done. there are parental controls, there are ways to screen lewd websites. The internet by its very nature is difficult to police,that is where parents come in. Buy filters, keep tabs on what your children are watching. But don’t rely on the government to raise your kids. I can’t think of a worse example, I can’t think on any other entity I would least want to tell my kids what to watch.

          • AceInTX

            there are parental controls, there are ways to screen lewd websites

            trust me…I’ve tried…and for every filtering program out there…there is a pervert trying to get around it…I’ve had to go in an pluck in 50 different ways to possibly spell the f word phonetically for that simple reason

          • Doc Holliday

            I hope you can find filtering sotfwae that works for you. If you can’t find it, and it is unavaliable, I suggest monitering what they watching what they watch from some type of master domain name.

            I stilll say kids greate influence is theri parents. I know you are up to it. perrsonally, I am going through a very hard time, and I don’t reccoment it to others. -pleezs don’t think libertarians are your enemyl ( know I am not.]]

            If you want me to to check into some filtering software, let me know. I only want the best for you and your family.

            I doin’t think new laws are the answer, but I do believe their ARE answers.

          • AceInTX

            I can set down with them…and pick what they watch for them…and I’m still bombarded with the filth…try the Super Bowl as one example

            Listen to the radio and try explaining to your kid what someone means about increasing size and girth for “Her pleasure” when all you want to do is drive down the road and listen to some music.

            Again…it’s about community standards…it’s not about a federal law…it’s about getting the Feds out of the way as a matter of fact…it’s about getting the feds to get off their anti Christian crusades tearing down crosses in cemeteries, the ten commandments from classrooms and court houses, dragging kids off stage at their graduations for daring to mention Jesus Christ…Driving RV Chruches from Federal Campsites…Fining evangelists for passing out gospel tracts on government property…It’s about banning Christmas and any vestige of our heritage and culture from the public square…

            of course…you’ll ignore all I just typed and come back again all puffed up about passing federal laws which noone has called for…and we’ll dance around the same bush again…so…I’m off!

            Toodles

          • aesthete

            When it comes down to it, I trust no one but me to know what is “decent” for my family: as heartland noted a couple of days ago, there are several graphic (sexually and otherwise) movies which use these elements to speak a greater moral truth. There are, by that same token, plenty of superficially inoffensive movies which serve as vehicles for insidious value systems or philosophical beliefs. For my part, I would show a child of any age “The Patriot” before “The Golden Compass” any day of the week. Would a board of censors choose to show or block movies based on my standards? I don’t know, but I won’t take the chance: at the heart of the debate are two ideas: the first is that government has the capacity and the right to override my choices (and those of businesses) regarding the definition of decency, because they are ultimately wiser than us pertaining such matters. The second is that violent solutions to resolving inconveniences are acceptable: that the whim of enough parents is all that should be required for government to point a rifle at a movie exec to tell him to submit. There are plenty of solutions out there: as a child, I wasn’t allowed to play video games or to watch most movies. I don’t know that that was the best solution, but it had the merit of not forcing another to subsidize our values and belief system.

          • powertothepeople

            it is about making sure there is “truth in advertising.”

            Look we can play games all day about who sets morality, but the fact remains there are serious issues with the net, tv, and radio. One does not have to define morality in order to make guidelines. For instance, a website has to set a rating system prior to entering their site. I stated the above example about a site purporting to have disney cartoons on it, and they did, along with pornography. A simply disclaimer, porn on this site, would make it easier for parents to police, does not define your morality by my standards, and allows parents to better control what crosses their kids eyes.

            Same goes for email spam. I can not tell you how many times I have received emails that spoof friends names only to open it up and bam, there is naked people doing things that I should not be watching. Setting rules ending this does not infringe on your rights or set a standard of morality. It simply sets a standard on how business can be conducted.

            I could go on and on, but I think my point is made. Parents can not be around 24/7 We can take all necessary steps to prevent this type of junk from coming in our homes via parent controls, software, etc but since there is no regulation at this point, the software and controls are obsolete before we even install.

            Same goes for TV. I can set all parent controls and advertisements are not covered by those controls. So I am trying to finish dinner and my kid sees nearly naked women flashing across the screen(victoria secret) sees descriptive sex acts from the show skin, etc and his mind now has images it did not need. Years ago, it was not allowed during family hours, this needs to come back. It does not define what you can show your kids nor does it set some standard of morality for all, it simply defines a certain set amount of hours on public TV as kids hours and stops adult themed material from being shown.

            I police my child stringently, but no way any parent can police 24/7 It is a shame our children can not watch cartoon on the TV without seeing boobs and ass, can not open email without getting bombarded with sex acts, etc. We as parents should be granted certain accommodations when it comes to our children. We should be able to demand safe zones without being told we are trying to define morality.

          • http://www.thejoyofreason.com Greg Garrison

            Back when the v-chip became a statutory device in televisions, I remember telling my friends that tv would become inappropriate within a few years, since the government giving parents a way of safeguarding their kids. It allowed broadcasters to air more salacious material without concern for who might watch it. It’s a natural consequence of changing the incentives and constraints of broadcasting so fundamentally.

          • aesthete

            you are allowing someone (a board, a director of some bureaucracy, etc) to decide what constitutes “family values” based on non-objective standards. Was “All in the Family” objectionable content? I don’t think so, but it was nevertheless bumped off of its timeslot to allow “family friendly” programming to play. There were several “children’s shows” that positively showcased ideas more disturbing and damaging than the most graphic sex scenes. To me, virtually anything on HBO is preferable to sitcoms that portray sexual looseness as something to be admired, to use one comparison. There are several great artistic and philosophical works that contain graphic material, and society is all the better for having it available to the public (such as 1984). Heck, the Bible itself depicts several disturbing or graphic scenes that, were they written into a play or a book, several parents would want to ban! I don’t even want to think about what havoc could be wreaked by interest groups (for example, gays successfully arguing that portraying a healthy, committed gay couple is “family friendly”).

            Even the more benign regime that you describe for the internet (as I understand it, to have a rating board for websites) entrusts a third party with the legitimacy to force websites to put up their rating, and could have the effect of discouraging adults and children alike from viewing websites that have valid and uplifting material. Again I must ask, what would fall under the definition of “objectionable content”? Would sites dedicated to the use of guns come under the umbrella of content inappropriate for children? What about political sites which might recognize a right to self-defense, or otherwise defend some forms of violence? What of sites that are in and of themselves fine, but whose commenters swear in the comment boards? Because I assure you, there are many out there who would see calls to violence (implicit and explicit) as reasons to downgrade a site’s rating. Entrusting the government with such a gargantuan task does nothing to solve the problem: after all, if it’s just a rating, what stops you from going in, esp with a broken and politicized rating system? Furthermore, it allows government a way to delegitimize political speech by assigning political ideas a certain level of respectability: guess who’s political views will come under greater scrutiny? Finally, it allows government to gain a controlling interest in the goings-on of the internet: a potentially lucrative place for government to be.

            I’m not too crazy about the status quo, either: I don’t watch cable because it has grown too coarse for my tastes. However, there are options out there: watching TV online is one that I take advantage of, waiting for shows to come out on DVD is another. I strongly believe that parents (and citizens in general) have a right to control what children see at public schools: they are being forced to pay for it, so there is at least some basis for such action. Parents are not being forced to pay for TV or the internet, though, nor are their children being forced to watch TV or go on the internet. Given those facts, and the availability of alternatives out there, there is no basis for government to force their standards (which probably don’t match up with mine) down my throat, or to force businesses to adopt standards that they do not agree with. This is especially so when what you recommend affects not only what children will potentially see, but also what *adults* will potentially see. Good intentions have led the left down the path that they are currently on; conservatives should avoid paying heed to that siren song.

          • powertothepeople

            one of two things is happening her aesthete. Either I am not being clear about what I mean which I tend to do, or you are taking what I am saying to a level I do not intend it to be at. So lets look at this a different way.

            Strip Club. In the old days before I was saved and stopped living the way I did, I owned half a strip club in Greenville SC. Most looked down on my business, that is until they parked in the back and slipped in hoping no one saw them. But that is a separate topic all together.

