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Small Businesses, Big Sacrifices

[Dan Bongino is running for US Senator from Maryland. Promoted from the diaries by streiff.]

I awoke this morning at 5am to the sound of my six month old daughter Amelia crying. When I entered her dark room I saw my wife, struggling to stay awake, holding Amelia in one arm as she was attempting to work on her barely lit computer screen with her other arm. My wife Paula is an entrepreneur and a business owner, she also happens to be a first generation immigrant, who suffered through much chasing her American dream–all of her hard work culminating in her pledging allegiance to our flag as part of her citizenship ceremony, still one of the proudest days of our lives.

I am writing of this incident because it succinctly describes a scenario repeating itself all over America today. Small business owners are making incredible sacrifices in the struggle to keep their businesses afloat. This is the reason the President’s “you didn’t build that” comment has infuriated Americans across the political spectrum. The simple fact is that my wife did build “that.” She built her business, through countless hours of hard work and a commitment to a quality work product. I marvel daily at the countless hours she spends at her home office designing and repairing small business websites. She is the very epitome of the American dream, collectively enhanced but most importantly, self-made and personally driven.

The President’s statements are equally infuriating because he is attempting to create a fissure between Americans where there isn’t one. No Republican I am aware of is running for office on a platform of no taxes, no roads, no teachers and no military. I cite these examples because the President chose to mention the use of roads, the work of good teachers and the development of the backbone of the modern internet, through a military research initiative, as examples of how government should be the primary recipient of accolades for individual success. This is absurd and displays a backward logic which is hard to justify. It is the very success of people, such as my wife, willing to put their names behind a business endeavor, with no guarantee of success, that finance the government’s spending and projects the President speaks of. It is my wife’s–along with millions of others struggling for a better tomorrow–sweat, toil and willingness to take a risk that has made America exceptional amongst nations, not its roads.

The economy is clearly struggling, Americans are hurting and they are scared. Scared, that for the first time, yesterday may have been the best it was ever going to be. This has never been a part of our national psyche. The President’s statements will haunt him in this election as they echo all over our vast country. As my wife and I struggle through this wretched recovery, I feel the pain of Americans hoping and praying that there is a better tomorrow and I ask the President to stop creating division by asking who built what, and to focus on getting our growing legion of unemployed Americans, just asking for a chance to build anything, back to work.

Dan Bongino is a Republican nominee for U.S. Senate from the state of Maryland. He is a decorated Secret Service Agent who served under three presidential administrations, and was the lead security representative for the United States for foreign presidential visits.  Dan is a small business entrepreneur who has obtained graduate degrees in both Psychology and Business Administration. His wife Paula is a first generation immigrant and a successful business owner. Dan and Paula have two children, 8 year old Isabel and newborn Amelia. Follow Dan on his Facebook page and on Twitter. His campaign website is www.BONGINO.com.

COMMENTS

  • Xasteius

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  • kowalski

    All the small businesses I know are hurting – and they’re hurting more than they were even 1 year ago. That’s across the board from restaurants to service businesses to real estate to construction to auto dealerships to technological services and everywhere else I look among everyone I know.

    We’re moving into a long-term poverty nation with increasingly humongous government expenditures, which is going to lead to hardship and increasing social unrest.

    It’s Poverty Nation. That’s where we’re headed with this President.

    http://news.yahoo.com/us-poverty-track-rise-highest-since-1960s-112946547–finance.html?_esi=1

    • kowalski

      Are the ones who are telling everyone else that nothing is wrong. Increasingly in the next few years they’re going to feel the bite and somewhere I guess in 2020 America will wake up and start to realize what went wrong.

    • kowalski

      By increasing crackdowns on civil liberties by governmental authorities and the cycle is going to self-perpetuate until, if nothing is done, by about 2020-2025 America is going to resemble very closely the America that existed in “Minority Report” – a small class of elite workers who live in relative protection and wealth and a huge nation full of squalor, people living in horrendous conditions, monitored by robots.

      That’s where we’re going at FULL SPEED AHEAD.

  • ladsmith

    …a small class of elite workers who live in relative protection and wealth and a huge nation full of squalor, people living in horrendous conditions, monitored by robots.
    Exactly. Thanks to the Citizend United decision. The extremely buying offices, concentrating power in the hands of a wealthy minority. By the way, has anyone out there seen the movie “White Man’s Burden”?
    • Locked and Loaded

      It seems a shame to let this dimwit ladsmith dirty up such a spectacular post. Isn’t it time to show him the door? His posting history is pure drivel.

    • http://www.hakubi.us/ Neil Stevens

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      • checkmate2012

        wow. I just read his comment to “Please help a 62..” by emptybucket and it was awful.