            Lets set aside any discussion of morality or setting standards of morality for a sec concerning strip clubs. Most on here would agree that laws governing the placement of strip clubs is valid.

            In every state, fed laws govern where a club can be, how far it has to be from a residential area, a school, or a church. They govern how people can not see inside without actually going in side. They govern the age where a person can go in or work there. They govern what can happen inside when it comes to the entertainment and private dancing. They govern just about every aspect of the business. They are not setting rules as to the morality of the business, they simply define how far these type businesses can intrude in private life or residential life.

            I own a home with land in my town. The law says no form of business, adult or otherwise, can operate in my neighborhood. If a strip club wants to open, they have to open in the business district yet still have to follow distance from certain other type business laws. If they violate these laws, they get fined or shut down. I know about these type fines, we got hit with a few.

            Now these laws did not exist since the beginning of our country, somewhere along the way, problem arose, laws were made, morality was still left up to the individual.

            Do you feel the laws governing strip clubs infringes on your right to decide your own morality, are they unjust laws, would you favor repeal of these laws or keep them as they are or even toughen them. If you were to buy a piece of property in your state where your land is open zoning, a strip club applies for permit to open up a business next door, would you stay silent and allow it or would you petition to have the permits denied. If you petition to have them denied, would you be defining morality for all or would you be protecting the value of your property, the safety of your family as we all know what comes with strip clubs (heavy drug use, fighting, violence, prostitution, nudity, drunk driving, etc) and would you be protecting your kids ( if you have kids or grandkids) from being exposed to that type business near your home? Lets even go further, strip club is not opening next to your home, but they apply to put up a road sign (banner) on the road leading out of your home where pictures of their dancers scantily clothed will be displayed. Would you be OK with the sign because you have told your young boys or grandsons women are not objects and nudity outside of marriage is not OK or would you have issue with your kid seeing the signs every time they drive by, walk by, or play in the yard. You could just stop them from seeing it by blindfolding them every time you get in the car and never letting them play outside, but how do you stop them from peeking outside their window when you are asleep or in another room, Of course you could take preventions for that scenario and spray paint your windows black, then they just open the door.

            My point is, I would fight all the above scenarios as I do not feel it is right for them to act like that. I am not defining your morality by doing so or keeping your from going to a strip club whenever you please, I am simply making sure that in certain areas where my kids should not be exposed to that type of stuff, they are not exposed.

            What is your opinion on the above scenario?

          • aesthete

            but I believe your point to be valid. That said, the internet is not really analogous to property in this example. I’ll explain why I believe this to be the case point by point:

            State/Federal control: Unlike strip clubs, the internet does not lend itself to being regulated by local authorities, but must instead be regulated by state or (God forbid) federal fiat. This presents a problem: state-level agencies are living, breathing entities with their own political power and designs, to a much greater extent than the local zoning board. Such an agency is much more likely to be “captured” by special interests, to chart its own course, and to be much more difficult to control than your local board. While your local board might be decent in managing the goings-on of a city or municipality, it would be disastrous to grant it power over an entire state: it would make it much easier to mask unfair and arbitrary decisions, and much more difficult to levy the forces of democracy against unjust and capricious use of its power. In short, it’s a lot easier to hold accountable something that is local and limited, than it is to monitor something that is statewide and that manages something as extensive as the internet.

            Type of regulation: Whereas the local zoning board has limited and accountable control over certain uses of property, a board governing “objectionable content” would in all likelihood regulate a variety of things. The three that come to mind are depictions of violence, profanity, and sexuality: this is far more than what you posit, and would likely increase as time goes on to regulation of “hate speech” and other categories.

            Definition: unlike prostitution or a strip club, both of which have relatively clear legal meanings, there is no such objective standard for decency. I assure you that your standard of decency is different from mine, and that mine is different from Ace’s, and that Ace’s is different from streiffs, etc. Given all of the things which have been condemned as “indecent”, from rap music to wearing jeans to church to preaching on the street corner, I imagine that “decency” laws would cover everything under the Sun but what they were originally meant to cover!

            Implementation: There is no way to reasonably implement laws on this issue. Besides definitional issues, should these laws extend to what people leave on comment boards, or only to what is written on the main site? Does the intent of the site matter in whether the site is marked down in points, or should it be marked down if it advocates for violence? Is suggestive attire or an implicit (possibly metaphorical) call to violence acceptable? Will the rating of sites change as time goes on? Will site-masters have to submit their sites to the regulating agency to gain clearance to put them on the WWW, or will the feds/state authorities be playing a game of catchup? What will the penalty be if a site refuses to submit to the ratings system? Will aggregators and search engines like Google be ranked at all, or will they be regulated in other ways? In what ways can one appeal a rating that one considers to be erroneous? Will there be clear guidelines for what goes into the ratings system? How would sites that rely on user-generated content be ranked, if at all? The ambiguity behind such a proposal would create new opportunities for lawyers the day it gets implemented, and would likely stifle a good deal of the creative spirit that currently exists in the internet today, were it to be implemented in the US. In the case of a state agency, site owners of smaller sites will either not care, try to opt out of the system for the state, or look for ways around it.

            Freedom affected: local zoning for strip clubs only marginally affects property rights and the freedom to screw. The freedom of speech is at play when it comes to this proposal: there is no way to avoid cordoning off speech that could have artistic or philosophical merit under such a proposal, and just as a man does not walk into the “entertainment district” unless he has serious intentions, so too would an internet surfer avoid sites that are marked as bad (particularly if there is a way for the state to notify persons of “bad” sites visited). That’s fine if there’s actually truth in advertising, but there will not be: if government can pervert relatively unambiguous statutes and Constitutional amendments, it can surely pervert something as difficult to interpret as “decency”, and a lot of stuff that is perfectly valid speech will be shoehorned into an “indecent” category, depending on the political winds.

            Mission creep: It cannot be disputed that fed intervention would give them a toehold for full control of internet activity of all sorts — something that should emphatically be avoided.

            Essentially, it is more analogous to proposing a very far-off zoning board that is not accountable to you, arbitrarily deciding that Redstate, heavy metal sites, and gun training sites should be closer to the pornography site than to the “respectable” parts of the internet. All ideas regarding the internet are imperfect, but that is also the case when it comes to free speech: IMO, the Anti-Federalists did us a great favor when they removed government from being able to regulate speech at all, and we would be wise to do the same when it comes to the internet.

          • http://www.thejoyofreason.com Greg Garrison

            Unless we are to have China-style filtering, we will need some kind of international standards, given the borderlessness of the Internet.

            This idea makes me very queasy, but it may be inevitable. Time will tell.

            I think that it could be done with relative ease without killing freedom of speech. I’m just sort of thinking out loud, but imagine that there were international guardrails (for signatory countries) that did not define what is on the Net, but where it is, from a domain name perspective.

            ICANN has thrown around the .xxx domain idea. What if international standards said that if a country allows porn (loosely but defensibly defined and excluding art), it would have to go on an xxx domain. Signatory countries would be allowed to determine what could legally be hosted & viewed within their borders. Violations within a country could be dealt with according to national laws. Domain compliance would be the responsibility of each member country, and there would be a fine levied on the country by the international body for such violations.

            An awful thought in some ways, but it would provide a framework that respects national sovereignty but allows for some safeguards and control. Just thought of it. May change my mind in five minutes.

          • aesthete

            There is no objective definition of pornography, or test for what constitutes the same: the Miller test (the best attempt at a standard that I’ve seen) is still woefully inadequate, and “I know it when I see it” is a terrible standard, for reasons that are obvious. A judge elected in AL covered up some nude statues adorning the AL Supreme Court under the belief that they were indecent: I refuse to allow my freedom of speech to come under the heel of anyone like him, and having known government employees, I highly doubt that they are much more intelligent than said judge. An international treaty would probably make things worse, not better. I imagine that we would have concerns with Chinese web usage, and that China would want our government censoring sites critical of the Chinese government, just as Google did while it operated there. I have heard of no proposal thus far that has adequate safeguards and good enough of definitions to satisfy me, and IMO, regulation of the internet would have tremendous negative impact on our economy and on our freedoms.

          • http://www.thejoyofreason.com Greg Garrison

            In fact, it horrifies me in a lot of ways. I just don’t know what the regulatory solution is. While I like the wild west aspect of the Net and take the appropriate precautions to protect my children, it’s troublesome that there has to be a war of sorts between pornographers and parents, and I do think that the pornification of the culture is harmful and makes healthy living and childrearing more difficult. Life would be simpler for everyone if the swim lanes were defined a bit more clearly.

          • powertothepeople

            Not sure about your state, but having internet or TV is not an option anymore with me. I would say at least twice a month if not more, the schools assigns reports from a TV show, requires research on the net with links provided to the teacher, sends info and assignments via email, etc.

            In my sons computer lab, they were spending time learning about email and how to send them, add attachments, etc. Students were told to send emails to each other at school and at home, emails were spoofed, and kids actually were opening porno emails disguised as friends emails both at home and at school. The school actually had to cut that portion of its training out and instead the teacher had to use word to form simulated emails and then had the students work that way with them. Problem is, it limits actual learning since you can not simulate adding an attachment, putting flash on it, etc. This is something that needs to be stopped via laws where officials can go after these companies who buy all the private info gathered through data mining and then disguises the email and its contents with things even many of us would be fooled by. Not governing morality, simply trying to protect our kids.

            But trust me, the days are long gone where you can just not own a TV or computer and since protection programs are not that effective except with sites that are honest about their content, something has to be done. I place the nonsense companies are doing on TV and the net as being akin to the spam emails that the perpetrators have finally started being punished.

          • runner12

            First of all, let me say that this incident is schocking and the teacher should have the book thrown at him/her.

            Secondly, this topic as it relates to free speech is always a tough one. On the one hand, no one wants to see speech regulated because of the slippery slope that could so easily occur. The 1st Amendment is one of are most sacred amendments and is vital to maintaining a free society.

            But on the other hand, there are some things that we do regulate. For example, you cannot yell “fire” in a theater, you cannot run around naked, you cannot engage in sexual acts in public, child pornography is outlawed, and the list goes on and on. There are some things that society has deemed to be inappropriate and punishable by law. Should tv and internet be exempt from such scrutiny? I don’t think so.

            IMHO, I think the solution is two-fold. First of all, we must call parents to a higher standard of parenting. I have read all of the posts and it seems that all of the parents here are doing all the right things. But the reality is that the vast majority of American parents are not doing these things. They have completely abdicated their roles as caregivers and protectors. But it does not end with the parents. This country needs a heart change and some serious healing quick. Let’s be honest, if no one watched this garbage, it would not be as prevalent.

            A second solution could be to enacte some community-based controls. A town or city could vote to have some of the content blocked from their viewing area. That way the solution would be bottom-up and implemented by the people and not by the government.

          • runner12

            When I re-read it I realize there was more than one error. Sorry, not on my computer right now.

          • AceInTX

            Who says we should wear cloths in public?

            Who determines that public sex is not permissible?

            let’s just eliminate any public standard at all and expose out kids to anything and everything…

            yet in all this…there are a couple of you that keep harping on. who is to decide and refuse to deal with the underlying premise of the OP here…and that is the tragedy of lost innocence in this country…

            I’m not of arbitrary censorship…I lean strongly toward a libertarian mind set…and it’s my tendency to lean that direction that you and Doc and a few others depend on in making your arguments…but in all things we live on a fulcrum…and the pendulum has swung too far the libertarian direction and entirely too close to a libertine mindset…

            How else do you explain the inability of some of you here to be outraged at the thought of eight year olds indulging in oral sex in a class room? Or to see the insipid nature of a network like MTV putting on a television program that is filled with teen sex, drug abuse and displays of nudity involving minors without any moral commentary on it other than to glorify and glamorize it…

            This is appalling to me…and it enfuriates me at the same time…

            Heck…you can’t even drive down the road with the radio off without being exposed to some crass individual’s narcissistic desire to be in our faces:

            Here are a couple examples of what I’m talking about:

            1) I ended up following a guy with a bumper sticker on his car that said, “Sleep, Eat, FXXX”

            2)I see it a lot in Texas and maybe this is a local phenomena…but we have all these JackWagons driving around it pick ups with chromed testicles hanging from the trailor hitches on their trucks…

            3) then there are the craven morons that have the wrench decal in their back glass that has an open wrench on the rop end with two box end wenches side by side on the bottom end so it looks like a big Penis ion their back glass…and it says something about big boy’s tools…

            I mean…come on…Yes we should be free of censorship…but some abuse it….and subject the rest of us to filth at every turn…

            and we wonder why 8 year olds are servicing each other in the class room?

          • aesthete

            that what this teacher did was OK? I, for one, am glad that he is going to jail, and whatever amount of time he’s going for, it isn’t enough. What does that have to do with freedom of expression or Bill Clinton? Of the things that you mentioned, which would you be willing to have a policeman jail people for doing? There are several things (including some that you mentioned) that I think are crass and stupid, but my visceral disgust isn’t sufficient basis for policy which has the end result of depriving people of their money and freedom.

            Seriously, Ace, your contention that we shouldn’t be surprised by incidents like this one due to coarsening is just ridiculous: if these were your children servicing other kids in the classroom, you would be shocked, outraged, and the last place you would look to blame would be society. Indeed, I expect that believing that your children would do such a thing is inconceivable to you, and you would be looking for who in their lives did something to make them think that this was a good thing. You would do all of this precisely because you are a good parent. Your reaction would not be to blame Clinton and TV: why, then, would you think that those factors are to blame in this case? It is much more likely that bad parenting, bad teaching, and possibly some sexual abuse was involved in this case. If Clinton/society were involved at all, it was in such a small way relative to those factors as to be hardly worth mention.

            As for the clothes laws, I don’t wear my clothes because I’m afraid of a policeman, and I imagine that that’s true of pretty much everyone else. I don’t see an epidemic of naked people springing up all of the sudden simply because we don’t have a law in place, ditto public sex. I don’t really care too much about those laws one way or another, but I don’t see that they are keeping us from a cavalcade of nudity or public sex, either.

          • AceInTX

            filling up people’s inboxes with pornographic material that they have not asked to receive.

            Worse…deliberately playing with emails and web links to mask what is on the other side of the link. Especially if they use cartoon references or anything that would entice a child to click the link.

            How about distinguishing between public and private space on the Internet just like we do for everything else…If you want to display pornographic images…do it on a back page on your web site and require a password to access it… but keep the filth off the front page where it can be accessed by anyone browsing by…

            I look at web pages like a wall along a sidewalk…if it’s not allowed to be displayed on a sidewalk…through the window of your car, or house…or in a public setting for people walking along…then it shouldn’t be allowed to be accessed by someone traveling the information super highway

            Seriously…why should I have to pay to filter your filth…why shouldn’t you have to pay to display it? Or the pervert you are peddling it to have to pay to view it?

            and why should my kids be allowed to view it without restriction when I have my back turned?

          • AceInTX

            because I know…if a kid sees something like this…the6y’ll try it no matter what Mom or Dad has taught them…I’ve seen it often enough out of them to know this to be the case…

            Actually, I have one who I think would run like a scalded dog…and another that would be eager to try it…the third could be peer pressured into it very easily..

            the issue with Clinton is…we spent a few years making the argument that oral sex isn’t sex…we have spent a couple years glamorizing Paris Hilton who’s only claim to fame is being a rich brat who went down on some guy on a camera…we’ve spent a couple years following Britney Spears every travail through the sewers of Hollywood along with Lindsey Lohan…we’ve idolized a little girl named Miley Cyrus who is now in the process of becoming Britney Spears and Christina Aquilera

            We’ve allowed our public airwaves to be filled with adds for penis enlargement, erectile dysfunction remedies, and pills to heighten “HER” sexual enjoyment and now we have a television network watched almost exclusively by our youth in glamorizing teen sex and drug use

            We’ve allowed restaurants touting they pro family values by selling infant onezies that proclaim “I’m a future hOOters Girl…and I’m a future bOOb man

            we plaster our cars with bumper stickers that proclaim “I’m a BITXX”, Eat, Sleep, FXXX,, tools that look like Penises and we hang Chrome Testicles from our tow hitches

            Then on the flip side

            we attack every good and decent institution in this country from the Church, to the Boy Scouts, the Girl Scouts.