        That post above was pure nonsense like he/she is. Wow, please get help.

        Thank you Neil, as usual.

      • proudmarinemom

        and Barack Obama has asserted publicly that he is entitled to confiscate more of our income to build his own sad little empire, we have little incentive to focus on that business. Instead, we’ll devote the next three months to the single-minded purpose of crushing his ambitions.

        In some ways, he has given us a gift, because we now know that we have little to lose in fighting him, and everything to lose in failing to wage that fight.

        Passing this diary along to my very large family in Maryland and sending a donation to Dan Bongino today.

        • lionelpeach

          that Obama’s election was a gift. Progressives and Leftists have been incrementally subverting our values for years. And it’s foolish to think that they will ever stop. The don’t know how! And now in order to play their endgame, they have necessarily shown their faces and true intentions. We ARE in the endgame I believe. The masks are off from top to bottom, so thank you Mr. Obama. Now get the hell out.

  • emptybucket

    understand the basic truth at the very soul of most American hearts…we believe in ourselves! Hard work, sacrifice & generosity of spirit are all found in most Conservatives. Obama’s desire to divide our great country into the “haves” and “have nots” has drawn us all into a battle that when we step back and have a good look at it, is contrived by a man with delusions of godhood.

    Obama must go so that your dear wife Paula can be even more successful.

    BTW those middle of the night needs of our children turn out to be great memories in our old age. Cherish them!

    God bless you both Dan and keep up your hard work – get elected!

  • Mike Ferguson

    The Presidents statement just goes to show how liberals truly feel about the idea personal responsibility and freedom.

    If someone commits a heinous crime then it was the fault of is poor economic state, his improvised upbringing, or (my personal favorite) “Society made him do it!”

    The same goes for success. You couldn’t have been personally responsible for your success, it had to be that you build yourself up on the backs of others.

    The Presidents statement show just how much her really is against America and the things that made us a world power.

    God Bless you and your wife. Hopefully we will be calling you Senator very, very soon.

  • heavemout
    When Obama said
  • CMaree

    give flesh and bones to the reality of red line statistics. Many small businesses in our area struggled to survive, too many have shut their doors this year. These businesses ran by gutsy entrepreneurs who employed young teens, collegiates, single moms, single dads, married moms or dads–our neighbors! Too many of these out of work Americans now survive off the teats of nanny government.

    Wake up to your civic duty and vote this election. For Marylanders do consider Dan Bongino for Senate.

  • malvernpa

    Years ago going through a terrible divorce I literally ended up with nothing, hardly a dollar in my pocket, living actually in an office I rented. The divorce came about because my small business was having problems and after 20 years of business and marriage I learned that I was only an open check book. I asked two trusted friends what they thought I should do and they both said the same thing, you must get up and back in business. Without any money that is what I did. There was a day early on when I was injured at work, pulled every tendon in my leg in an accident. I needed supplies for a customer, stood in a parking lot of the big box store and said to myself “I cannot take another step” the pain was so intense. I had no health insurance either at that time. I hopped on one leg with the help of a cart to fulfill the needs of my customer. The electorate that Obama is trying to appeal to would have applied for disability. I did not. Through the pain that went on for months I kept going.

    The business grew and as I write this today I am sitting in a house that I will retire to in 7 years is a seaside town 200 miles from my work. I am here and writing this because since 2008 business has again declined, down 40% since Obama came to office. Normally I would be here only a few times every quarter. Better cash management has allowed me to so far survive this economic Obamageddon so far. Obama would say I was one of the lucky ones, I did not do it myself. A lucky guy with a house at the shore. Business is down because 40% of my small business customers have gone under. Advertising is bringing in no new business. The important point here is that Obama and his crew have never faced those kind of struggles, they would advocate government assistance of some kind. Take assistance from government and you just got a new business partner, the GOVERNMENT. There is no worse partner one can have than government. For a man like that to have the audacity to speculate on what I have or have not done to survive as a small business person is the most absurd thing I have ever heard from a political figure. It is spoken out of complete ignorance of small business and what makes us tick. We do it to see if we can do it and for the freedom it gives us if we achieve success. There is no freedom in a government hand out. There is no pride in food stamps or liberty in a welfare check. One cannot leave government assistance to their children and grandchildren. Obama has no concept of what I speak, how in the world can he understand what needs to be done to allow us to succeed. I say allow because it is government that is killing business in America today not that we have lost our edge as he also said some months ago, lets not forget that one either, remember we got soft.

  • CMaree

    that the elites need to read and heed. Thing is the elites live in the abstract, in that utopian smog of socialist smugness.
    Thank you for being part of the backbone of America’s greatness–entrepreneurs who risk savings, life, and limbs (in you case tendons) to meet customers’ needs.