            Churches can’t use public facilities or plug into public sound systems for rallies and crusades because of a so called Separation Of Church And State Clause that didn’t exist until the 1950s

            Boy scouts are not allowed to use public facilities in San Francisco because they won’t allow gay Scout Masters and because they require boy scouts to pray and express loyalty to GOD

            We go off on Federal court ordered crusades to ban Bibles from Schools and Public Libraries, stop churches from holding Sunday services in our public RV parks.

            We drag Valedictorians and salutatorians from behind microphones for daring to mention their strong faith in Jesus Christ as the reason for their success

            We go on TV to attack Christians on a daily basis is intolerant bigots who have a mental condition called HOMOPHOBIA…

            We stand silently by when hate crimes are carried out across this country burning down Churches

            and where are our Libertarian brethren in the midst of it all?

            They’re standing beside the left participating in the attacks on Christian expression all the while defending Chester the molester’s right to display B&D, S&M, Scat, Watersports, Fisting, Gay sex, Bi Sex, Self Sex and everything else short of necrophilia and pedophilia because we don’t want censorship to rear it’s ugly head in America?

            Please!

          • conservativecurmudgeon

            ..it sure seems like the Libs have been defining what is decent, and what is not. Maybe the Conservatives can have a whack at it.

          • aesthete

            Name a single department besides the military which has a traditionalist bent. I cannot think of one. There’s an old axiom that says something to the effect of that most entrenched institutions that start off neutral will inevitably become liberal, and while I think that’s overstating it, there is some truth to it: liberals are Gramscian and can work centralized systems in a way that conservatives will never be able to. It is all too easy to imagine a “board of morality” populated wholly by Clintonian anti-gun soccer mom types, leftists priests, and the odd Mike Huckabee here and there for “balance”. Even if there were an objective, consistent view of what is decent for conservatives (there isn’t), even if such decency were possible to enforce consistently (it isn’t) and even if I acknowledged the legitimacy of government controlling what my eyes can see and what my ears can hear (I don’t), the incentives in place lead to nowhere

          • AceInTX

            as if we can’t agree that public nudity is wrong…or sex in public…or sex with children…or glamorizing drug use for children…

            are you going to say any of that is OK…

            go ahead and say it…I dare you

            you know as well as I do it’s wrong…

            I’m with you if it comes to having censors determine what ideologies will be allowed…censoring ideas is wrong..we can all agree on that…

            this isn’t an either or argument..I’ll fight beside you if we end up with panels telling us what ideas are acceptable for discourse

            why can’t you side with me when it comes to stopping this insipid encroachment into our children’s minds of vile perversions and decadence that has no place in a free and decent society

          • aesthete

            I’m just not for getting government to hop on that bandwagon, because whatever else happens, I’m convinced that any regulation of speech and content of speech is an open invitation for government to begin regulating ideas under the guise of regulating content of speech: the two are too closely linked for it to be otherwise. Europe is dominated by boards that govern appropriate speech, and which assign value to said speech. Many anti-Islamist politicians have been tried under those laws. Just a few decades ago, those boards were regulating decency. The wrongness of an act is not sufficient basis for criminalizing said act: there’s just too much of a slippery slope (especially when it comes to speech), and too little agreement between me and government on what constitutes morality/decency for me to make a deal with the devil on the issue.

          • AceInTX

            I’m not advocating federal intervention in this…you guys keep getting hung up on it…I’d prefer to see it done like the movie industry has done it…by private sector boards and standards…

            the Internet already has such a board governing domains, infrastructure and such.

            Again..I’d like to see the Internet…not censored…but maybe segmented into public and private space. Regulate the public…and allow free reign in the private…look at it as I have a street or highway…if it’s not something that would be allowed on a billboard along the highway…it shouldn’t be allowed on the front page of a web site along the information super highway…

            If you can step off the street and get it in a b8urlesqu club, or flick show…then it would be allowed on the private pages of the web,…but I should have to prove I want to enter that private space,…and I should be able to prove I am old enough to be on that space before I can go in.

            and on the flip side…I’d like to see you guys care half as much about the censorship of Christians as you do about unfettered access to pornography on our TVs and web pages

          • AceInTX

            we would take anyone handing out candy to get kids into a peep show and throw their sorry aXXes in jail for doing so…and we should do the same for the freaks and perverts plinking adult links in emails, and web pages either on kid friendly web sites…or who deliberately mask their links to look benign and post smut to be seen by kids…

        • lineholder

          When we as parents teach our kids right and wrong, most of as conservatives will include respecting authority and obedience to authority as being the right thing to do.

          When they go to school, they are under a teacher’s authority. If that teacher tells them, conveys, implies or insinuates that the kind of behavior displayed in this particular situations is okay for them to do, how do you think those children are going to respond?

          And if they disobey, they are likely to face consequences, possibly from the teachers, which teaches them standing up for what is right morally is the WRONG thing to do.

          What it comes down to is that this teacher crossed a line. Period.

          • Doc Holliday

            and no well meaning coservatiive would deny that. But we already have child abuse laws and that teacher will feel the brunt of them.

            Liberals and statists wan a new law every time a crime is commited. Just like those that want new gun control after Arizona.. Down deep they don’t want to stop more crime, they just want to control the people. Murder has been a crime since Cain and Able. We can pass laws upon laws, but we can’t change the nature of man. The liberals think man is God, so they think the intelligenstia can perfect him in their image.

          • lineholder

            into this. You are correct in stating that liberals want laws in place so that they can control people.

            But is it possible that this is something that could be addressed on a state, county or community level?

          • Doc Holliday

            I doubt this i\s an isolated incident.. I would ventuje to guess tje teacjer unions ons played a role.

        • AceInTX

          I have three boys…and I can’t tell you how frustrating it is to sit down and watch something on TV with them…or to look something up on the internet with them.

          It is not like if they see something untoward, they will turn into a pillar of salt. You have to teach them right from wrong, so when they see wrong, they can deal with it.

          We make week conservatives when we shield them from the real world. We make strong conservatives when we teach them to deal with the real world, warts and all.

          so lets just do with all public obscenity laws then…let anyone walk around naked and pork each other on every street corner Doc!

          I know that’s not what you’re saying…but if you take what you ARE saying to it’s logical conclusion…that’s where you end up

          • Doc Holliday

            Ace,.but you keep attacking instead o trying to work togettjer/ O a, om a good mood tonight and trying to understand you view. I still thnk it is up to the parents to raise their kids iright. I am hell at research and h;ave offereed you my servicies. That is really all I can do. I won’t rely on the government to “fix things” because I do not believe in that. YOu can take my help or leave it. You either want some help protecting your kids or you are here to score political points against libertarians. WE care as much about our kids as anyone else. I offered help, but if you keep attacking, for statist reasons, I will just offer my help to someone else.

          • AceInTX

            we wouldn’t have this problem…

            but we’re simultaneously pushing to shut Christians up in their churches while flooding our public life with pornography, profanity, drug abuse and glorifying crassness.

            If you want tp work together with me…how about standing up against censoring my right to speak in public about my faith in Jesus Christ as my LORD and savior without fear of being fired from my job…shouted down by the ACLU…ruled in contempt by our courts…or dragged from the stage at public events for daring to invoke his name?

          • aesthete

            I live in Tucson, so I have the opportunity to defend Christians’ right to self-expression in the real world much more than I do here. Just so happens that on a conservative board, you get more people calling for degenerates to shut up than the opposite. My ideal, as you well know, is not to have Christians shut up: it is to have *no one* shut up.

            As to jobs? I support an employer’s right to fire any one of his employees for any reason (so long as it doesn’t break a contract signed by the two), including racism and other not-so-great things, but yeah, being fired for being a Christian is a lousy reason to get fired and I would neither fire someone for being one nor stand by idly if it happened at my workplace.

          • acat

            I know you know better.

            Mew

          • AceInTX

            when I say care…I don’t mean they want to sut us up…I mean they don’t care when the left…the ACLU…the Feds…The School Districts…the Courts…silence us…if libertarians screamed half as loudly against it as they do about censoring Debbie Does Dallas or whatever filth they insist should be allowed to be pumped into every living room in America…then maybe we wouldn’t be in this mess…

            I hear Liberals and Libertarians harping against book burning and censorship all the time…but let the ACLU force every library in this country to remove the Bible from it’s shelves because of this dreamed up “Separation Of Church And State” farce and all we here is crickets chirping.

            Look at the silence on the crosses in our federal cemeteries…or the banning of the christian flag at our cemeteries flying to honor the sacrifices of our Christian war dead…

            Look at the Hypocrisy of the Supreme Court ruling the Ten Commandments can’t be displayed in our local Court Houses in a chamber surrounded by images of Moses delivering them from Mount Sinai.

            Look at the censorship of our founding documents in our schools sanitizing the writings of Jefferson, Madison and the rest of Christian References to mask the Judeo Christian origins of our founding

            but by all means…let’s turn a blind eye to the book burners on the left…and be complicit in the silencing of Christians in this country…and let’s continue to shriek to the four winds when anyone suggest shielding our children from the raw sewage just a mouse click away on the internet…and let’s act surprised when 8 year old Susie gives eight year old Billy a hummer in front of a room full of eight year olds all the while mocking those of us desperately trying to save our children from the hedonistic excess we have become as a society

          • aesthete

            They may be ignorant on specific cases, but if they are aware of the facts of a given incident, they will support the right to self-expression consistently. Libertarians tend to have very little respect for either social conservatives or social liberals: they just as disdainful of LA’s ban on Happy Meals, affirmative action, college speech codes and the so-called “Fairness Doctrine” as they are of attempts to enact “obscenity laws”, the “family viewing hour”, and attempts to ban pornography.

            Here’s a solution, Ace: how ’bout we work on getting Christians free speech and free expression, and not on banning the speech and expression of others? Because otherwise, you’re just being hypocritical.

          • acat

            Those of us of a more libertarian bent have to overcome the abuse of the word by the ACLU, among others. They’ve been infiltrated, and the left-wing blinders attached a long time ago. How else does an organization dedicated to civil liberty can take on so few cases when the individual being silenced or otherwise having their liberty denied happens to be a conservative of any stripe? Pournelle’s Iron Law applies.

            Mew

          • AceInTX

            Libertarians are perfectly consistent on the issue. They may be ignorant on specific cases, but if they are aware of the facts of a given incident, they will support the right to self-expression consistently.

            on the rest we can agree

            Here

          • acat

            Right next to you, shaking their heads but not organized enough to know what to make of it.

            Or, if you prefer, having about the same reaction to the ACLU’s wrongheadedness that certain SoCons had to the wrongheadedness that is Mike Huckabee…soft condemnation because “so much good is done in other areas”.

            Mew

          • AceInTX
          • acat

            The internet “sewer” entering a house is, IMO, the responsibility of the homeowner, just like ‘lectricity, telephone, gas, etc. The danger is different from the gas or power line, and like homeowners when gaslights were new, there’s going to need to be some cultural knowledge about managing the internet that needs to take place.

            First generation growing up around new tech is always hard, but as others have said, there are choices… it may require parents to learn some new skills… and to talk to other parents to make sure they also have these skills before sending your little ones into their care… similar to what your parents had to do to make sure your friends’ dads’ magazines were well hidden, no?

            As for the kids, they’ve been marinating in this culture their whole lives, and now that their hormones are kicking in, they’re going to try out what they’ve learned. How have they learned it? The problem isn’t getting them off the internet, that ship has sailed. The genie is out of the bottle. Shriek if you need to but at the end of the day, the best thing to look to is the future and how to help them make better choices, no?

            Mew

          • catt

            My kids are young enough that it hasn’t been much of an issue yet but I know it will be. In fact to some extent it already is … as the older one learns to read I *really* need to find a firefox filter to block youtube comments, which can be pretty nasty even on the videos that are otherwise perfectly fine for kids. (Recommendations welcome!)

            When they’re old enough to use the internet on their own I think I can figure out the technology for appropriate filtering within our own house. I can restrict their usage to the computer in the family room, etc. I can try to keep them from going to friends houses unless I know those parents are also taking similar precautions.

            Then I think about all the other ways they’ll have access to the internet as they get older. How long will it be until many of their friends have smartphones of some kind with full access to the internet during recess? Probably not as long as I would like. Certainly by middle school. Maybe even grade school.

            As a libertarian I’m reflexively opposed to censorship. Even if I thought that kind of filtering should be done by government imposition … the very idea of which makes me shudder … it wouldn’t be possible. China funnels all internet content for the entire country through a central location, or so I’ve heard, and even that’s not sufficient.

            I think it’s my job as a parent to prepare my kids, as best I can, for what they will face, because I won’t always be able to filter what they can and cannot see.

          • AceInTX

            As a libertarian I

          • catt

            You say “short of government intervention” and then talk about “requiring anyone posting …”. But wouldn’t that requirement be in the form of a law, i.e., government intervention? Otherwise how would it work?

            Practically speaking, I think even if I were willing to consider asking the government to do such a thing, it simply wouldn’t work. On many levels. You can’t get any broad agreement on what constitutes “pornographic images” … so who would we trust to know it when they saw it? Or to try to put into legalese some description of what is pornographic and what is not? Should this hypothetical law draw the line to err on the side of allowing the “gray areas” and excluding only the clearest cases? Or err on the side of restricting the “gray areas”? Asking the government to write a law to implement either approach, or to split the difference for that matter, seems like a very bad idea.

            I strongly suspect that to a large extent it’s the insidious stuff that does the most damage for younger kids. Getting rid of our TV was a decision I’ll never regret.

            If you want a law that tries to find language that would agree with your personal ideas of what’s pornographic and what’s not, and could get enough people to agree with you to make it happen, you’ve still got a huge gray area to protect your kids from. Then you need a huge law enforcement effort to try to enforce that restriction, and there will be too many small sites to chase down while the law goes after the big ones. You’ll spend a lot of money on that law enforcement because there are a *lot* of people putting content on the web. Foreign sites and foreign spammers using machines infected by viruses to create huge spam-forwarding networks would be hard to stop. A lot of money would be spent to accomplish very little.

            It’s worse than that! Even if Congress wrote a law defining “pornographic” in some way and required a tag on anything fitting that definition, including pictures and web pages and email and youtube comments and everything else, and if that law carried penalties that would be suitably deterrent and if there were enough funding put into the legal forces needed to pursue violators of the statute so that the penalties were enforced to a significant degree, all you gain is to have a slightly better chance of using a filter to control what gets into your own home.

            If grade school kids have droid phones at school, kids huddled in the corners of the school yard at recess could be looking at anything. The tags that help you do a marginally better job of filtering stuff at your doorstep make it even easier to pull up the most graphic content when surfing the internet unfiltered.

            You can already filter things at your doorstep quite strictly. You can use a “white list” to allow only access to sites you approve instead of filtering out the bad ones. You can only allow email with people on an approved list of contacts. Trusting some system of government required tags would do much less to control access. In the end though filtering what gets into your house isn’t really solving the problem and I think everyone here, libertarian or not, would agree that trying to filter content at the national level is a *really* bad idea.

          • AceInTX

            why have any standards at all since we can’t agree on anything…let’s just give up and allow anything goes?

            you mention getting rid of the TV…but what about the internet…it’s much more insidious and try getting anything done today without it. Try paying your bills….setting appointments…try getting your kid’s homework done without it…

            and while I’m at try getting your kids homework done on the internet without being confronted with links to pornographic images…try it…

            I don’t buy that we can’t do anything about it…I believe it’s the attitude that there is nothing we can do but tolerate it that has allowed it to get as bad as it is…

            can’t we even agree that if Paul the pervert is masking pornographic links as kid friendly material he should be hauled off in irons? Would you tolerate it if he were on a street corner passing off porn to kids disguised as comic books?

          • aesthete

            things are moving towards this on the ‘tubes: disclaimers like “NSFW” weren’t around in the early internet, and spamming isn’t as rampant as it once was. You can find great discussion boards like RS, where moderation is done with a heavy hand for the benefit of the posting community. IOW, many of the problems that result from the Internet have been resolved by the market, and many more are being resolved as we speak (witness te rise of professional news aggregators, less intrusive ads, etc). There is, fortunately, a strong incentive for site owners to set standard for customers or potential customers. Child friendly (or more accurately, parent-appeasing :) ) sites are simply more likely to attract readers and ad money, particularly when they have to do with subjects that attract parents or children: Lego.com and women’s lifestyle mags have brand name that they are not interested in sullying by allowing objectionable material on their site. I wish they would hurry up with fixing these problems (I’m sure you do too), but at least they are being resolved.

          • catt

            “and while I

          • acat
          • AceInTX

            but first let me get part of this out of the way…these children are 8 years old…no hormones to mention here.

            Now for my analogy…

            Lets say you’ve got Paul the Pervert living down the street….and Paul the Pervert takes the cover off latest Bugs Bunny Comic and slips in hustler magazines and starts passing it out to the kids on the street…

            Are you saying we shouldn’t have laws on the books to deal with Paul Pervert?

            This is what’s happening with the internet….

            I don’t know if you have kids but just sit down and start Googling words at random…and click on links from one page to the next at random…

            I defy you to do it for more than 30 minutes without being confronted with a link to go to some porn site

          • acat

            There are laws, Ace. Usually “contributing to the delinquency of a minor” or something along those lines, or maybe “violating community decency standards”.

            The problem is that you’re looking at the internet like a community. Wrong analogy. It’s a service, like gas or electric or water. It may contain communities, or rather, contain access to them – but it is not itself a community.

            There’s no digital sheriff to ride to your rescue, and no laws to determine what can and can’t be in the pipe. How could there be? It would take a world governemnt… and I really don’t think that’s the direction you’re going.

            Here’s why I keep looking at your cable modem or dsl box as a utility – within the walls of Casa Ace, you are master – and your plumbing, electric, and gas already do your bidding – they’re piped or wired to where you want them to go, with appropriate controls in place, right?

            What you need to do is to apply the same principles to your internet service. Instead of looking for the internet to change, make the way it is presented inside Casa Ace change. That’s both within your right and, IMO, something that a homeowner should – going forward – know how to do.

            The equivalent of lightswitches aren’t quite to the same level of simplicity yet, so you’re going to have to learn a lot more about how to configure your router to block certain sites, and maybe put in a firewall box that blocks by keyword… They’re out there…and by blocking on the router – the digital equivalent of your fuse box – it’s in a place where the kiddoes can’t easily get at it to work around it.

            We don’t let kids turn on the gas and play with matches, nor do we let them stick forks into outlets … you’re describing the same thing – unfettered access to a utility – and in all other cases, safety is the responsibility of the homeowner.

            If I were to build and activate a router with these rules, I could surf random keywords all day and while I’d get redirected to a safe site every so often, I would not get porn links. For my family, this approach no longer makes sense, but I did use various similar tools when my kid was younger.

            As for handheld devices, parents will need to demand the same kind of control. If you paid for the hardware and are paying for the service, there’s no reason – other than lack of perceieved demand – for the providers not to grant parental controls. … or parents need to not buy them for the kids. What kid really needs an iPhone?

            As for the kids, since neither of us have access to the lab tests netiher of us can know whether there are hormones involved or not – but there is certainly normal juvenile curiosity involved. “Why are the older siblings so interested in X?” This is not a problem caused by “the internet” – this is a problem caused by parenting not keeping up with technology.

            Going back to the beginning of this reply, the original fix to your hypothetical creep – back when most kids learned about the birds and the bees from the cows and horses – was for the fathers to kick the creep’s {ahem} if the offended child was female, and for the birds-and-bees talk to move up if the child was male. The laws I mentioned above replaced – more or less – the beatings.

            Mew

          • AceInTX

            it’s like a crack dealer passing off crack rocks as sugar cubes for the little kiddies…we wouldn’t tolerate it on the street…so why do we tolerate it on the internet?

          • acat

            It is the responsibility of the homeowner.

            Your crack dealer analogy proves my point more than yours – it’s up to the homeowners to get crack houses shut down, eh?

            Mew

          • AceInTX

            that was brought up in answer to it being the parents responsibility to police what their kids see…the argument was…so how do you deal with your kid seeing trash on his friend’s I Phone at School…

            That’s the reason it was brought into the discussion…so…if it’s my responsibility…and the libertarian argument is that if my kid is bombarded with pornographic images it’s my fault that he’s been exposed to it…how am I to deal with the fact that half the kids in my kids school carry I Phones?

            the libertarian arguments in this always come down to

            1)we can’t agree on what pornography is or what our kids should be exposed to

            2) It’s the parents responsibility to protect their kids

            Therefore it doesn’t matter what kids are exposed to and if Susie goes down on Billy in his second grade class room blame the parents…blame the teacher who wasn’t paying attention…but whatever you do…don’t blame the pervert down the street posting fisting, Scat, and B&D videos online disguised as Mickey Mouse Club.

            I get it…I don’t like it…but I get it

          • acat

            the nudie mags that got passed around in your generation, Ace?

            Seriously, the only thing the internet does for porn and kids is the same thing it does for airlines or news or conservative thought – makes it easier and faster to find …

            I’m happy to agree with you right down the line as far as what should be shown to kids – should be up to the parents. As I said, though, those same parents have to start demanding lockdown software, and – just as your parents had to do, Ace – have to know who their kids are associating with.

            Mew

      • aesthete

        or install K-9 Web Protection: both are options that are easily available, cost nooneu, and (best of all) resolve the problem without depriving others of their liberty. I have watched the homeschooling community raise some excellent kids. As Reagan might have put it, the solutions may not be easy, but they are simple. Parenting, as all things in life, takes work if you want to be good at it. Parents certainly should be making sure that the state is not depriving them of the liberty to raise and teach their children as they see fit, but they have no right to demand that government take from someone’s livelihood (or range of choices) to cater to their desires.

        • powertothepeople

          schools send notices, homework, via the net. They have the kids research using the net. They have them take tests via the net. Schools, churches, and other activities utilize and require net and tv usage.We have long past the days when simply throwing out your computer solves the problem.

          And as far as parent controls and blocker programs, they are not very effective overall. Granted, they can block openly immoral sites, sites that openly depict violence, etc but a vast majority of sites hide their true content along with disguising what their content is, a parent, child, or just some person goes to a site expecting to look up garden hose and the hoses depicted could only water the garden with pee. Emails spoof friends list and other contacts, state something to the effect “you are invited to my birthday party” and when the kid opens his “friends” invite, they get to see plenty of birthday suits and little birthday invites. Programs and parent controls do not stop this or do not stop it for long.

          I for one am not asking for big government to step in and clean up the internet and TV. What I am asking for, and I do not think it is too much, is for truth is what is on your site or what you send me so that I can make sure my family is protected. There is no reason what sites can not be required to admit what is on their site without disguising it, why companies who send these emails can not be forced to be truthful, and why TV can not be controlled to the point that during “family hours’ adult material is kept off the screen.

          Even the most ardent of observing parents can not possibly monitor their child 24/7. We have to pee sometimes, grab a drink, stand and stretch, answer the phone and we should not have to worry about the show SKIN throwing on some foul advertisement during woody woodpecker. We should also not have to desperately grab for the remote during a required history channel show (for the school) because some victoria secrets advertisement just threw up a 40 second block of barely dressed women set in sexual poses at 7 pm.

          I want less government, but at the same time, sometimes laws are required to protect ourselves from unwanted intrusion and deceptive programs. And asking for such protection during reasonable family hours is not defining morality for you.

          • AceInTX
    • aesthete

      There are some sick people in the world: that’s just a fact. You can’t blame anyone for it but Adam and Eve, and the persons responsible for the act. This is the worst kind of post and a sharp deviation from what have been well thought-out OPs on concurd’s part. This is not Bill Clinton’s fault anymore than the scandals in the Catholic church were the fault of the Church as an institution or the Pope as spiritual leader. I’m not a fan of the guy, but I’m even less a fan of indicting people and groups for what they haven’t done. If the law needs fixing, fix it! If someone needs punishing, punish him! Assigning Clinton the blame for this incident deprives those responsible of moral agency.

      • conservativecurmudgeon

        I am not “blaming” Bill Clinton, insofar as, clearly, he was not personally there to instruct the youngsters in technique and so on. I said we “had him to thank”. But, what I am saying (and quite robustly) is that when the President of the United States very, very publicly gets away with the nonsense that oral sex isn’t somehow sex, yes, it has a very coarsening effect on the culture. This simply cannot be denied.

        Can you imagine a scenario in your mind where you transplant today’s social norms into, say, the 1940′s, and not think the prevailing culture as reflected by, and in accordance with, the President? I can’t. This doesn’t make him an uber-man, but it does speak to the influences a leader exerts.

        In fact, there has been a tsunami of oral sex in middle- and high-school, and the kids alternatively dismiss it, calling it “getting a Clinton”, It is defended on the grounds that it isn’t, somehow, “sexual relations”. Back before President Clinton, I seem to recall it was a rather explicitly sexual act. That’s changed exclusively because of Clinton.

        And, broadly speaking, the reference to the Pope is rather appropriate. The Pope was very responsible for what happened after the scandals were uncovered, in that he did very little beyond paying hush money, and moving priest around. And, it did enormous harm to the Church. Like Clinton, the Fish rots from the head.

        • aesthete

          the passive-aggressive asides that liberals used to defend their blaming of Palin and other conservatives: ClimateOfHate

          • conservativecurmudgeon

            But, again, we are talking about minor children. And, I knew the discussion would eventually bleed into this, which I find a bit of a straw-dog argument because we are talking about children, not consenting adults.

            Sarah Palin never once came close to suggesting that killing congresswomen was a good cure for social ills. Never, ever, ever, and it is a vicious slander by those that propagate it. Bill Clinton, by suborning perjury, obstructing justice and implicating the Senate in his misdeeds by their acquittal, at least tacitly DID suggest to society that oral sex really isn’t sex, and it became enshrined in the public record.

            Did this redound directly to the events in the second grade in Oakland? I hold that it does, at least partly so, in providing the background music. Put it this way: If George H.W. Bush had been president in 1995, would we be more, or less, stunned by the behavior of the children in Oakland?

          • aesthete

            If your argument is that morality flows from the leader downwards, why did GWB and Obama’s sexual integrity not flow downwards in like manner? Thanks for making clear that you aren’t blaming society in place of those directly responsible, and for interacting with civility and grace as opposed to being defensive — I always enjoy reading your posts for that reason. However, I still have to say that the argument is fallacious, and left hanging: if Bill Clinton and “society” are to blame, what should they be held liable for? What Clinton did was certainly morally wrong, but at this juncture, there is no proof that what he did has anything to do with Oakland.

          • aesthete

            I firmly believe that sex is a very good thing, and that it was designed by God. Should a rapist cite my statement to blame me for his actions? I guess he could, but I would hope that he would be laughed out of the courtroom for such an assertion. Likewise, Clinton’s actions were wrong, but between two consenting adults. It is inappropriate to assume that he would hold this as equal to the actions of two prepubescent minors, or that the minors, teacher, or parents thought that Clinton’s ridiculous semantic argument regarding oral sex were valid, and thus reasons to allow abuse and the incident to occur.

            Ugh, I feel like I should take a shower after defending Clinton’s sexual practices. :)

  • conservativecurmudgeon

    I know when I went to school, all those dark years ago, there was a tacit understanding that the parents didn’t need to go to school as CHAPERONS to shield them from the teachers, which –I guess I wasn’t aware– are by nature sexual predators.

    I guess I need to sit down with my two boys and make absolutely sure each day that they haven’t been sexually assaulted by their teachers, and then, by the way, explain what that means– they are both in lower elementary where, in an age of sanity, it would assume a certain level of modesty and innocence would be observed. But, I guess we can’t take anything for granted in a society that has evidently yielded every inch of cultural mores to the immodest and profane.

    And that means we should surrender the battle. I don’t think so.

    I am not “attacking” any conservative. But I am rather fed up with the notion that those who hold strongly to the belief that polite society has cultural guardrails that ought to be respected should be shown the back of the public policy bus.

    Tho opposite has worked rather well, wouldn’t you say?

    And this grotesque incident IS Bill Clinton’s fault, in that the party he lead has consistently upheld the libertine, hedonistic social mores that absolutely condones and encourages this sort of thing; Remember Marian Wright Edleman’s lawsuit brought by the Children’s Defense Fund to ensconce the right of minor children to SUE their parents? This incident, by the way, is no singular “outlier” either.

  • jone

    DAVID LETTERMAN’S HATE, ETC. !

    David Letterman’s hate is as old as some ancient Hebrew prophets.
    Speaking of anti-Semitism, it’s Jerry Falwell and other fundy leaders who’ve gleefully predicted that in the future EVERY nation will be against Israel (an international first?) and that TWO-THIRDS of all Jews will be killed, right?
    Wrong! It’s the ancient Hebrew prophet Zechariah who predicted all this in the 13th and 14th chapters of his book! The last prophet, Malachi, explains why this future Holocaust will outdo even Hitler’s by stating that “Judah hath dealt treacherously” and “the Lord will cut off the man that doeth this” and asks “Why do we deal treacherously every man against his brother?”
    Haven’t evangelicals generally been the best friends of Israel and persons perceived to be Jewish? Then please explain the recent filthy, hate-filled, back-stabbing tirades by David Letterman (and Sandra Bernhard, Larry David, Kathy Griffin, Bill Maher, Joan Rivers and Sarah Silverman) against leading evangelicals like Sarah Palin and Michele Bachmann, and explain why most Jewish leaders have seemingly condoned Palin’s continuing “crucifixion”!
    While the above anti-evangelical haters are tragically turning comedy into tragedy, they are helping to speed up and fulfill the Final Holocaust a la Zechariah and Malachi, thus helping to make the Bible even more believable!
    For other unusual goodies on Google, type in “Obama Fulfilling the Bible,” “Michelle Obama’s Allah-day,” “Un-Americans Fight Franklin Graham,” “Pretrib Rapture Dishonesty,” and “Stamping Out Harold Camping.”

  • http://www.thejoyofreason.com Greg Garrison

    Given the explicit sexual behavior of these children, it is likely (though not certain) that one of them, perhaps both, has been sexually molested, inappropriately touched, or exposed to a significant amount of sexually explicit material. While we all fear the trenchcoated creep in a tint-windowed van, the majority of sexual abuse cases involve a trusted individual: uncle, cousin, sibling, babysitter, even parent.

    This is not to say that vulgar television and pornography don’t play a role. They contribute to a coarsening of the culture, and I think that the prevalence of porn on the Internet probably encourages people with a proclivity for perversion to pursue it.

    I don’t know what the ideal level of government involvement is. There should probably be some set of standards, and it sounds like tv has gotten outrageous lately (I don’t watch tv except via the Internet), but there has to be private responsibility too. Steve Jobs and his anti-porn stance in the app store is a great example. (How much do you want to bet that the government calls apple’s software standards monopolistic and makes them change? Oh well, I’ll enjoy it while it lasts.)

    We use a great filter called Safe Eyes on the kid computer to prevent them from seeing inappropriate nonsense (It allows separate profiles for separate kids and catches most stuff), and we don’t have cable or watch much regular tv. Streaming Netflix Instant View to the wii, roku box, and ps3 allows us to control and monitor all tv consumption but lets them stay current with Hannah Montana, Jonas, etc. (Blech.)

    I don’t know enough about the teacher or classroom to draw a conclusion without facts. I expect my second graders’ teachers to know what is going on in their classroom. There’s probably some culpability there, but many districts have cut teaching assistants, and a couple of problem children of special needs kids can be so distracting and time-consuming that the other kids suffer.

    I think that the decline of traditional morality and the family structure probably play a contributing role. I think that incentivizing irresponsible behavior has done incalculable harm, just as the decline of the traditional family (particularly in the inner city) has harmed millions of children.

    A final factor that we should consider is the power of mass communications. Because of the Internet and the 24/7/365 tragedy tv, we are aware of kidnappings, weird murders, and headline-grabbing classroom incidents across the country more than we used to be aware of such things in our hometown. This isn’t to diminish the horror of this individual case. It really is awful. We are a nation of 1/3 of a billion people, though, and human nature being as unpleasant as it often is, all sorts of awful things happen every day, especially when deviance and maladaptive sexual behavior are tolerated and even, at times, promoted as entertainment.

    • conservativecurmudgeon

      And I VERY much appreciate your recommendations and observations

      But, I will point out that we have entire sciences devoted to the ability of marketeers to influence folks to purchase material things using sounds and images. It is a very correct thing to do in a capitalist society. We’ve taken to calling such communication “commercial speech”.

      Why then, do we tend to take the attitude that the human consciousness is, at the same time, somehow unaffected by the non-commercial images of depraved murder, the sexually perverse, and so on? We have shown, through Supreme Court decision after Supreme Court decision that we have no problem putting limits on commercial speech. I simply find it interesting that we find commercial speech more harmful than depraved, profane, or pornographic speech.

      • aesthete

        Simply not affected to large enough of a degree that one can transfer moral agency to commercial makers rather than individuals who undertake actions. Just as I cannot blame a fast-talking salesman for buying a crappy car that, on some level, I knew was crappy, I can’t blame movies for me committing adultery.

        • conservativecurmudgeon

          The kids fellating one another are not.

          Obviously, they’ve been abused in one form or another. No child just decides that, one day, let’s start giving each other oral sex. They had to see it somewhere, which by itself is the definition of abuse.

          And this is where the permissive nature of the culture very clearly comes into the equation. A culture that didn’t countenance sexual predators, in all forms, would have fewer abusers, because there would be real, palpable consequences to the act of abuse. As it is now, we tend to turn a blind eye to them.

          • redneck_hippie

            remind everyone to access the online state database of sexual predators. I was unlucky enough to find out that an adult male “peeping Tom” moved into my neighborhood this fall. Is it unrelated that the house next door went on the market within a month or 2?

            Of course the do-gooders would do away with this tool for concerned members of the community.

          • aesthete

            OTOH, their parents and teachers are. There is, again, no indication that “society” was the defining factor in this case: the vast majority of children and adults believe such incidents to be beyond the pale. I don’t think that we have a culture amenable to predators: “stranger danger” is as much a factor as it ever was, and both liberals and conservatives (with some odd exceptions) believe that preying on children to satiate a sick sexual appetite is both sick and should be criminalized. I believe that these kids were abused (possibly by the teacher who got suspended? the parents?), and that the abuser should be brought to justice. But we shouldn’t transfer the blame from the pervert (or whoever caused this) to society at large, no matter how banal society has gotten.

          • conservativecurmudgeon

            Clearly, each of us is answerable for the action we take. But, if a culture tends to favor, say, cannibalism, then cannibalism will be looked on more or less with favor by those that commit it, even if our natures tend to inform us that such behavior is probably not good.

            Society, and the boundaries set by public policy, play an IMPORTANT role. This isn’t arguable, in my view. Call it the Laffer Curve of acceptable norms.

            And yes, when we dig deeper into this hideous event in Oakland, we will likely find a majority of those children involved come from non-traditional, or broken, homes, where the boyfriends come and go, the siblings are interchangeable (and each comes with their own set of sexual perversion and abuse issues, which they then take out on the little ones), and there is no reining moral enforcement beyond chaos and abuse.

            This was less a problem in the days before no-fault divorce– a point of intersection in our discussion about SoCons and FiCons. I would advocate a return to Covenantal Marriage laws which would make it much more difficult to divorce, and even more difficult to abandon children without severe punishment.

          • http://www.thejoyofreason.com Greg Garrison

            The horror of two eight-year-olds having oral sex is, to borrow from Hitchcock, a MacGuffin. Like Rosebud, R2-D2, the Maltese Falcon, and Harry’s corpse (in The Trouble With Harry), the central device propelling this conversation is not the most important thing. In other words, we are talking about two children, but what we are actually discussing is the wisdom of limiting or removing the legal constraints on various media.

            Saving the children is the easiest way to justify unwanted governmental action, from seat belts to global warming, and so we should be especially cautious when

          • aesthete

            as all of life is about tradeoffs. However, a discussion of tradeoffs can only take you so far: earlier today, someone tried arguing that abortion was good for America because it prevented future criminals from being born. Whether his assumption was correct or not is besides the point: there are some things for which even the possibility of a tradeoff should be off-limits as givernment is concerned. Just as a negative right to llife and equal treatment under law are non-negotiables, speech is a non-negotiable for me. The Bible describes the tongue as having the power of life and death, and history will attest to that: wars have been won, countries liberated, and lives restored as a result of the tongue. It is a fundament of any democratic society that we free to speak our piece without being dragged before a tribunal to defend our position under pain of imprisonment, and communication is the building block for every cooperative human venture, both good and bad. Attempts to regulate speech are, in essence, attempts to control and socially engineer all human activity through proxy, and the Founders wisely foresaw speech control as a lure too great to allow government the power to control it. The ambiguity of what conservatives (including myself) want as an end-state in conjunction with government’s natural tendency to grow and control do not mix well, and I will freely admit to being a zealot and an absolutist on this issue. There is no speech policing law whose described benefits are of sufficient value to make up for the damage done by regulating speech.

          • bobmontgomery

            ….just like they don’t all of a sudden decide it would be a good idea for Johnny to have “Two Mommies” and they don’t bring that book into the class room to share on their own and their parents don’t decide they should be taught that. And before someone reading this starts hollering “Threadjack”, hold your water. We are all at fault here and we all know it. But our fault more often than not isn’t condoning these things or going along with them, it is abdicating our responsibility to know what is going on and to go to the school board and tell them you will not allow this in our schools or we will burn them down, whether you are in them or not. Is that radical enough? Now, definitions of sex to the contrary notwithstanding, who is it that has more of an interest in promoting the concept that oral sex is an ideal? Not just on it’s own merits but for it’s usefulness in the idealistic, non-traditional free and “open”
            society that we all want to have if we can just eliminate “stereotyping” of certain behaviors? Enough said. See, you don’t have to promote your agenda directly, all you have to do is either tacitly or directly aid and abet in activities, or exercises, or curriculums that lessen or ridicule any innate or predisposed aversion to it. If anyone here denies that the homosexual agenda has been promoted in the public schools, then one will probably pooh-pooh the notion that sex in general has been promoted in the public school. No one on these pages is that naive. Eight, you say? How far is that removed from ten, eleven? How about a little ‘diversity’, kids? Isn’t ‘diversity’ good’? Oh, yes, teacher!

  • lineholder

    about this today. After I logged off RS this morning, I went to Drudge and printed up copies of their statement of the facts as we know them to date. I took them to work with me and gave them to some moms that I work with.

    Their first response was to laugh and say, “This is a joke, isn’t it?” When I told them it wasn’t, most of them became grim and a few of them cried. They kept the copies I made and even printed more copies. A few of them plan to take copies to present to their pastors at church on Sunday.

    After I got home, I started surfing the Net. There are a lot of people out there who have the same basic mindset about this that we have…that it’s repulsive and that we are losing our children.

    A few sites, like gawker, are truly perverted in their response, but considering the source…. One person even made the comment that “the Planned Parenthood videos must be working like a charm.” No sarcasm in that statement either. The poster approved of this “progress”.

  • http://minorcan-maven.blogspot.com/ minorcanmaven

    That’s all I have to say to this post!

  • runner12

    that the students who were engaged in these acts were victims of sexual abuse. I would begin the investigation by looking into the homes where these students live. This kind of behavior is so deviant and unnatural that it raises many red flags.